Why do people find it offensive?

When I say I will never have sex with an uncut penis? Do we all have to like the same? It's okay to say that you don't like hairy vaginas, loose vaginas, dark vaginas or whatever but why do people feel offended with what I say? Can't I like what I like? My guy friend and my girl friend said that I shouldn't say that cause it's offensive.
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  • Well you're free to have whatever preference you like. But since you say you will never have sex with an intact penis, that means you'd better find out really early in a relationship whether or not the guy is intact or not. Otherwise you could really fall for the guy (and he for you) but then when you go to have sex you'll be like: "Oh! I'm sorry. I didn't know your penis is intact. That's a dealbreaker for me. Our relationship is over now. Have a nice life."

    • Of course I don't wait until foreplay to ask him if he's cut or uncut.

  • Because you're basically supporting a completely unnecessary and outrageous tradition to mutilate little boys without even asking them for consent. It's like saying "I will never eat the meat of animals who haven't been tortured before being killed. C'mon, what's your problem, it's just my preference. I like torture. Accept it."

    • lol @ the word mutilate.

    • It's not that deep honestly, all my brothers are cut and they are okay with it. You uncut people feel offended with a personal preference.

    • "They are okay with it" Well, what other choice do they have than being okay with it? What would you say if I told you I only wanna sleep with circumcised women? Isn't that offensive? And yes, I know they're not the same but mutilation is mutilation. And cutting off a little baby's body parts without even giving it the freedom to have a say on it is absolutely disgusting. There is NO - I repeat NO - good reason to circumcise ANYONE, boys or girls. Unfortunately Americans don't get this because you guys live in this bubble but just so you know: NOBODY outside of the US who doesn't happen to be Jewish circumcises boys. So don't tell me it's normal, because it's not. It's an absolutely insane and fucked-up thing to do. We live in the 21st century in case you didn't get the memo. And don't even start this bullshit about cleanliness. I'm a guy, I know that you can be uncut and perfectly clean. It takes like 10 seconds to role back the foreskin and wash the penis.

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  • Because people are sensitive these days and don't like it when other people don't share the same views as them. A lot men won't date types of women based on weight, looks, and sadly race. So if that's okay.. then having the preference to not date men with an uncut penis is fine too.

    • say it louder!

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  • It's only offensive to uncut guys who wanna bang you, but it's important for them to know.

    • That's what I thought! Cause I never heard of a cut guy being offended with someone saying they will only fuck uncut guys. It's a preference!

  • Well it's your right, just as it's man right to not want to have sex with uncircumcised woman. :D

  • It's not offensive... We all have preferences and people should respect them... If they don't like it, they shiudln't be bithing around about it...

  • we use to call it a shy turtle. we couldnt use the term uncircomsized penis in my catholic household. if thst is your preference thats fine. its what you like. but i must tell you for some its quote disgustingvto look at. some say that the coat around the penis is a source for germs and bacteria. circumcision is not mutilation. its more like cosmetic surgery for your penis. and yes i am pro circumcision. i am circumcised. NO to the answer will i send a picture of it. im not that kind of person

    • what are you even saying man?

  • Sounds petty and when a women is that petty its a huge red flag. The guys you date should be weary of dating you

    • but is not petty when you say you wouldn't date a specific race right?

    • Thats petty too. But race can be attached to culture and religion which Can create a defining line between two people. But uncut and cut. Puh lease Tell me you have something better to do than that lol

  • It's kind of weird that anybody thinks the natural born way is gross or whatever. There is nothing wrong with it. Circumsizedbpenises rub against he underwear aren't protected and chaffe all the time, are you going to stick a chaffed dick in your vagina? It doedntake sense to have a curcumsized penis, my father does and said that he made sure mine wasn't.

    It's just skin that you pull back and expose the head, if he needs a wash, help him out.

  • There's a viewpoint that circumcision is mutilation. So it's not just a 'preference', its like saying 'I believe men should be mutilated because I like it'.

    I don't happen to agree. I was actually circumcised as an adult.

    • I don't see it as mutilation.

    • Well some do. Beyond that, it does hurt people, anyone, when you categorically dismiss them for something not under their control. When guys announce they won't sleep with fat girls, or some girl says she won't date short guys, people who have those traits are... hurt. If it's just the odd person its disappointing, but when there's a trend (like there is with fat girls... or short guys... or, in north America, uncircumcised penises) you feel unfairly slighted by life. It doesn't mean that other people owe it to you to like it, but they can at least... be sensitive in how they say it. In all honesty, i'd suggest you maybe just find out and move on because you 'don't feel the same' if he doesn't meet your preference. While I was done as an adult, it's not like you just flip a switch and it happens, it takes time and money. SO they can't do anything about it.

    • thank you!

  • Wow, your such a dick.

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    See what I did there?

    Jk, It's not offensive, it's just a preference.

  • Tbh you have a right to like whatever you want, it's called preference. If people get "offended" by that then maybe they should go back to their safe space. Society had become too sensitive these days.

  • I am cut and even I find it offensive. What is wrong with you :|

    • How is that offensive?

    • You are not giving people chance. Some great guy will slip out of your hands just because of your absurd fetish. It is not FAIR to YOU. Stop discriminating yourself.

    • So know I'm forced to like uncut penises cause I'm forced to give everyone a chance? I don't think it works like that. I'm sure you have your own preferences

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  • Prolly cuz their dicks are uncut.

    • right!

  • If I said that I am only interested in circumcised women, would you be offended?

    • It's called female genital mutilation

    • And male circumcision is also mutilation.

    • As a man you can still feel pleasure even being circumcised a woman can't. So miss me with the mutilation thing, that's a wack excuse uncut men use.

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  • dont blame you uncircumcised dicks look gross sure am glad i got cut

  • I don't agree but I'm not offended.
    It's your good right to only sleep with circumcised guys. The same way it is my good right to not date anyone who thinks mutilating people for no good reason who can't even consent is the way to go

    • right!

  • because you are rejecting people based on their genitals.

    • It's a preference when you say you will never have sex a specific race but it's offensive when I say I don't wanna have sex with an uncut guy?

    • Exactly. I heard many men say they won't date black women. People will say ok that's cause your secretly racist.. then they go no.. it's just "my preference"

    • @BrittBratt2416 however, there often is a huge cultural difference between black people and white people. I would have no problem dating a black woman who listens to classical music or classic rock and has similar interests as me. A woman who fits the gangsta / hood stereotype... Not so much.

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  • let me check first
    *elevator music*
    well because people like to be offneded by everything
    let me say this : i cauld marry 4 women
    and people will go crazy

  • What's the big deal? Most people are saying they will never date you. What's there to get offended? Everybody has their preferences.

    • thank you!!

    • ☺ reply was too short

  • that's not offensive in any way, it's like me saying that I'll never have sex with a girl weighing over 100lbs XD Not offensive, just that everyone has their type

  • You can choose whoever you want. All the arguments against you are invalid. Period.

    Freedom of choice is yours. They don't like it, tough.

  • They are Wrong. YOU can date whoever YOU want to.

    You can also SAY what your preference is.

    So what if it offends people. You have the right to your opinion. People are so weak and political correct these days.

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