Girls, why don't you tell us what the limits are?
* Does she want me to "go downtown" or is she uptight about her personal odor/taste?
* Is she open to me using a vibrator on her?
* If she starts giving me oral sex, should I just enjoy it and maybe she will allow me to cum in her mouth OR maybe she will throw up and then run away.
* If I touch her "back there," will she freak out or ask for more?
I could ask her, "Hey. Would you like to try anal sex?" If she isn't into that, I wonder whether she will think that I am a freak and I will never see her again.
Once upon a time (2007,) a new girlfriend agreed to have sex and, when we got in bed, she told me
a. she likes to have her nipples caressed and sucked,
b. she likes to give oral sex but doesn't want to receive oral sex,
c. if she gives me oral sex, it is okay to cum in her mouth, but she doesn't do that very often because she would rather have me cum inside her,
d. she likes to have her clit massaged but don't put a finger inside of her.
e. I can touch her ass but no penetration, and
f. she likes missionary, cowgirl, and doggy.
Bingo! I knew how far to go, I wasn't worried about freaking her out, and I relaxed. Sex with her was fun (but we eventually broke up for other reasons.)
If you were in bed with a relatively new boyfriend and he asked if you were into anal sex, would it bother or embarrass you or would you answer in a matter-of-fact manner? If he asked if he could cum in your mouth, would you think that was disgusting? Could you tell him your limits or would you be too nervous, shy, inhibited, or otherwise consumed with cat-got-your-tongue?
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