Is it bad to masturbate thinking of your ex?

My ex dumped me one month ago. I have been going crazy without the sex, to be specific ORAL SEX. This guy had the best technique ever to make me CUM !, The way he did it drove me C.R.A.Z.Y! how he goes around, and sucks my clitoris.. well I'm not gonna get into details. The thing is when we used to have sex, I will never come with sex, I wasn't bored either but I liked more oral cause it made me SHAKE. So, Since I HAVE no option. I masturbate thinking of the oral sex he use to give me and I ALWAYS CUM and its sooo great, so is this bad? like to CUM thinking about ur ex?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • its probably normal. I had wet dreams about my ex for months and months after I got the boot. you like what you like, not much to be helped there. probably not very good fro helping you deal with getting voer them if you have problems with that.

  • If you're single I don't see why it would be a problem. If you get a new boyfriend it might be a little strange..

Most Helpful Girls

  • Hey, when you're masturbating you can think about the Queen if it gets you off!

    It is totally normal to reminisce about someone who was good sexually...or someone who you'd want to rattle!

    Don't feel bad. Carry on, I say! x

  • RULE #1 Use whatever it takes to get that thunder rolling in your body. The ex will never know you are thinking of him.

    • "thunder rolling in your body" . . . love that! ;) agreed!

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  • Don't see the problem at all. (At least until you get a new bf)

  • It's inside your head. You can have any man, or group of men, you want.

  • imma hope on the boat with everyone and say . . . not a problem!

    enjoy! ;)

  • nope, nothing wrong with it at all...ur not hurting anyone and ur single...now when you get into another relationship you should stop thinking about the ex and just use the new guy or something when you play on ur own...

  • i was in an online relationship (yeah i know that sounds so loser like but whatev lol) with a girl for 6 months, we still talk sometimes and she did tell me a few times she still thinks about me that way.

  • My ex sent me a pic in a bikini with her tits looking amazing. I’ve been jacking off to that a ton recently. Love jacking off to ex’s.

  • Yes it is a bit weird

  • still thinking of him when u masturbate?

  • Nope if that's what you really like and it gets you off...