Is it normal for me to feel insecure about myself when my husband watches porn or nude pics?

[Anonymous]

I've been married 11 months.. My husband has always told me he really loves porn but recently i was looking at his pictures on his phone and he has nude pics this really makes me feel insecure about myself because all those girls are really pretty they got nice bodies there blonde etc. And he always tells me he likes white girls he always thought he would marry a white girl and im Mexican with dark hair brown eyes.. And NOWHERE near the same body as those girls /: and i can't tell him anything about it cus right away he tells me that guerra nothing wrong with him watching it and that he likes me and is attracted to me but o don't understand if he is then why does he have the need to look at that and keep nude pics of girls on his fone? I don't know if to feel bad about feeling insecure or if its normal i just feel i have to compete with those girls for his attention.

[Sugarbee679]

You have every right to feel upset. My boyfriend used to watch porn and look at pictures of naked girls. It took me crying and pouring my heart out to him for him to realize it did have an affect on me. His words, not mine "If a girl has a problem with her man watching porn and he won't stop, tell him it's her or the porn. There should be no contest between your sexy girlfriend and pictures." But I make sure my man is satisfied every day, too, so it wasn't hard for him. I never gave him the ultimatum but I'd suggest talking to him again and telling him it hurts you and that you are morally opposed to it. If he loves you he'd refrain from something that hurts you.

[Paris13]

You have Every right her, dear To... Feel insecure about myself.
With What you Know and are seeing, it seems that This One may not be the Right 'One' Now Somehow, for without even it Being the "Seven Year Itch" as of Yet, he has Slapped a Title on you Both and this would Be... Not Ready nor Raring to be in a Real Relatiosnhip of Marital Bliss.
You both Need to get on the Same page, or Forever Hold your Tongue. And with it Seemingly him who doesn't Want to Hear anything, maybe a Break is Best from the Rest... To start anyways.
Good luck. xx

[Paris13]

*It is Not just the Porn, it is Saying things that gives you an idea that he prefers something else and has this Roving eye that could end up to be a Demise. xx

[Asker]

Yes and like i said i on the comment above i don't mind him watching it i guess its normal but he looks for blonde beautiful girls and it makes me feel bad about myself cia i don't look anything like them.. And worse he keeps nude pics of the same type of girls on his fone.

[Paris13]

I think then Subconsciously you "Do mind," because of thew y you Say you are feeling. This is unfair to you. Maybe he thinks your love life could be spiced up with You participating in the Movie time?/xx

[Paris13]

Thank you for the Vote of Confidence. xx

[MrExtremely2Kinky]

Let him enjoy his porn, as long as he isn't showing any less love to you..

That's what my wife does.. She has gotten out of shape after two kids and I still show her as just as much love and affection and sexual attention as I did when she was younger and sexier. She knows though that I enjoy seeing a nice tight body or a girl with a nice juicy ass and also girls who are into things she isn't into.

I say as long as he isn't loving up on you any less then let him continue.

Just my opinion.

[Asker]

Yes i don't mind that he watches it.. But what i dont like is he has nude pics of girls on his phone.

[MrExtremely2Kinky]

Ah I see... Yea.. Sometimes that is just for easy access.. Dunno..

[MrExtremely2Kinky]

Thanks for the mho

[AustinMan]

It's about fantasy and convenience. I wouldn't worry.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a5423-why-men-watch-porn

[ak666]

Unless he's been contacting these girls and is trying to get together with them, the competition is not between you and these girls. It's between your vagina and his hand.

For that it helps to kind of figure out what puts you two in the mood and time things accordingly so that he spends more time having sex with you than with his hand.

[SwissMade]

Why not watch porn together

[Asker]

I don't know i have tried to but i can't watch porn its just not my thing.. Doesn't really grab my attention. And he won't even masturbate in front of me he goes into the room and locks the door.

[Zendrya]

I think you are being irrational

[NJ_Casanova]

Sorry to say... It's normal. Most women are insecure with themselves and porn in general.

[masterkamasutra]

They are fantasy, you are real, give him what he want, let him fuck you more and do sex like he never get.

[Asker]

We do it all the time sometimes up to 6 times a day.. But i have seen him looking at his fone while we do it so sometimes i think he looks at those pics while we do it.. And that is something that makes me feel insecure n bad about how i look..

[masterkamasutra]

why you think like that? you are not porn star, they get money for be so, if you make his dick happy he always be happy with you.