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Have you ever had an accidental anal?

So my partner accidentally slipped his penis up my ass by accident while we were having rough sex and it hurt so excruciatingly bad that I had to take a 10 min break because I couldn't stop crying from the pain. This is the first time it's happened to me and I was kind of wondering how common these accidents are. I feel so awful about it despite the fact that it was his fault/accident and constantly saying sorry. :/
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To clear it up. We do anal every now and then and he would have no reason to make it "accidental" if he wanted to do anal at all.
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  • I've had two different girls who were riding me and got a little too carried away with bouncing, went too high, and then came down on my dick with their ass. Surprise buttsecks!

    And, yeah, even though both of them enjoyed anal, they definitely didn't enjoy this, because they weren't ready for it.

    Mistakes happen (though they could hardly blame ME in either case), but no one should do this intentionally, because anal is something you DO need to be ready for...

  • Anal sex is very erotic but only if approached very carefully and patiently.

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  • He would have to be thrusting VERY hard- and very precisely- in order for anal to happen by accident.

    • Not really. If he's thrusting really hard & fast, or even more likely, if she is thrusting back but they get out of sync, he could accidentally pull all the way out and, because the holes can be quite close together, it's far from impossible for him to slip into the wrong one. It can literally happen in a split second. I'm not saying that no guy has ever did this intentionally, but it's easy to happen by accident too.

    • @MrOracle There is no easy "slipping" when it comes to anal sex, unless it's something you've done a lot before and you're already relatively loose back there (maybe?). For me personally, anyway, my answer holds true. It's hard enough to make it happen intentionally, let alone by accident. If someone DID thrust all the way in "by accident", it would probably send me to the hospital.

  • I think guys do it on purpose because when their dick goes up, their level of empathy goes way down.

    • No he didn't do it on purpose, we usually have anal every now and then but he always starts out slowly and carefully

    • Doesn't mean he didn't think it was a good idea at the moment because the impulse overcame him...

  • Didn't go all the way in but it's happened to me. It's normal girl 😊 Happens to everyone

  • There's no "accidental" anal.

    Your boyfriend, girl, forced himself on you.

    • No. We've done anal many times before. He said 'sorry didn't mean to do that' and pulled out before he even noticed that I was hurt and before I even said anything. He would have no reason to make anal "accidental". 🙄

    • Hmm well you should've said so in the description.

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  • *wrong hole starts playing*

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-zHVW7Zy_vg

  • if you want to give y o ur blyfriend anal y o u can go to a doctor and get your rectum gently stretched so that anal won't be painful at all. the process involves gently inserting a plastic pipe that you mist keep in for short periods of time so that y o ur rectum gets use to being stretched. i assure you its quite painless

  • Not even once. I think when I was young I got close but she quickly warded me off. Now i know right where I'm supposed to go. ;-)

  • Never happened to me but I can totally see that happening. If he was going too hard/fast and accidentally pulled all of his penis out of your vagina it totally could penetrate the wrong hole, depending on which position you were.

  • Had it happen. Were going so it so hard we didn't really notice or care.

  • I was warned on time.

  • No such thing as accidental he knew where it was going

  • This doesn't fucking happen.. You can feel the difference.. You can't do that by accident.. You have no reason to apologize and more than enough reason to be pissed off.

    • It was during fast rough sex. I mean the vagina and anus is right next to each other accidents seems likely. Plus when he went in by accident he said sorry and quickly pulled out without me even saying anything yet.

  • Shhh, its a secret. But yes I did.

    However...

    My girlfriend really wanted to try it. I wasn't that interested but I said I'd try it if she wanted to.

    We were going at it doggy style on the couch one day, I slipped out, and accidently (honestly!) slipped it into the back door. By the time I realized it my head was in (I was really slippery from the previous fucking) so I just went with it.

    I was too embarrassed to tell her it wasn't on purpose.

    (she loved it, btw).

  • I've tried anal with my ex, and i couldn't get it in..
    Spent like 45 minutes trying

  • doesn't seem like an accident lol!

  • Lol, there is something off about that poll.

  • I was going to have sex with a woman I saw recently multiple times one night and she was in a position were she was kind of in a fetal position and I was kneeling so I was going to slip it in her and i realized I was pressing against her ass. She enjoyed anal though so after i stopped she encouraged me to keep going. We'd done anal before that though.

  • @teawrecks had the opposite problem.

    • Truth

    • @teawrecks I am wondering, did you still like it?

    • It was alright, the dude was kind of a lame lay all around.

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  • nope.

    and I thought first you mean shit on the dick when having anal when reading the question lol

  • It actually slipped in just like that? I wonder what that means.

  • Ouch , hate that happened.
    Accidents happen sometimes

  • This happened with me and my girlfriend (at the time). We were doing it doggy style and I noticed her anus was relaxing and opening wide enough to admit a whole finger.
    Anyway, curiosity overcame me and I pulled out of her pussy and put it in her ass.
    She DIDN'T like it but I have to admit that (covered in pussy juice) my cock just slid inside!

    Well, the funny thing is that the next week, she got on top of me and started trying to push my cock inside her ass - nothing happened because she wasn't lubed but when we did get around to trying her anus again, I made sure to lubricate her and played with her clit as I entered.
    Oh - she LIKED that and we did it a few more times before we eventually broke up.

    So, not uncommon. 😊

  • Hurts... It wasn't made for that

  • No it's to tight, I know right away so I don't try to push

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