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Would you disown your son/daughter for doing porn?

just saw an article about a dad who found out, his daughter did porn. had me thinking. i watched some videos where pornstars talk about how their parents took it. and it amazed me how they talked about their parent's being "supportive"! there's people who will tolerate/accept it, and people who won't. i dont know anybody who would be "supportive" of that. but maybe gag can prove me otherwise..
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  • Many years ago when I was still a 15 year old, I was kicked out of the house and disowned because of a porn clip, had sex with a girl who videoed the entire thing on her cellphone. Later that cellphone was stolen and the clip was shared around, it didn't take long for the entire town to know about it. I heard of nothing else about what a bad person I was from the mother and stepmother because of the clip.

    Finally one fine day, it was the morning of Thanksgiving, the stepfather accused me of having an erection from starring at his daughter's thighs. I removed my pants and showed him my dick, then it came to the final argument and I was thrown onto the streets. I haven't spoken to them in 13 years now.

    • it wasn't your fault tough. yoy should have gotten a chance to explain yourself

    • Well ultra religious conservative folks tend to not give such chances especially to explain on something to do with sexual misdeeds, well misdeeds in their head at least.

  • No, I wouldn't disown them. I would hope that they would only do "tasteful porn" and not the crap that is mainly produced.

    The one time I would "disown" my child would be if they where a rapist or a pedophile... I would kill them myself if they were.

    • Same. Unless it's something extreme horrific (for me it would also be a rapist, serial killer or child molestor) I find it wrong that someone would disown their own child and give up just because they do don't follow the typical lifestyle of being in a relationship or getting married and having kids.

    • @Vesuvius87 well doing porn is tarnishing the family name and is disrespectful to the parents , if they raised them good and didn't want them to do such stuff. so i wouldn't think its too wrong to disown them

    • @slimstiffy I would feel disappointed but I would still help them get back on track. As long as they're still humans and haven't done any on the list that I've mention then they would still be my child.

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  • No I wouldn't family means everything to me and if I had a child that was going down the wrong path then I would tell them I disprove, make sure that they know the conqequences of such an action. That doing something like this would end up biting them in the butt. However I'd want to know why they'd feel the need to go through with this, I'd also blame myself that mychild can't come to me or other family for support on a monatry/ blackmail problem. If however it was porn in the sense of stipping and/or lap dances I wouldn't be that bothered, so long as I went to the establishment first.

    • Telling your daughter who is doing porn is not going to make her stop doing porn. I promise you that. You have to disown them. If women know that other women really do get disowned for doing porn, it will discourage them from doing it. Too many women go into porn thinking that their parent's threats of disowning them are empty threats, and that the parents will not follow through and "come around" by accepting their porn careers. This is why so many women keep going into porn. If parents start following through with their threats, it will send a message out to all young women that they really need to think twice before doing porn and that they really will lose their family if they do. The same applies to interracial dating. White women are warned by their parents that if they commit white genocide by dating black men and having black children, that they will be disinherited... but then those white women do it anyway. They betray their race and contribute to the genocide of European beauty and appearances by dedicating their wombs to the production of black African looking kids. And then the spineless parents "come round" and accept the white genocide and the black grandchildren. Parents have to be strong. If your white daughter betrays her race and commits white genocide, there has to be real and permanent punishment in the form of disowning her and never speaking to her again, or else there will be no incentive for white women to stop wiping out their race and within 100 years white people with smooth blonde/red/brown hair, light eyes, narrow leptorrhine noses, slender lips, European facial bone structure will be extinct and there will only be African and Asian looking people. Not acceptable to me.

    • Maybe, maybe not when my dad explained to me why I'm not allowed to go and hang out with my friends in the park, I listened and then never did go out in the park if there was a valid reason for why I wasn't to do things then I would always listen and make sure that I didn't do them. I never wanted to do anything to disappoint my dad and was always on my best behaviour near enough the whole year round. I would never disown her and I don't care if she does end up dating a coloured man. I'm not attracted to them but it doesn't mean my daughter or anyone else I've met or known can't date them.

  • Nope, but I would be very disappointed that I didn't raise them right. Otherwise, they wouldn't have the need to feel doing something low that's going to gain them a bad reputation. I would try my best to convince them to do other things in life besides porn.

    Just like @NJ_Casanova I believe a child should only be disowned for doing extremely horrible stuff (when I say horrible, I'm mean to the point they're no longer humans) such as raping, being a serial killer, molesting kids, torturing another human for fun or something like bombing a building with people on it.

  • No, I wouldn't. It's my kid's choice. They're not hurting anyone and as long as it's something they're consensually doing and they're not being hurt, I'll step aside and let them make their own choices. I'm having a child to create a person, someone who can think for themselves and decide their own future, not a slave or a doll that I dress up and control forever. I might not be happy about it but if they're not hurting someone or making themself unhappy, I'll have to just accept it.

    • its also parents job to point out bad choices. porn being among the worst

    • But not a parent's job to enforce their own beliefs upon their child when they're old enough to decide what they want. I can tell my kid that I disapprove but I have no real right or ability to interfere and I don't want to abandon my kid for something like that.

    • i can't say that i agree, you should interfere when ur child is on a path of destruction. but thats your opinion, i won't say more

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  • I wouldn't be happy since it isn't a long lasting career and they could be doing something better. But as long as they aren't spreading STDs and are somewhat satisfied with their job then I'm fine with it. I did not go through hell and back to poop a baby out raise it and disown it because I don't like their legal job choice. What kind of parent would?

    • Just because it's legalbdoesnt make it right. But thanks for the input. Sometimes it's hard for me not to Comment, when I see people being so casual with doing porn.

    • I'm not saying it is right, but it's better than them selling drugs or something. I don't think porn is bad but I would want my kid to have a better career choice

    • Yrah for me theyd be pretty close (drugs and porn). Well, but thats just my opinion. Thanks for the input

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  • Yes. Because I did not go through hell and back, work minimum wage jobs and go to school, just so they can take the easy way out in sex work. This includes stripping, prostitution, etc.

    • exactly

    • They never asked you to do that and they never promised to live up to your expectations. If you choose to have children you make a vow to love them, unconditionally. You'd be a shit mom

    • @crimsonqueen no, she's a great mom with great work ethic.

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  • A daughter or son of mine would no longer be my child. That's it.

    • i guess i would feel this way as well.

    • There would be no need for them to partake in porn. They would be brought up to understand that, like I was. My sister, too.

    • yeah

  • i wouldn't disown them. that wouldn't do anything positive. i'd try to persuade them to stop but if they aren't going to i'd support them with love

    • Why would you support them aboutbthus, if this is something you don't like?

    • i wouldn't support them being in porn but i'd support them from the stand point of making sure they know i love them and not disavowing them from my family. i'd make it clear that i don't agree with their choice of "profession"

    • Oh okay

  • Depends.
    What kinda porn? How's the pay?

    • does it matter?

    • If that's what they want to do and the pay's good , just another job I suppose.

    • Wow..

  • I wouldn't exactly disown my child, Id be very disappointed in their choices in life. And also that I didn't teach them the proper way of what is wrong and what is right. Id have "bad parenting" written all over my face for sure.

  • I mean, if my family was stable and proper and there wasn't even any need for them to do so, then I'd be pretty fucking pissed, yeah. But they're their own person now. They're 18, if they fuck up, I'll be here for them. Yata yata yata.

  • I wouldn't be happy but id be ok with it cause theyre making money and theyll by at least 18 so its not as if i could stop them.
    they can make their own choices.

    • so you wouldn't evwn try to dissuade them from such a negative profession?

    • i mean if theyre a porn star that means theyre hot enough (which means i made a beautiful kid), and theyll be making a lot of money. I will make sure they know that I am not happy with it, but I won't control them. They can make their own mistakes and learn from them. @Slimstiffy

    • you shouldn't look at it that way. pretty much any chick that maintains enough physique ( or even if not sometimes) can get into it. problem is most will be used for a few months and then dumped. with stds and drug addictions too sometimes.. and remember that this mistake can't be erased. it will remain on the net for the world to see

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  • I accidentally hit yes but my answer is no. I would not disown him or her but I would definitely try to convince him or her that there are much better options.

  • I would not. I might not like it, I might dissuade them, but ultimately, it's their own life. Let's just say I don't really buy into society's structures and the notion of people being superior or better than each other because of their position. Everyone is just prostituting and debasing themselves to make a living anyway.

    • Can't say I agree with their last sentence. There is living life honourably and living it honourless

    • Well, we can see what happens when we talk of honour. People end up getting killed in the name of honour. One bought 'shame' on the family. Is that worse than killing or even disowning your family member?

    • Nobody has to die in the name of honour. There is no honour in killikg whatsoever. But you can still live your life with some morale and not bring shane to yourself or your family. That is considered honourable

  • Yes. I call it excommunication. It would be a way of expressing my disapproval until they cease doing the activity.

  • My parents know I am a camgirl (which is pretty much equal to porn, for them). They say I'm intelligent and should use my brains instead of my body, but they also recognize I am an independent adult and I make my own choices.

    They do sometimes criticize it but I assure them it isn't my long term career goal and they just kind of have to take that and trust I'll figure it out. They have borrowed money from me in the past, though, lol. Which is kinda funny.

  • Nah.

  • Good thing I'm not having kids

  • No, I would not.
    Given that I worked behind the scenes in the porn industry for four years, it would be more than slightly hypocritical to disown a child for being involved in it.

    • just because its hypocritical doesn't mean you shouldn't say no. i heard in an interview, an actress didn't want her daughter to do porn. that would be even more hypocritical.. but still, wanting the best for your kids> seeming hypocritical

  • Not very, my oldest daughter is a stripper. It's somewhat like porn, but safer

  • Theyd probably make more money then their parents

    • you can make money the good way and the bad way

  • I wouldn't br supportive but I wouldn't disown my child

  • No, but I'm not having kids

  • I would be devastated and furious at the same time probably wouldn't be able to look at them in the eyes and yes I would be so ashamed I wouldn't speak of then anymore.

  • I don't know this is why I don't want to have kids.

    • Well, you can't be always scared. 😁 sometimes you have to take risks. Plus chances are rather slim for this to happen.

    • True but I don't ever want to have kids

    • Okay 😊

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