Need tips on how to resist an orgasm for a bondage game with my bf?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have a pretty fun sex life. We often play games in the bedroom and also fool around with bondage from time to time. This weekend he is going to tie me up on the bed and use a vibrator on me. Its one of the stronger massager style ones similar to a hitachi wand. I am going to be completely naked and he can touch and caress any part of my body. Once the vibrator touches me I have to last 15minutes without cumming. If I do cum I will have to be naked at all times in our apartment for the next 2 weeks. Ill only be allowed to put clothes on to go out. If I dont cum in 15min my boyfriend and I will swap and ill have 15min to make him cum. Which is a super easy task for me and he will have to be nude for 2 weeks. I am pretty stubborn. I hate losing even if its just a bit of fun. But that vibrator just turns me into jelly. Can anyone give me some tips on how to hold my orgasm in and not cum? Do you think I will last 15min? I got the idea for this game from a thread I read on this site ages ago.

[xplaydates]

Well, for one, don't grind on it (that'll bring you to an orgasm faster), don't help it help you orgasm, if that makes sense.

Breathe. Deep, calm, full breaths-- don't hold your breath because that'll somewhat help focus on the pleasure going on down there.

It'll usually easier for most women to delay the orgasm if you have your legs further apart. The closer your legs are together, the easier you come to the vibrator.

[Asker]

Not grinding will be so hard but thats a good idea. Usually half the time I dont even realise im doing it.

[Asker]

I lost :(

[kittykatbrat]

You will lose, sorry, but that wand is powerful.

[Asker]

Haha thanks for the confidence booster But yea I know what you mean. I dont think my little clit will last long. I juat really want my boyfriend to be the one spending 2 weeks nude. Not me haha

[kittykatbrat]

Good luck... I hope you prove me wrong xo :)

[Asker]

You were right I lost. I couldnt handle the vibrator, fingering and having my nipples sucked at the same time

[kittykatbrat]

At least it was an enjoyable loss AND you get to be naked... both are pluses to me :)

[i1T2daty]

You need to be able to bring each other just to the edge and stop. The only way to not come when you're getting stimulated in a very pleasurable way is to masturbate so often that coming is harder and that works with guys more than girls, I guess you will need to suffer through that many more orgasms. Try staying in and going for multiples

[Pac-Man]

Think about Trump naked.

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[Asker]

Dear god That will do it

[Pac-Man]

You can also think about your home, TV show, etc. Let your thoughts flow. That's how I lose erection.

[nothingtosee]

I think I would rather be the loser. I kinda like the idea of having to be naked for a woman for 2 WHOLE weeks. I imagine she would use me anytime she wanted and I couldn't say no to any request. And, since I lost, I like the idea of her deciding when and where I'm allowed to cum.

Maybe even keep my hands tied behind my back while I'm home. That way I couldn't keep her away from me. I would be completely helpless.

[AustinMan]

I think you should let him win.

[Asker]

Im sure he would love that

[badboy666]

Ha, you guys are awesome. Have fun. Think about, ummm, baseball? Cleaning the bathroom?

[sj2107]

Umm... Just don't do it?

[Ladyslipper]

If you had normal feelings you would understand

[sj2107]

@Ladyslipper I have normal feeling and I understand this. I just prefer not to.

[Ladyslipper]

I'm just curious don't take this the wrong way but do you have any type of autism related issues? Or have you been sexually abused?

[sj2107]

@Ladyslipper I have been sexually abused. But no autism that I'm aware of. But I also prefer people for who they are. Not what they can do.

[FallOutBoy2001]

He's asexual, just like someone is bisexual or gay or straight

[Ladyslipper]

@FallOutBoy2001 okay still learning

[FallOutBoy2001]

@Ladyslipper That's ok, always here if you want have any more questions

[Ladyslipper]

@FallOutBoy2001 soooo do u guys masturbate or no? What about wet dreams does that happen

[FallOutBoy2001]

@Ladyslipper I'm actually bisexual but I have two good friends who are ace. Some do, some don't, if it feels good they will.

[sj2107]

@Ladyslipper I do it once in a while. Don't do it and I can get sick. But I don't have wet dreams.

[SpecialWael]

Wow thats so damn hot ! :D
I liiiiiiike the idea so much ! i'd wanna try it <3
As for the orgasm , no u won't last and u will be naked for 2 week :P

[Asker]

Yea im doubting whether i can last. If my boyfriend put a finger in my vagina or sucks my nipples while the vibrator is on then im just gone pure and simple. My only hope is that he doesn't think to do that

[SpecialWael]

Lol he will do that and more so be ready ;) He would put 2 or 3 fingers in ur pussy and suck on nipples and spank ur ass ! no way to last 15 mins.. naked for 2 weeks :P

[Asker]

I lost :( I got to about 10min but it was just too much

[SpecialWael]

Haha i told u , i win now :P So tell me what did he do to u , i want details :P

[Asker]

He teased me for about 30min before even turning the vibrator on. Used a feather and ran it lightly all over my body. I was already lying in my wet patch when he put the vibrator on me. He vibrated me for about 5min then started finger fucking at the same time. I really tried to hold on but I just lose control, started thrusting my hips and then exploded. So now im sitting on the couch bare butt naked as I write this

[SpecialWael]

Oh fuck thats damn hot :D Have fun guys :P

[Anonymous]

Think mostly about Martha Stewart's shows On food network.. Try not to commit suicide though. 😆

[Anonymous]

Think about baseball. Works for guys.