How do straight girls kiss each other?

Girls comfortably kiss each others' cheeks and some of them kiss on lips too. They openly share their pics of doing these things on social media. They change clothes in front of each other and some of them shower together too. I mean how? Why do you call yourself straight then? Why don't you say "No homo"?
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  • Uh... when I change in front of my friends it isn't for sexual pleasure? It's because I need to change and I literally don't care if they see me naked. Same way I don't care if my mom sees me naked, or the doctor.

    I don't kiss my friends on the cheek regularly but I have for pictures. Like my friends bridal pictures, I kissed her cheek. It was cute. It's just an affectionate thing, it isn't sexual.

    The thing is, girls can be freely affectionate with whoever they choose without being labeled gay or creepy. It's a cultural thing.

    In some places, men kiss each other on the cheek. Again, it's a cultural thing.

    As for showering together, most girls won't do that and they think it's weird. I've showered with a couple female friends. Tbh I have no idea why, just kinda happened, I didn't do it for a sexual reason nor did I enjoy it. When I've told other girls I did that they're like oh my god are you gay. I know you probably watch pornos where girls all shower together and lick chocolate off each other so you think that's extremely common but like.. it isn't.

  • Because we don't have sex on our minds 24/7 like guys do. We can be affectionate without it being sexual, we know when something is sexual and when it's not. If I have to change in front of my friends or family I sure as hell am not trying to seduce them or something. Life doesn't revolve around sex, I can see a girl in her underwear or kiss her cheek or something without being sexually or romantically attracted to them.

    Also, most of the time those kind of things are only done with close friends or family, not strangers or acquaintances, which makes a big difference. Mostly though, we just know when something is sexual and when it's not, guys don't really have that filter - they just see most things as sexual, it's how they've been raised.

  • Kissing on cheek is just an affection thing and nothing sexual. I have lost count of the amount of cheek kissing pictures I have with my girl friends. 😂
    I think girls are just so much more comfortable with platonic intimacy, like we always walk around arm in arm, hand in hand, we can dance all sexual on each other at the club because it's just fun lol, we compliment each other a lot without coming across like we like them sexually, we'll be like "damn yo ass girl" and ish. 😂
    Some guys masculinity is just so fragile that they feel so insecure if they come across as being gay if they give a compliment, hug or kiss on the cheek or whatnot.

  • Because girls aren't raised with the notion that being comfortable with other females is a sign that you're gay and will get you made fun of. Guys have anti-homosexuality shit shoved in their faces from birth. So, they have been conditioned to feel the need to say "no homo" constantly, lest someone think they're gay.

    Also, it's worth mentioning that women who are actually gay aren't demonized for it nearly as much as men.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Around 80% of girls are some degree of bisexual even if they would never be sexual involved with another girl. Evolutionarily, it was advantageous for girls to be turned on by other girls, as their goal was just to get pregnant, so if the girl next to you is getting reamed by the alpha, that should make you want the same thing. In contrast, guys evolved to compete with each other, which has lead to a stigma toward that kind of behavior amongst us in modern day.

    • This makes a lot of sense. Upvote for thy.

  • I'm going to do what you do and not answer the question. Tired of you doing it on other people's questions, so here you go.

    Girls are hot.

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  • We don't just do this to any and everybody. You all have to do open showers in gyms or something right? I guess that makes you all homo or bi too. No offense, but stop with the ignorance. As long as nobody is sexually attracted towards the same sex, it isn't a problem unless it is for a person. Anything innocent can be made sexual if you let it. Everybody knows their limits so their are responsible for them too.

    • Do you have completely open showers there?

    • @YourFutureEx Here as in country? Yes we do. Jails, College showers , etc. As I'm sure in other westernized countries unless it is strictly a religious place, which is understandable too.

    • And it depends on people's choices in homes for showers. But not me. I'm not into that, it's gross in my opinion. I don't agree with everything as far as nudity is concerned. But what can you do except not do it?

  • You've caught us. All women are secretly lesbians using men only for breeding purposes. Our dream of an all women utopia has been compromised.

    • Don't piss on his fireworks he doesn't know you can kiss and be naked and nude with someone without it being sexual.

    • hahahahaha xD

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  • We secretly enjoy it >;) Muhahahahaha, we get men AND women. Muahahahhaah.

  • We are straight because we don't feel any arousal or sexual attachment by doing that. If I'd kiss an attractive man I definitely would feel uncomfortable because of sexualising him.

  • Because these aren't sexual things?

  • I do no such thing for that would creep me out. I'm not even that crazy about hugging.

  • With their mouth?

  • Growing up. I've seen people kiss eachother on the lips as a way of greeting a family memeber or friend. It wasn't sexual it was just a greeting. I mean i dont make out with girls cause thats just repulsive.

  • Girls tend to be more comfortable in their sexuality than guys. We don't get weirded out by stuff like that.

  • "All girls are either bi or denying it."

  • Honestly that would freak me out a little

  • Cheeks like I do with family isn't gay. The French do it

  • AHAHA. funny. cause we're affectionate and we know eachothers intentions

  • I don't believe they are straight.

  • Hah it depends
    It s like dudes in the locker room
    Last time I went to a party 2 of my friends smacked in front of everyone while we were dancing on the table to piss the guys off haha.
    And all the guys sort off pulled out their phones to capture the moment 😂😂

  • I've even kissed some of my guy friends on the cheek. Not on the lips though

    And since when do they shower together?

    • Lot of them do.

    • Well that's new to me

  • Girls are more open about their sexually than guys

  • Because that's only affection, but not sexual attraction!

  • I don't.

  • — "Why don't you say "No homo"?"
    Because kissing someone of the same sex doesn't make you a homosexual? That's the kind of shit Cartman would believe.

    • You don't need to clarify what your sexuality is everytime you do something.

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