Men, do small or flat boobs turn you off during sex?

Men, are you having a hard time getting an erection when seeing small/flat boobs? I myself have a 34B. They look smaller then normal (cause of breasttissue spreaded more over chest). Sometimes I feel flat. I don't wear push-ups. Don't think I need it. Never had any problems with guys. Most of them would grab them. Also telling me they're nice. Now I have found a guy who doesn't seem to care for them. Also having a hard time getting an erection...
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  • This is the guys problem, not your's. If he is that fixated on having to have big boob to be able to get hard, he needs to only deal with large breasted women. My gut is telling me it may be another reason he's not getting hard. Why would he be with you if he didn't like small breasts. I'd have no problems with you. You are happy with what you have. Don't allow men to make you think differently. That's a big reason many women are so concerned about not being big enough. My first wife was a small B cup. I loved them!

  • No. I like small boobs.

    "Never had any problems with guys. Most of them would grab them. Also telling me they're nice."

    There you go. Trust that. Guys are simple that way.

    "Now I have found a guy who doesn't seem to care for them. Also having a hard time getting an erection..."

    Maybe he's gay.

    • The gay part is what my friends are thinking. He actually makes the first move ( only heavy kissing and asking to go upstairs). I also wonderd if he might be cheating. Could a guy lose all interest then?

    • Note: he couldn't get it up from start.

    • There's simply no way to jump from can't get it up to cheating. Plenty of cheaters still fuck as normal.

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  • I think once you're already that far with them it really doesn't matter how big or small your boobs are, also 34B isn't even small - that's the equivalent to a 32C which is my size and I actually always thought it was pretty average/medium.
    But yeah I really don't think the guy having erectyle dysfunction has anything to do with your boobs, don't worry.

  • so no guy has even said anything to make you think they didn't like them and you assumed this meant you were good and got confident and thought you'd never encounter a man who wasn't attracted to your breasts?

    • No that's not the case. In a far past someone actually did make awfull comments. I was smaller back then. But still that dude had sex with me. It also was a abusive relationship. So yeah, some scars are still there. The current dude is giving more signs that make me think he isn't attracted to me. Also thinking it has something to do with boobs. Maybe old pain flashing by, who knows. Still the dude isn't honoust about something/

    • well i'd say you can't blame him if he's not showing a lot of interest. no one should expect that. people have preferences. at least he wants to be with you.

    • Well no, but the fact is he isn't paying any interest at all. Already asked him: are you sexually attracted to me? He tells me yes, but actually he never touches me. Sometimes wouldn't even look at me. And I'm certainly not a hideous person. So whatever it is... it's not really a good thing to build an relationship on, right?

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  • I'm a 34B also and I've never noticed a guy that couldn't get an erection during sex with me.

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  • Nope. Boobs are boobs. All I really care about is that they're there.

    Most men would feel this way. The erectile dysfunction is probably related to something else. Either he's not sexually attracted to you (all of you, not just your tits), uses drugs that interfere with his libido or ability to gain an erection, or has mental health issues (anxiety being the #1).

    • Oooor some kind of physical health problem.

  • I suspect his ED isn't related to your boobs unless he's specifically said they are the issue.

    • He never said it. Already asked him if he even is sexually attracted to me. He said yes. I don't really seem to notice this, since he never touches me. Sometimes not even looks at me...

    • Maybe he has low T or just a very low sex drive. Sorry about what's happening. If things continue to slide and he's worth it, a couple's counselor can often make a huge difference.

    • If so, that must be really hard for him... thank you!

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  • No
    They are a turn on

  • nope not a turn off to me. i kind of doubt his issues of getting an erection are specifically about your breast size. probably more of a personal issue

    • Well, it's true the're actually more problems in bed. Telling me a have a really nice but, but not touching it. Hardly looking at me and not daring to touch me at all? I know guys, it shouldn't have to be a problem. My girls are telling me he's maybe gay.

    • Or could it be the guy is cheating?

    • hard to say what the issue is. he could be gay, he could masturbate too much and have conditioned his bod to respond to that stimuli, it could be that he's not that into you... whatever it is i don't think it's your boobs. if he is willing to be with you and have sex with you then it's fairly safe to say that he's attracted to you

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  • Sounds like you need a different guy. If he doesn't like your boobs, and has trouble getting an erection, send him off elsewhere. Tell him to go find some boobs he likes. Chances are, he will still have a hard time getting an erection.

  • No, B's are great and allow a girl to go bra-less... which is sexy as hell. They also don't droop all the way, when the bra comes off which can be a bummer.

  • I wouldn't ave problem with flat chests but they couldn't turn me on if there wasn't some action involved... Althoug I like and prefer small boobies... I'm turned off by big boobs... Especially if they have big areolas...

    • Action is always needed and wanted ;)

    • ;) ;)

    • So you mean you like small boobs but not completely flat chests? That's my preference - small, but visible

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  • Well, no. If I was intimate with someone, i would grab everything I could.
    So no, small boobs are really not a problem. The face is the most important part.

  • I love all breasts. Small, medium or large. So no, a girl having smaller size breasts doesn't turn me off at all. In fact I find them very sexy.

  • No sometimes they're a turn on, you know?

  • Bigger is usually always hotter but it wouldn't be a turn off per se unless you were completley flat. 34b isn't completley flat.

  • Doesn't bother me at all. I'm a leg guy anyway, the rest of the body turns me on more than boobs do. Even though those are great too :)

    • Nice to hear there is more that count :)

  • nope not a turn off but do you know what's a turn on? A women who is confident about her body

  • That's never been an issue for me

  • Sounds about right.

    • You agree with the title?

    • I don't disagree.

  • It is nice to be up close, feeling every inch of the woman's body. More besides, perky boobs are very sexy.

  • For a lot of guys, I'm sure they're just happy to see and feel boobs.

  • No in fact I prefer small to flat chested women over c cup yo large size breast

  • i never had sex so can't say but yeah that is a turn off

  • no, not at all

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