Call girl fantasy!!

[Anonymous]

ok I know a call girl is a prostitute but they present them self as classy and elegant! and I have this fantasy of wanting to be a call girl my reasons are 1) money would be amazing 2)living luxury 3) I would feel empowerment knowing I was in full control and that the guy wanted me and was willing to pay me because that's how much he wanted sex or my company from me i really don't know why but the idea of being a call girl really turns me on does anyone else have this odd fantasy?

[Cool-Relax]

Wow, I've never seen prostitution as being glamorous.

Men wouldn't be with you for your company. If you hadn't been there, they would've chosen some other girl instead. If they truly appreciated your company, they wouldn't pay you for sex, they would treat you with respect.

I'm curious to know how you feel about strippers (or "exotic dancers" if you want to go with a nice term like you did with "call girl"). They could make a lot of money just like call girls do without actually having sex, and at least there are bouncers nearby if any guys got out of hand.

[Asker]

A call girl works for an agency isn't on the street goes to hotels agency provides security with them a lot of the men pay for them to a company them to places and yes some do have sex but there is a difference to prostitution and they make more money I know all this as it was apart of my essae in college to find out the life of a call girl as a journalist! strippers I have nothing against them they do what the got to do I would like to know how to pole dance but I'm not to keen on being a stripper

[Cool-Relax]

Either way, you're selling yourself. Despite the perks, I don't think I could respect myself if that's what I did for a living. There are so many other jobs out there where the men respect you as a colleague rather than as someone they pay for their company (whatever that may entail). By the way, a lot of escort services are covers for prostitution rings.

[Asker]

Not all though I'm not saying I want to do it as I never ever would in a million years but I do see why girls do it and it is some what a fantasy to me

[Cool-Relax]

Maybe you've seen Pretty Woman a few too many times? lol

[Asker]

I have never seen it before my friends love it but I have never seen it I can't stand julia roberts lol

[Cool-Relax]

I can't stand her either, I just know the general story of the movie lol

[Anonymous]

No but let me tell you a story.

Lots of call girls end up dead. Call girls are mostly for cheating husbands, would you do that to another woman? Most call girls have damage to their bodies after their calls.

Most call girls end up with STD's because the men won't wear a condom and if the girl says no, he rapes her.

[Asker]

Thats if your a call girl for your self and don't have an agency which provide with a body guard outside the room and if your not out by your certain time they are obliged to come in

[Cool-Relax]

Prostitutes don't get body guards. Maybe escorts get treated with a little more respect, but they're still selling their bodies.

[Asker]

I said a call girl do which is an escort

[Cool-Relax]

Well congratulations for them, they're professional whores.

[Asker]

Thats what I thought until I done a essae on it in college

[justthefriend]

sometimes I wanna be a stripper. but mostly because I like the dancing on the pole, and getting money, I don't really dig the whole getting naked in front of a bunch of unknown guys

[Asker]

Yeah I share the same thing lol I even bought a pole

[good-looking-geek]

Even call girls can be beaten by their clients. And the clients might force you to do something you don't want to do (go in through the back door). Also the clients can and will be greasy nasty bald men who didn't have the courtesy to shower before sex. You don't want to give these men BJ's, because they stink and are ugly. Not every client will be Richard Geere in "Pretty Woman." This fantasy is a gross exaggeration of reality. The reality is very grim, sad, and unglamorous for call girls and prostitutes alike.

[drstms]

Isn't that like asking someone to purchase thee of your body, without any respect, or consideration, for your mind, heart and spirit? If the fantasy is about being wanted for your body, that is one thing but, I would hope you would find someone who respects, and invests in all of you, before you pursue this fantasy with them.

[Asker]

I won't pursue this fantasy I was simply asking did anyone share it ?

[drstms]

I still hope you will find someone who respects, admires, cherishes and invests in the whole wonderful package that is you. The fantasy is not unhealthy, in and of itself. It is actually fairly common, in my experience. I would suggest that you consider having your husband try it one day, when you are married, it might add some spice to your life.

[Asker]

Yeah I'm a bit young for marriage now and the hole deep meaningful relationship thing I've had guys treat me great its just not something I want in life right now or anywhere in the near future

[aussieknight]

im not meaning to sound preachy or anything but have you considered these things

.What about when you see clients in the street a few days later,

.Money not always good. especially now with the worlds financial situation is down. strippers and call girls are finding it tough people have little disposable income.

.Will you tell your family and friends what you do for a living

.What if you want to get married down the track

.Reputation

[Asker]

Im not a call girl!! I said its a fantasy for me! and call girls don't make less than 500 per hour as its not the same as prostituting on the street in a financial sense

[kimberlyinspired]

Also diseases. that would suck...

[Asker]

Yeah but its called contraception a prostitute has no choice to contraception but if you don't with a call girl you don't get your hour

[aussieknight]

It may look glamorous but there is always a dark side to any dream job. things will not always be perfect. guys pay for like like your a rental dvd. use you and put you back. granted a call girl may be more attractive than common pros. still the base concept is the same

[Asker]

Yeah the only same thing is there getting payed for sex everything else is different

[Schneiderman]

you don't feel like you would be "selling" yourself or losing your dignity?

[Asker]

I don't want to do it I'm saying its simply a fantasy and did anyone share the same odd fantasy

[jayman]

I imagine you are far from alone. You make a bunch of great points here. But, one of the main differences between these professionals and your typical ladies is that they often tend to have severe problems in the long run - addiction, STDs, sense of emptiness.

[jacquesvol]

the guys that use them are guys that can't get sex in another way/ from another woman because of... (fill in your hunches)

[Anonymous]

Well, I have had that fantasy too.but then I get to thinking of all the old nasty ugly coarse guys I would have to sleep with and think I 'd rather not.LOL