Guys, what would you think if you found out the girl you're interested in has kissed a girl but says she's not really into them?

[Anonymous]

Please don't start talking about girl on girl fantasies. I realize I'm not completely straight but I'm not exactly bisexual either. I've kissed a couple girls, both times I wasn't sober and one time the girl initiated it but I went with it. I'm 110% into guys, but I'm honestly comfortable with the thought of kissing an attractive girl. It is interesting to me, but it doesn't turn me on. I know this probably makes no sense to completely straight people but it's how I feel. I don't have any urge to touch a girl sexually or be touched by one, but I wouldn't be opposed to experimenting one day if it felt right (so far it's never felt right, the desire isn't there ) Anyway, I was wondering what you'd think if the girl you are interested in or even your girlfriend revealed to you she's kissed girls but isn't exactly into them, and explained this. im wondering because other people I explain this to look at me like I'm a closeted lesbian and I hate dick, but like I said, I'm REALLY into guys so that's not how it is. I wouldn't want a guy I'm into assuming that.

[Kkaos]

I'd see it as a turnoff. I don't know why it's just I'm not really interested in girls who are interested in women as well... Possibly because I've seen so many girls kiss each other at parties just to get attention or something.. So if a girl claims to be straight yet has kissed girls I guess I probably unfairly group her into that slutty category. Either way, I'd never be interested in a girl who's bisexual.

[Asker]

I respect that, I find guys who are into guys to be a turn off myself so I get it. May I ask why though?

[Kkaos]

I don't actually know why for sure. Why are guys who are into guys a turn off? I guess when I'm looking at a girl I'm seeing if she's someone I'd be happy with to be an extension of myself and considering I'm not into experimenting and all that it's just not me and so I see it as a turn off. I don't know, it's really hard to explain.. I'm just trying to guess reasons. Maybe if I was low key attracted to guys I'd be ok with it, but I'm only interested in women and I'd only be ok with a woman who was only interested in guys.

[Asker]

Gotcha. Thanks!

[shawnski]

As long as you weren't doing it during a relationship it would really be a non factor.

[NJ_Casanova]

Girl on girl action doesn't bother me one bit... as I can easily see the attraction (softer skin/nicer smell). It would actually turn me on if a girl said that to me.

[jacquesvol]

I would not care about it.

[AmeerX]

Well I wouldn't mind

[Try6Curious9]

I would not be assuming you were a closeted lesbian or weren't into guys. In all honesty, I'd probably try to get more information about what you think the right circumstances to experiment would be, and try to make that happen, but even if it didn't -- in fact, especially if it didn't -- I wouldn't classify you as a closeted lesbian.

[Finalphilosophy]

I wanna fuck your girlfriends if you don't. It doesn't matter ! kissing doesn't mean like, love, just games or jokes.

[sexcrazy12]

it sounds to me you are maybe a little bit bi. seems you may need to experiment a touch more than just a kiss.

[Asker]

That wasn't the question

[sexcrazy12]

I would not have any objection, as long as she does not leave me for them.

[wigwam]

I wuld still fuck you and let you suck icabod