A question for the girls who like tall skinny guys: please discuss some of the features you like these guys?

[Anonymous]

Some backstory: I am 6'3", 164 lb and am bisexual. I like women both sexually and emotionally but I also have a thing for naturally big men (not men who became big from working out), strictly a sexual interest though. I get a fair amount of attention from women both outside and online. I have read some study that thinner men are more likely to be slotted into the relationship category because women "trust" them more. Obviously height coupled with any body type gives rise to a more "protective" feeling among women. Another study showed that high T girls had a slight preference for guys with a narrower body type. From a really shallow perspective, I also heard that a leaner body type can lead to the illusion of a bigger penis, bigger hands, etc. Anyhow I have personally never had an attractive myself to leaner taller men but I am curious to learn more about what sort of features girls like about these men. I'd appreciate input from both an emotional and sexual point of view. Thanks!!

[Berethor]

Being tall is always a plus for man, that's why even most Bishonen are tall, anyway the fact that you have sex with men would make you more unmanly for many women then the fact that you have almost no muscle, and that's why your question is focused on the lesser issue.

tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/Bishonen

[Asker]

Huh? What does that have to do with anything lol. Oh and I've never had sex with men. "I get a fair amount of attention from women both outside and online." I put this in my question because I want to learn what it is that attracts women to me.

[Berethor]

Anyway the rest of the answer is in the link, in case that you have pretty face. :)

[Asker]

All right cool lol

[Prettyapathetic]

I like thin men if they still look healthy.. buff men just seem... Fuckboyish

[Asker]

Ok yea haha that goes in line with that study hehe

[Prettyapathetic]

Plus bodybuilders just want to pull chicks and are deep down insecure. It's like bodybuilderexia

[Berethor]

@Prettyapathetic why should they be insecure with such powerful and manly body? :)

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[Prettyapathetic]

@Berethor they weren't happy with their body in the beginning

[Asker]

You clearly have a pretty good understanding of how guys work! Good job =P

[Prettyapathetic]

Are you being sarcastic or for real?

[Asker]

Haha for real =P

[Asker]

Most girls your age probably don't understand that working out compulsively is actually a huge sign of insecurity

[Prettyapathetic]

Most Guys that bodybuild never learnt to love themselves when they were overweight or thin, so they excessively keep doing all these crazy bodybuilding workouts and diets. I sat down one day and thought about it

[Berethor]

@Prettyapathetic you saying it as if most skinny people are naturally so, and not because they are obsessed with it, even to the point of bulimia and anorexia.

[Prettyapathetic]

@Berethor skinny people don't eat as much calories as fatter people. What's the reason to bodybuild then?

[Berethor]

@Prettyapathetic bodybuilders are working out/doing sport much, and some are using steroids, of course steroids are not healthy, but natural muscles are good looking and strong.

[Prettyapathetic]

@Berethor but it's out of not liking your original body?

[Berethor]

@Prettyapathetic maybe, or out of a will to make it look better and becoming stronger.