Do you agree with this explanation on why banning of porn will not fix the problem the media is blaming on porn currently?

[Anonymous]

"The vast majority of women due to uncontrollable hypergamy are chasing top 20% of males (80/20) rule. This leave 80% of men to fight over 20% of remaining women. The result of this is we have an imbalance on the men side for available mates with many men in 80% only getting attention from women when they are post wall (over 30) after they've failed locking down an alpha."

However, men have sexual needs and are horny in their teens and 20's with their libido going down into their 30's and beyond where they start thinking more clearly and less with their dicks. Now, what is a young man suppose to do when he is not able to experience sex in their teen's and 20's because women don't want him and he is horny.

Well the answer is simple, he turns to porn to satisfy his sexual needs. He get to see and vicariously live out the sex he would have liked with a girl he loved but never got because he was deem NOT GOOD ENOUGH by women.

Masturbating to porn is like a drug addiction and when you get accustom to jacking off to a certain type of female body for so many years it's kind of hard to not feel disappointing when you look at normal girls and see their bodies are very much under whelming and big contrast from female pornstars. Also many men over time need even more perverted sex acts to get off.

In addition, men use porn to fight off feeling alone. Being considered NOT GOOD ENOUGH and looked at like trash for so many years by the opposite gender can cause one to feel like shit, lead to psychological/mental damage and body dysmorphia issues. Many men use porn as an escape from reality and release.

The root cause here isn't porn but uncontrolled hypergamy on the woman's side and the discarding of men"

[Anonymous]

I agree that porn shouldn't be banned, but the explanation is bullshit. It should be legal so that it can be regulated and the porn industry held to the same standards of health and safety and workers' rights as any other industry (which it isn't at the moment; which is a massive problem). Banning porn would just mean that illegal porn was made and there would be a rise in sex trafficking, revenge porn, etc. Plus sex ed would no longer cover how to have a healthy relationship would porn and people would therefore be more likely to become addicted or develop unrealistic and harmful views of sex.

[LindsayRB91rds]

Sorry, but that sounds like complete rubbish. What you're saying is that I have an uncontrollable need to compete with 80% in the world for one of these "top 20%"?

Someone really hates women if they think we're all like moths to a porch light. I'll guess this "research" was done by a man who can't get a date.

[Lookingforthetruth]

Not the world. The 80/20 rule applies overall to a geographic location like a state/city/region. So the top 20% of males in that region have 80% of women chasing them. The remaining 20% of women are fought after by 80% of males. Overall this means that 40% of men will have GF/wives and access to sex. While 60% of males will be left out. However, seeing most of relationship do not last these days some of the 60% of men may get lucky in getting a GF/sex. Overall i believe about 60-65% of males will have sex with a consenting woman without having to pay while 35% of males will have to go to an escort or die a virgin or wait when women are 30+ and have lower standards willing to give them a chance.

[LindsayRB91rds]

@Lookingforthetruth That's a very sad picture of society. Just walking through the streets of Boston I see plenty of men who can't possibly be in the top 20% by any ranking who are holding hands with a woman. I think your numbers are way off. You seem to be assuming that we can't possibly be interested in a man because he's smart and funny if he looks like a troll. Thank you for clarifying that the numbers will be regional because that makes more sense - but still not very much. As I said, I think the theory is rubbish. I sincerely hope that a) you don't think that if you put yourself in the 80% category that you'll die alone and b) that if you think you're in the top 20% that you can treat women like breakfast cereals that you can simply pick from. If you plan to have a real relationship with a woman, man up and just go talk to some. You'll find that most of us will be happy to talk with and get to know you.

[AlienParasite]

I can't agree because I don't feel people watch porn just because of that, cause if that's was true best males in society would never masturbate with porn. Also you left women who watch porn behind. As if porn were just for men. Nope, I don't buy that theory.

[itsmatty]

studies show that almost all porn customers are male, even though women watch it when it's free.

[Robertcw]

Actually at your age I think that’s exactly right.

[Anonymous]

all the studies i have seen point towards this being true. banning porn will never happen because there's too much money in it and our leaders don't want it. sexual enslavement through porn addiction works in their benefit. the net result is a culture of depravity.

[Bandit74]

I don't see porn being banned anytime soon.

[madhatters4]

i don't believe or agree with the facts in the opening paragraph so if i don't follow the premise and thus i find the rest to be based on a false premise

[Kellykelkelltik]

Sexual economics. It all works out. Hands off.

[SarahsSummer]

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[TheNerual]

Porn is a drug. Drugs got bad side effects. Porn shouldn't be banned but definitely should be harder to access considering it can give men erectile dysfunction when theyre 20.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I agree that banning porn is a stupid idea.

The rest of your speech is complete bs though.

I use porn because I like porn (as did every woman I dated, and we still watched porn while dating, often together). I do not have self poor esteem or body image problems, nor am I aquainted with being rejected.

I simply don't want kids, and atheist women who don't want kids, don't drink, don't smoke, don't do drugs, like difficult video games, are artists, muscians, model kit builders, fossil collectors, science nerds, sci-fi and fantasy geeks, like dinosaurs, bugs, cats, robots, aliens, and are anime weebs, are very hard to come by.

This is because most of those hobbies aren't social, and instead they have you held up in your house most of the time. So genius, how do I meet a shut-in? hmm?

If all I cared about was her finding me physically attractive, I could be married in a week to someone drop dead gorgeous.

I am by no means rich, I don't have a car either, I'm not ripped, and I don't have jack shit in common with what people refer to as alpha males (i'm short and cute), and yet I have no issues finding women who are attracted to me. I have issues finding women I'M attracted to, because sorry, being hot isn't enough.

People are individuals, they like different things, and the whole alpha/beta garbage is just that, garbage.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Also those are not unrealistic female body types.

[genericname85]

i don't see a problem in porn or hypergamy. women are drawn to 20% of men, cause 20% of men are most attractive. not everybody can be most attractive xD it works the same the other way around. you wouldn't go after some fat ugly chick either. i don't see a problem in any of that.

[ThatBritishLad]

That solution is called pointing fingers and not actually thinking about things first because you don't want to be wrong.

[xTonyx]

This is rubbish

[anonman32]

this will lead to more sex tourism.

[TheSpartan]

Pfft, that's why you date third-world or Eastern European women.

[Sojex]

So are there any studies that back his up or is it all just complete BS?

[vikmehra]

Porn industry needs revolutionary executives like Steve Jobs and Elon Musk.

[Anonymous]

I am going through the same thing. I am looking for answers too.

[Anonymous]

Keep your porn, stay out of the manosphere.

[Anonymous]

That 80/20 theory is bullshit. Just look around. It ain't happening.

[itsmatty]