How to tell my girlfriend that I dont like to fuck her 3 times a day?

She is always high on her drive and want me to fuck her 3 times a day or even more..
Even while i am asleep she takes out my D_IK and sticks it in her and stars riding me :/ untill i cum
I dont wanna leave her or hurt her by saying anything rude Cuz i love her a lot :)

But i am on the skinny side (PIC- https://tinypic.com/r/x4ps2e/9 ) and have been focuing on bodybuilding to gain some size

But having sex with her like 3-4 times a day is making me think all the calorie i take up is getting burned and i am not getting bulked while i have sex with her and cumming in her

How do i tell her to stop it

PS 3-4 times a week is ok i guess
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Most Helpful Guys

  • How about a compromise with quality over quantity. Have some romantic dinners or whatever to give her and yourself some great sex and then buy some toy or perhaps watch porn together while you or her masturbate her.

    In regards to you not getting "bulked" because of sex. I highly doubt that and if that was the case just eat more.

  • Just use sex as your warm-up cardio, go to the gym, come back and have sex as your cool down, stretch, and have the third time before you go to sleep xD work it into your workout schedule you're not gonna lose gains from sex unless you're marathoning it 45mins+ each time

    • Its like 20 mins max

    • Yeah you're good then, not gonna lose too many calories from that. I've had sex with my girlfriend like 5 times in a day (not every day like that of course, but still) and then went to the gym, and I'm on the leaner side. Throughout that I've still been making slow, steady muscle gains. Just eat an extra snack for the carbs, have some peanut butter for calories/protein, you'll be ok

    • Do i look way skinny in the pic Just wanna know how i look in the eyes of other I wanna bulk up so bad :D

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  • You only burn like 100 calories on average when you have sex. Sounds like you're just making an excuse for not having quick results. If you want her to slow down just tell her. Communication is key.

  • Ohhhhhh ur life is soooooo hard ur girlfriend needs dick 3 times a day lol most guys would kill to have your girl, man the fuck up and handle her 3 times a day

    • My thoughts exactly, lol.

    • :) I f i was a fat guy i would have smacked her more than 5 times a day But Bulking up is more important for me than SEX After i get healthy then Ishe would be the one to say STOP I can't take no more LOL :p

    • I would love to have sex 3 times a day, haven't done that in a while, I tend to have sex once a day, always at night sometimes twice a day when we decide to have morning sex

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  • Sounds like the perfect girl? If you can't keep up I think she will get frustrated and start to argue when she gets horny and worse case cheat on you or leave you.

    • 😖 what do I do?

    • You both have to make compromises. Why don't you get a vibrator or toy to use on her when you are worn out?

    • I had no problems fucking her But I am skinny and bulking up Do I look very skinny to you Check the link and say bruh... Untill I gain some mass after that she would be the one to say that she can't fuck me no more more 😝

  • fucking her 3x a day is not preventing gains.

    eat more meat and bang your girl.

    • geez thanks

  • Just offer to eat her more often. That way you burn fewer calories, she gets sex, and heck you might GAIN a couple of calories.

    • U look lika ripped guy any tips for size gain :p

    • Haha. Sorry. Not me.

  • leave her. there are millions of girls out there who don´t want it that often. leave the rare ones who like that for the many guys who like that too xD

    but for real. mismatching sexual drives will lead to frurstration and breakup in the long run anyway... so it will most likely not work out anyway.

  • Just tell her what you wrote here

    • What if she leaves me if i can't cope ith her sex drive

    • Then she isn't worth for you

    • If she loves you she won't leave you only bcs of sex

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  • I don't know how can you tell her but I know you are STUPID !

    • why u think so 😵

    • She wants you to fuck her 3 times and u dont? Peh how man u are pal? 3 times in a day nothing for me.

    • OMG I am a skinny guy and bulking up I fear that the sex is hampering my gains Check the link pic don't I look skinny to u?

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  • im pretty sure most guys would be hella jealous after reading your post. lol

    • LOL if i was a ripped guy then it was ok But man i heard that skinny people like me should not even masturmate much And here come sex

    • hmm haha, why dont you buy a mass gainer, there are only calories in a big amount in that

    • Yup thinking of it

  • To be honest I don't see a pronlem here.

  • I can help out...

  • if she leaves you, then she leaves you, but, at least you will have been honest with her

  • Just tell her you need a break sometimes, and want to make it special, it's not using that many calories and most guys would love to have a girlfriend with a sex drive like that but obviously to much of a good thing can be bad at times

  • Well just talk with her. It is as simple as that. But if your really worried about nor gaining at the gym just eat more. It also takes a lot of time to bulk up. You won't see results for months but when you lift you will notice how much lighter the weights are.