Girls, do you like a hand on your neck during sex?

[Anonymous]

Why is this a turn on? Do you like a soft grip or tight? Is this why girls typically like sex with elder men?

[kaylaS91]

I do find my boyfriend's hand on my neck during sex to be super hot. Especially if I'm on top and he kind of 'holds me up' by it (not fully body weight... just part). It's hot and a bit intimate to have that much trust in each other? It's kind of hard to explain. I like him letting his primal side out like that, though.
(what does a guy having his hand on our necks during sex have to do with 'girls typically liking sex with elderly men?)

[Asker]

Do you grip his neck too? If many younger guys don't understand the appeal and are apprehensive to this whereas older men are already accustom to it, at least thats what i thought it might be

[kaylaS91]

umm... no, not really. I prefer to have my hands around the back of his head or shoulders if he's on top. There's also the factor that when I'm on top, I love making out at the same time. Not only does him producing some kind of resistance on my neck make riding him a wee bit more difficult, but it also prevents me from being able to kiss him. I love the total mindfuck that brings me, which I'm not certain would work the same way if done to him, y'know?

[Anonymous]

I'm neutral on it - just don't squeeze too hard. I'm pretty permissive and open, but personally don't get this whole "my man needs to hint at how he can kill me" power vibe some people get into. The idea that guy is aroused by harming me would turn me off of them more than the sex itself.

[Goldie757]

My boyfriend is the same age and I love it.

[aeblalock]

I don't know that I have ever put that on the top of my list. I think it sounds slightly dangerous to be honest.

[baepink]

YES, because I like to be touched there Im not sure why it just one of those spots I guess. I like soft grip more than tight but either way is fine and that has nothing to do with older men.

[Asker]

Do you hold guy's necks too?

[baepink]

Yes I do

[wynnie]

I love being gripped tight by my neck and forced to look a man in his eyes during (it's even hotter if he's older).

[Asker]

Is it hotter with an older man because he seemed to know what you would like without you having to say?

[wynnie]

That and I just have a thing for older men.

[BillieJean1070]

Why is this a turn on? Yes
Do you like a soft grip or tight? Slightly tight
Is this why girls typically like sex with elder men? My best experience at it was with a Dominant that was 40ish.

[Asker]

Thank you for coming back to the question for me :)

[rgb008]

Yessss
Tight grip

[Asker]

Whats the appeal, how does it make you feel?

[rgb008]

I like feeling submissive