My boyfriend has a foot fetish and?

[Anonymous]

So I hate feet and I can't stand them but ironically my boyfriend has a "foot fetish." He brought this up in the beginning of our relationship and was surprised that I was open minded to it because for me, I know it turns him on and I'm understanding of it. He really likes my feet and compliments how soft they are or how high my arches are and this has made me feel better about my feet because I never really liked them. I've let him massage, suck/lick them, tickle them, etc to please him. However, although I'm accepting, recently I've been starting to feel insecure. I get upset at thought of him looking at other girls feet in public or in pictures (not in porn because I'm fine with him watching it as long as it doesn't take a toll on our relationship since I as well watch porn.) I've also been not wanting him to touch my feet since I'm afraid he doesn't appreciate other parts of me. He, 80% of the time I'd say, pay attention to my chest, stomach, ass, legs but I can't help but FEEL this way. It doesn't make sense to me but I know it stems from being paranoid and jealous. The thought of him masturbating to pictures on wikifeet bothers me (I know he used to do it but I'm not sure about now) and him looking at other girls feet in public whether I'm with him or not annoys me. I've briefly told him that I don't want him to look at other girls feet (I don't remember if i specified what I was okay with) and he understood. I wish I could talk to him about it but he's ashamed of having a foot thing since he hates the word fetish and I understand. I don't think his thing is extreme like some men but I know that it's there. Please how do I get over feeling jealous and insecure, I really need help. Thank You.

[truthbeknown]

Ok, doesn't matter what the thing is the guy likes, he will look at other women. This is human nature and women need to understand this. I love asses and I look all the time! I mean no disrespect and I love my wife's ass and worship it all the time, but I still look at others because I am human. This doesn't mean I want them or I don't want my wife. It is like having a nice car and loving your car, but you still appreciate other nice cars too. Foot fetish is bigger than you think and totally acceptable. Not something to be embarrassed or confused about. You need to embrace it and enjoy it with him as much as possible, or he will eventually get that fulfilled elsewhere. The reason you feel betrayed/paranoid or jealous even though he does pay attention to 80% of your other body features, is that feet is something that is too easy to see on other people. You don't see women bare chested or bare ass all over, but you can see bare feet almost anywhere. This is where you feel somewhat inadequate. But, even though he looks at others, it is you he loves and ultimately the one he is physically intimate with. This is what matters.

[Anonymous]

a foot fetish is something I just don't understand much , I don't find feet that attractive although might be the odd girl I know who has nice feet but often an area I'd over look. so since I have a hard time understanding it , its hard to give advice , I think in general fetish's can be hard to understand and people can be more into them than we realise

[Anonymous]

Well

[NJ_Casanova]

LMFAO, Seriously you are jealous of other girls feet. I can picture you finding him in a shoe store and yelling "Cheater" at him.

[truthbeknown]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

[KeiranByrne]

You learn to trust. As an aside, this is about more than feet.

[reptocarl]

You can't stop him looking at others feet just like I can't stop noticing a nice ass. The difference is if it's a glance and not an ogling stare there shouldn't be a problem

[lopflodin]

since it seems to bother you that he looks at other women id recommend you watch this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dlZsGpWJmos

[Alex88F]

cracked me up lol

[KingoftheNorth]

His gay left him and look for a real man

[truthbeknown]

Just like you, eh bud?

[KingoftheNorth]

@truthbeknown why you interested?

[truthbeknown]

Nope, I'm not available.

[KingoftheNorth]

@truthbeknown good say hi to your boyfriend

[truthbeknown]

Do you need a date bud, I know some gay guys?

[KingoftheNorth]

@truthbeknown who the guys you met in gay bars?

[sportyguy720]

Well I have a legs fetish, so yeah, lol. My friend... he has a fetish for girls stomach

[Itsjustme007]

Accept it and let him play with your feet