I just found out my boyfriend has a 6 inch penis,, can it be satisfying? is it good for rough sex?

before we have sex, my boyfriend always said that he is too long ( penis) and that he is 7.5 inches,, he is my first boyfriend so i was so excited, and then the last week we started to make out and take clothes off and i saw his penis looks not long, kinda short compared to his height ( 187 cm) .. and in the middle he said ( i am only 6 inches.. not big) ,., i replied in a nice way.,, we didn't penetrate, thats why i am asking, is it going to be enough for doggstyle and rougher positions? .. is it satisfying for a virgin? ,, ps: i have only seen penises in porn, so i dont have enough reference, and i love him anyway,, just curious
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  • A 6" penis is very slightly longer than average. 80% of adult men in the entire world have penises between 5.2-6.1" long, so he's on the high end of average.

    You have to realize that men in porn are chosen (and often self-selected) because they have enormous penises. They are literally one in a million guys - meaning if you take one million guys, you'll likely only find ONE of them with a porn-sized penis. Expecting normal guys to have penises even remotely similar would be like expecting normal guys to have muscles like Mr. Universe winners:

    www.bodybuilding.com/.../weider-retrospect1_f.jpg

    Or like guys expecting most girls to be 5'5", thin (say, 120 pounds), but have big, firm, perky, natural DD boobs.

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    The thing is, if you're a virgin, chances are you'd prefer a SMALLER penis over a bigger one, because a bigger one is much more likely to hurt. One of the things you may not realize about porn is that a scene that you see in porn that lasts 20 minutes may have taken 4 hours to shoot - with lots of breaks. Editing makes it look like all one continuous scene, but in truth, lots of girls, even experienced girls, can't handle the size of the porn guy for very long and needs to stop.

    So, I wouldn't worry yourself very much about this. Chances are that this guy won't be the last guy you ever date or have sex with, and given that 90% of guys are his size or smaller, you'll be just fine.

  • 6 inches. Oh no, you mean you are stuck with someone on the high end of normal? How will you survive?

    Seriously. People have bitched for years that porn gives men unrealistic expectations, but I've seen more women complain that anything under 8 inches is too small for them, more often than I've heard men proclaim that they won't settle for any breasts that are under DD.

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  • I thought my boyfriend was small, and we like rough stuff. When we had sex the first time, I didn't feel anything and I got so depressed about it, I thought about ending the relationship. But then the second time we did it... I felt it... pain, and pleasure but mostly lots of PAIN. Apparently, he had just slid it between my legs and hadn't actually penetrated me. Looks aren't always a sure thing darlin' let yourself have the experience and let THAT speak for itself.

    • How big was it? Can u compare to something like smaller than iPhone 10 by a lot

  • Um, 6 inches is a decent size. Be more worried about how he uses it not the size. Plus being a Virgin it's penetration is not gonna be enjoyable at first. It will most likely hurt so you're gonna want him to go slower til you get use to it. One more thing. Lots of women don't orgasm from straight penetration so make sure you get some clit play in when he is.

    • Thanks for the vote mhg. :)

    • What size is ideal for u

    • What size is ideal if 6 is “decent”

  • 6 inches is perfect. Most guys are around 5, don't expect to much. Generally anything over 7 (from people I've know anyhow) are usually from unnatural enlargements

    • I've known 2 guys that are 8 and natural. The first guy I know for sure as we were both Virgins and the second my man I live with now. I don't think guys of that size are usually unnatural enlargements unless they are doing porn.

    • *using :)

  • Nope. He's gotta be fucking 14" inches or it's a no go.

    6 is above average dude, you're fine.

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  • It'll be fine. Rough sex is more about your mutual state of mind. I'm confident he's more than large enough to satisfy you.

  • My penis is 6 in and never once has a guy or girl told me that its small, In fact they all seem to love how big it was and were facinated by it. I had a girl tell me once that she thinks its bigger than 6in but I'm not to sure on that.

  • So he has a regular size penis? He has an average size penis so yes I think that's fine unless you have an unaverage vagina.

  • It'll work.

  • It's posts like these that stir up insecurities in men. Thank you, now the frequency of penis questions will grow for a while.

    • Got no brain man

  • This sounds like a dude disguised as a female. LOL

  • First of all, your expectations are way too high. 5 inches is average, so even if he is "only" 6 inches, he is still a full inch above average.

    He should've told you the truth from the beginning, however... or just not offer the information at all, because it's not important (or at least it shouldn't be).

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  • You do know that that's above average right?

  • I think you will be fine haha

  • Nah.. Double it and then we can talk.

  • I think you’re fine. My penis is 6.2 inches long erect 🙂

  • HAHAHAHAHA!

  • no you need at least 20 inches to penetrate enough...

    • I think she means penetrate the vagina not skewer her like a kebab

    • she likes being throat fucked from the vagina.

  • I don't know your location as location to location average size increases or decreases. according to our location it is average size. here are few facts I found on internet:

    1. vaginal canal is not that much long it is about 5-6 inches and the external part is more sensitive and make you fell enjoy during sex so if the size is 4.5 inches it could also satisfies women.
    2. larger penis could hurt you if you are virgin (i am not saying about expert guys) as you said you watched porn and they have larger penis. yes they have larger penis because they are selected on that criteria and furthermore the camera position also makes us to feel their penis are larger. while watching porno you could observe that a new pornstar girl they do not penetrate whole penis.
    3. girth is more important than length.
    4. foreplay is most important art that is required to satisfy a female.
    5. stamina is also important i. e. how long he could stay/f-ck a girls without cumming.

    • Guys in porn also take suppliments that make their erections 1 to 2 inches bigger. Developing expectations from porn will leave both men and women with an unrealistic view of how sex should be.

  • Should be enough. 6 inches is actually slightly above average believe it or not

  • Well six inches is bigger than the health professionals say is average size.

  • the world average is 5.1 inches (or 13 cm) erect

    even half of that still does the job

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