I am almost 22, horny af, and have only had sex one time in my life (it has been more than a year). How do I not go crazy?

[SouthernInANutshell]

Most guys get some. I don't. I am horny. Masturbation does not work anymore. My dick is literally raw and the head of my penis has a lesion on it from overmasturbation. I am a guy. I have needs and urges. Don't attack me for craving pussy when there are guys who get it all the time and don't get ridiculed for it. It seems like in girl's eyes, a guy is only a creep when he can't get any but desperately wants some. Go figure.

[Syvient]

Dude Dude DUDE!!!

You only get one of those in your life so go easy... LUBE GENEROUSLY!

Yea I'm poking a bit of fun but also serious, christ lesions. Ok go see a damn doctor for starters. You gotta look out for him you are his wingman.

Now beyond that part, your question should be what am I doing wrong and why am i not getting laid. First, restrain yourself from the term pussy. Used outside of sex it is actually a turnoff. Second, consider a "flesh light" at least I believe that is what it is called. Dont tell me how you dont have money for one either, cause if you gonna run around hunting for a lover its gonna cost you a shitload more than that ever will. Third, baring the possibility that you have a major deformity like the elephant man (who actually had a lot of sex, look it up true, he was a virtual cock of the walk) and no photo is posted to your profile I have to assume you are average looking, again doesn't really matter (you could be a two on a ten scale and get laid). Course there are physical traits preferred by the fairer sex, but if you have ever passed a ten holding hands with an obvious five then you will know this means diddly.
Crass behavior doesn't sell well either, hence the word pussy. Consider this, Hollywood has given us the very best tool in learning manly social etiquette. Vin Diesel and Dewayne Johnson's movie persona's seem to keep them in the "meat" category. Bone up (PUN) on Eastwood, Connery, and Daniel Craig; oh and Matthew Mcconaughey (walking female flesh light LoL). All of these individuals demonstrate what is expected of us in a social setting. Now if your a witty fucker, the Adam Sandlers of the world do just fine also. More to come but I need some feedback from you.

1. Where are you going to meet women?
2. What do you actually do for fun?
3. If your going out what is your standard dress ritual (poolhall, bar, club)?
4. Example of employment, remember we on a public post?
5. What do you drive? Do you own a home or rent (stupid me your 22), ok you rent what size apartment in the (country, lower city, upper city, etc.)?
6. Dental condition? Bad habits (meaning the things that other folks tell you you should not do), I smoke cigars that apparently stink to high heaven but not to me?

ok reply back in a timely manner...

[Sexualchrist]

You have 3 choices.
Choice 1. Try really hard to get a girlfriend who will have mutual sex with you. Difficulty rating high. Reward high. Legality legal.

Choice 2. Hire a prostitute. Difficulty rating low. Reward medium as a good rapport with a particular worker can get you repeat customer discounts. Legality gray area depending on the particular girl or not and whether or not her business is licensed.

Choice 3. Rape. Difficulty level high unless you know what you are doing. Reward very low and even negative if you are caught. Legality illegal.

[SouthernInANutshell]

Choice 1) I wouldn't say the difficulty is just high. I would have to sell my soul plus more, and still face a high liklihood of failure. I am average (maybe even below average) in looks, I don't have good communication skills, and I never know what to say when encountering a conversation. Maybe an average guy can make up for his average looks if he is funny and has a contageous personality. But I dont have that. Choice 2) I have already been arrested recently. I don't want to risk going to jail and facing harsher penalties. There was a trafficking/prostitution sting recently that made the headlines in Tennessee (my state) and don"t want to risk it Choice 3) You know, other species in the animal kingdom don't have to gain consent to mate. Why do we? I guess that is one con about being human. But the only way I will do this is if we BOTH are drunk. Not just her. Because if both persons are intoxicated, both are responsible and therefore she cannot cry out rape, even tho we were drun

[Sexualchrist]

I think we both know what you need to do

[SouthernInANutshell]

What?

[Sexualchrist]

Oh I get you. Ok say no more, say no more nudge, nudge, wink, wink. Say no more

[Anonymous]

Use your sexual desire to do other things. It used to be called sublimation. You can use your desire for artistic, athletic, or other avenues.

[SouthernInANutshell]

But why do I have to do that when other guys get pussy on a regular basis? I can understand that being a temporary solution, but this is becoming a chronic problem that has yet to change.

[Opinion Owner]

Get a girlfriend. Don't be a slave to your desires. Eventually, any girl worth your while will not be looking for a guy that can't control himself, or a guy that is so distracted by his desires that he can't get anything done.

[JellyBean333]

Why not download Tinder and see what you can get from there?

[SouthernInANutshell]

didn't work. Tried it.

[JellyBean333]

Hmm.. Maybe graft loads on a girl, make her your girlfriend, then you can have lovely sex on the regular

[Unit1]

I am nearing my 22. birthday and I'm a virgin, never even touched a girl.
I too am currently horny as in my adolescence times with raging hormones.
Well, this is how far porn can get us. I would try Tinder and get some protection!

How you not go crazy about being horny? Sex! In any way! That's a clear sign that we men need our daily portions of pussy and tits.

[SouthernInANutshell]

Oh man... that is a little bit worse, but at the same yime you never had a good "taste" of pussy