Unimportant. Though that depends on your perspective.
Relationship value is virtually null since a relationship is built on many different values and compatibilities.
Simply sex, well then it might be important if you have no other skills in the bedroom. And if the dude is a bit undersized I can see a benefit there also.
One aspect I can tell you from experience when it matters most is if you want a dude to remember you for the rest of his life. I don't remember a lot of my partners names or even the overall experience, but I can tell you the specific few who were super tight or even to small. I remember one specific one, for example, that did keel exercises so much that she could actually life me off the bed by gripping and lifting. I plainly remember her saying "are ya ready?" right before, yea it was a surprise.
freaking auto correct, kegel.
I'll be honest as well. Being with a girl who has a tight to very tight vagina is very important to me. I'm not saying it is the ultimate factor in my choice to be with her or not, but rather it is a very important side-benefit to me staying with her longer than just a casual hookup or one-night stand. Not too mention, I will attest to the fact I'm very well endowed and I like a tight vagina, because pushing into the girl and it being a little bit uncomfortable for her while we're having sex appeals to my nature and personality. You asked for honesty so there it is. I like for the sex to be a bit uncomfortable for the girl while I'm fucking her and having a tight pussy assist with that part of what I find attractive.
I don't understand the tightness thing. When women are aroused the vaginal canal stretches and the vagina is lubricated so that it can stretch for sex. Why is it a problem when it doesn't feel super tight? That just means that she's super aroused. The only time it'd be super tight is if it's dry and she's not aroused. If anything the tightness during mutually satisfying sex would come from the girl tightening her vaginal muscles while orgasming.
my vagina gets tighter when fully aroused. it swells and the muscles thing is separate.
It gets tighter? That's odd, like it's tighter than when you're dry and unaroused?
yeah, always has been. and the longer i'm aroused, the tighter it gets like when i'm edging for 2 hours
I can only fit 1 finger in my Punani comfortably and 2 if I'm really aroused. I feel like I'm too tight?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It should be tight but not too tight. It took 2 kids to get my wife just right for me where it didn't hurt but felt amazing.
Not important, my dick is so big that it doesn't matter
gran Canyon man.
I'm pretty sure vaginas don't even stretch unless they're ripped, I think i read somewhere they go back to the same elasticity like a half hour later. But hey i'm a guy so my comment is irrelevant.
Thank you. Finally someone who actually realizes that stupid tightness thong is wrong. All vaginas are the same size and elasticity. Guys need to stop flattering themselves if they think their penis is gonna make it any more loose lol
@kittycat119 Thanks!
guys seem to care
Yeah I don't care too much
Usually it's too tight for me cause I kind of have a thick penis
So girls who are a little looser are perfect and the sex is crazy good
well it needs to be tight enough to feel something and to orgasm inside otherwise you can't make a baby..
Not so much. Been with a girl that has really tight V and it was not really too pleasant. Again, I dont think I'd like it to be too loose but I wouldn't deny sex or dump her just because she's "loose".
I'd say pretty important for pleasure during sex. But I wouldn't dump a girl just because her pussy weren't tight enough. so not extremely important
Air tight!
It should grab on like a pitbull :P
are you by chance... Zombiekilla the editor?
@This_is_my_username I was at one time, But far from an editor now lol
hey!! i was woering where you went. I came back after a break and you deactivated!
for me responsive pussy is way more important than tight, had sex with many but still dont understand what is called tight pussy, as it flexible any tight can be loose and loose can be tight! responsive and skillful pussy required!
Since I have a smaller penis, yeah it's pretty damn important. I don't bother having sex, though, because all women will place the blame entirely on me for our physical incompatibility for me having a small penis.
I prefer Grand Canyon
No BS you say? Ok no BS answer, tighter vaginas feel better. End of story. It also makes a guy's dick feel bigger, so it's a plus for women as well. They can be too tight or too small, but for the most part tighter is better. If you don't have a tight one, there is still hope. There are what are known as kegel exercises that can make you feel tighter during sex. Being fully aroused will cause your vagina to engorge and feel tighter. There is also oral and anal sex (giving you as many options as I can).
My ex had a pretty big vagina, the biggest I had ever been with. She did some kegels, felt much tighter, and some of the best sex I've ever had! It took almost a year though, so you need to stick with the kegels.
It's not the end of the world if she isn't , we can do other things , I'm sure her mouth can feel pretty tight
I'll be honest. I'm thankful that my size is a little bit above the average size so tight vaginas doesn't make a big difference, but I do like them tight but not too tight because then I wouldn't be able to get it in. Lol. :-)
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