Girls, My mom caught me masturbating in my room! Help what do I do?

[Girladvice1927]

So I thought I was alone in the house and I was stressed out from all my projects I'm getting so I decided to shower and slip in my room to masturbate but like 1 minute later as I'm moaning "ohhh daddy!" (Yes I'm so fucking embarrased😥) My mom said "(my name)? Can I come in?" And I didn't even have one second to respond and she barged in and I screamed "MOM!!! WHAT THE HELL!!!" And she said "oh I'm sorry I'm sorry" and she immediately got out and closed the door. I feel so sick to my stomach, she saw me rubbing my clit and naked (I don't even think she knows that I shave my vulva I'm so dead😪) I'm afraid she'll tell my dad and then I'm worried that both my parents will think I did it for my boyfriend (who is a year older than me (19 and I'm 18) because I was watching porn on my iPad but it really looked like I was videoing it for him which him and I both discussed we wouldn't do until we were married but he had nothing to do with it since he's out of town with his parents for a couple days. Please please help and give me advice I'm so scared my heart dropped and I feel like throwing up😪

[kelly173815]

Well that sounds awfully embarrassing 😨😨😨😨 I'd suggest maybe acting as if nothing happened. If your parents don't say anything (which is a possibility as you are 18) just don't bring it up. If they do say something, just explain that it wasn't for your boyfriend and your not comfortable doing that sort of thing, at this stage in your relationship anyway. Unless your parents are super religious your mum probably won't care that you were just masturbating, she'll likely be as embarrassed as you. Try and think on the bright side... I don't think your mum will be entering your room without your explicit permission anymore!

[Girladvice1927]

My mom really isn't that religious, she would probably only care if I was sending it to my boyfriend (which again I'm not!😬) but I didn't. Hopefully by a couple days it will all be forgotten

[Girladvice1927]

Haha yeah I don't know what she was thinking to barge in like that when it clearly sounded like I wanted some privacy. (Maybe she had this slight thought that I was cheating on my boyfriend and invited someone over to have sex, which I would never ever do! Cause that sounds so wrong to me) My only fear is that she tells my dad and then my dad talks to me about it (which would make me super uncomfortable) and I don't even know what to say if they ever bring it up

[AmberlyQuynh]

well, depending on how long ago it was, I'd wait and see if something is said. if not, it's not a big deal to her. she may use it herself as a way to cope sometimes (I know, gross, but you have to admit we're all human with the same needs and sometimes sex isn't the right kind of relief you need.) if it continues to bother you if nothing is said or you just can't take the anxiety that goes with it, ask her. it'd be great time to bond with her on a sexual mindset if your relationship is comfortable.

[Girladvice1927]

It was about 8:50 pm last night. My worst fear is that she tells my dad and then my dad talks to me and then I'll feel super uncomfortable

[Girladvice1927]

And I also don't know what to say if they ever bring it up

[sugar95]

That sounds terrible... If I were you I'd act like nothing happened. If your parents bring it up, just say "I don't know what you're talking about."

[Girladvice1927]

Okay, thank you for your quick response. I'm literally crying of embarrassment and how scared I am right now but that is a very good idea. Thank you

[sugar95]

no problem :) Think about it from their perspective - they probably wouldn't want to bring it up either.