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Help !! I got groped and im afraid to tell my husband ! What should I do?

I was taking a walk yesterday because i had a fight with my husband so i wanted to smell fresh air... and a man came and talked to me and introduced himself and then he had his hands on my shoulder then he kept touching my bra at my arms and i was wearing a low cut blouse and tight sweatpants so he slid his hand under my bra and got my breast out so i took his hands of me quickly but he got his other hand and took out my second breast... i just let him do it and we were alone he took me to a dark place and took my top off and my bra and i let him suck my nipples and kissed him but i told him i got to go and left !! Should i tell my husband this happened?
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  • What you just did in my opinion is both ethically and morally wrong considering you're in a marriage and you didn't state you were in an open marriage with your husband where you both could be sexual with others. I would suggest telling your husband because you need to recognize what you did is wrong and you've already betrayed him once by letting this male grope you like that and you have even admitted you kissed him back and let him suckle your nipples.

    You were complacent in what took place, not a victim at that point and you need to admit what you did to your husband and accept the consequences of your actions. It seems in my view you are exercising very poor judgement in this incident and granted you and your husband had a fight, but how would you feel if your husband allowed some other girl to grope his penis and take his pants down to suck on it and then he didn't tell you about it? Realistically, how would you feel if the situation was reversed?

    This is a betrayal of his trust in you and it might very well lead to divorce, but are you really willing to accept the guilt of keeping this a secret? You should tell your husband and do your best to make amends for this mistake. There may be the need for some professional marriage counseling after this revelation to him. And you're going to need to prepare yourself to work very, very, hard to regain your husband's trust in you. End of story.

  • Hell mutha fucking yesh you should tell him and let him make his own decision! The way you described the whole deal sounds iffy at best and second WHY IN THE FUCK DIDN"T YOU CALL THE COPS? The simple fact that this happened and you are thinking about not telling your husband seems very suspicious and what don't you trust your husband enough to make his own decision? If this happened to my exgf and she never told me I would be even more pissed that it did happen and that she fucking lied to me about it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Lol Um no because keyword you let him suck your nipples and kiss you. What I'm assuming you're going to leave that part out, don't want to seem like you're a slut. honestly how would you feel if he told you some girl started to unzip his pants and give him a hand job? Then he let her suck his cock came in her mouth then said I have to go. You basically cheated.

  • Girl, you should tell him. Sexual fidelity is important. If you have said no, that would be sexual assault, since that is not the case. Honesty above all.

  • Umm. This doesn't sound like rape because you didn't say no and you never stopped him.

    It's up to you if you want to admit you cheated.

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  • I smell total bullshit on this. nice try.

  • Your story probably turns you on, but I highly doubt it's true. If it is true, you let the man play with you instead of yelling for help. To me, it sounds like you could just walk away. For 38 years old, this is pretty pathetic.

  • this sounds fake as hell

  • Yeah if you want a huge fight and or divorce. I'd consider that cheating and be done with you

  • Really? I'm the only one who thinks this is fake?

    • No, but if it's real is the writer's problem anyway.

  • While you were initially groped, you went along with it and kissed him back and all. That's pretty much cheating. Depending on your moral compass either tell him and risk divorce or a huge trust gap in your relationship or take it to the grave.

  • NO do not tell
    Him. And this clearly wasn't fully against your will.

  • Would you prefer your husband to tell you?

  • yikes! he ain't gonna be happy I can guess you'd know that.

  • Tell him you were raped and tell him to kick that idiot's butt to kingdom come.

  • Lol is pretty funny

  • Well you let him suck on your nipples and kiss you...
    Not only the stranger's fault, you share the blame, and if you think it's best to keep what happened a secret do so. It'll probably end really badly if you're husband finds out though.

  • I would say file a police report but you kinda went along with the groping lol
    Go to church confess your sins to God...
    Don't tell your husband it will ruin your marriage for sure

  • and then you woke up.

  • yes you should tell this to your husband because he deserves to know that

  • Kill em

  • Probably dont tell him, unless you want to end the marriage. I think thats what you need to ask yourself.

  • well, let's just say that by not telling him, you're automatically telling him a lie. and do you really want to lie to your husband?

  • you encouraged him to touch you, and you kissed him.
    regretting acting like a whore, and being sexually assaulted, are two different things.

  • You didn't get groped. You hooked up with another guy and basically cheated on your husband. Why are yo acting like you are a victim when you didn't even try to fight?

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