I want her to be my GIRLFRIEND, but she only wants sex? 😫😔😕 ?

So I met this girl two weeks ago at a bar. She was sitting with her group of friends when I walked in. My eyes IMMEDIATELY fell on her. Our eyes met: she was looking at me, too, with that devilish dark eyes. Honestly, bro, I got week in the knees. I never knew that just one look can be so powerful. I have NO idea why I did this, cause it's a lame move, but I took her friend's cap and put it on my head. Just to get her attention. Few minutes later she came up to me to get the hat back and after a minute or two of INTENSE flirting, she started kissing me and we made out. Basically, we ended up dirty dancing together and grinding on each other. I fingered her in the bathroom and she jerked me off. We exchanged numbers. I texted her the next day. She didn't respond. She texted me back after 2 days. We met up for a date. I listened to her: she is so intelligent, charming, charismatic, different and cool. She is so unique. Not to mention that she is stunningly beautiful and sexy. But the thing I find the most fascinating about her is how confident, assertive and wild she is. She is the kind of girl that all the other girls are jealous of, but, yet, they want to be like her. She is unFUCKINGreal. By the end if the date I was falling for her madlyyyy... I was super horny as well (she wore this mini crop-top and daisy dukes and high heels sandals) and she was stroking my package underneath the table with her foot while drinking from the straw and looking me right in the eyes. 😉 However, she left me wanting more. 2 days later we had sex and she is a BEAST. She is INSANE in bed. We have been seeing each other EVERY single day since then. I told her that I was in love with her and asked her to be my girlfriend. She told me that she doesn't do relationships, but that she likes the chemistry and that we can continue having sex. Honestly, I am brokenhearted. I am in love with her. Should I continue seeing her, or not? I am 23, she is 18...
Continue seeing her, because of the great time you have together, plus it might change her mind and eventually she might agree to be your girlfriend one day, plus it would hurt you to cut her off out of your life completely...
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Stop seeing her, cause it has no future and you know it, you are just hurting yourself and giving yourself false hope.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Just keep sleeping with her and see where it goes. But you have to remember you aren't dating.

    No jealousy bullshit, no acting possessive, you don't care where she is at 8pm on a Saturday night if she isn't with you, it doesn't matter if she doesn't text you back until 10+ hours later.

    Don't suffocate her, don't buy her things.

    • Yes. This.

  • It sounds like she just wants you for sex, and you shouldn't go into the relationship having any false hope. I like a girl who tells someone straight up that they are NOT looking for a relationship. You have been fore warned... just know that. Everything you do can and will be a waste of your time and effort.
    Think about it.

  • I want to meet her! 😄 She's a freakin queen. She'll never change. Don't expect that. WTF? I know that because I am like her.

    • Careful we have a bad ass over here!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Keep enjoying the sex. Better to be heart broken and getting laid than heartbroken and not.

  • Have fun until a serious girl comes along. Also 18 is a flaky age.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • How did an 18 year old get into a bar?

    • This is Serbia. There is no official drinking age here. At least not so strict. But 16 year olds can come, too.

  • This sounds like a troll question

    • WTF?

  • Lol you're living my dream.

    • ? Your dream?

    • Yes for a girl to want sex but not a relationship. I meant dream as in something that I want not the hallucinations you get when you're asleep.

    • You're freakin 14. Your dream should be to eat a big box of cookies and milk, baby.

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  • She's a slut, go MGTOW my brother!

    • You are suggesting me to go MGTOW, while when a girl owns her own life, she's a slut? WOW... Talking about double standards. Do not call girls like that, bro. That's fucking disrespectful, besides, I love her.

    • LOOOOOL keep getting your emotions ruined bud, you're a mangina anyways.

    • Haha. You are the pussy. You are the mangina cause you you feel the need to act all tough and disrespectful, just because you are insecure. I have nothing to be ashamed of. I am not an emotionless robot and I am proud I respect girls.

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  • Continue seing her and treat her like your girlfriend.