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I told my boyfriend that it bothers me that he watches porn to mastursbte when we have sex so often like it does make me like I'm not satisfying him?

porn has nothing to do with insecurities Bc if I were insecure I would make you unfollow all those "hot" girls that you have either on Instagram or on snapchat because it's fine I know theirs girls in this world that you'll find hotter then me and like we've talked before that's not a problem Bc everyone looks just as long as you don't act on it then we're good and as long as you don't look in front of me. On the other hand Porn makes me sick I find it diminishing to women. I don't know why you can't just imagine us having sex, like why do you have to watch other people fucking to get turned on? Why Bc it's easier seeing big titties and big asses on your screen then imagine us having sex. Maybe it would be easier for me to get a dildo and masterbate then waiting for you to come over. Bc if you found something that you don't think is a stupid reason to be mad about I would stop without hesitation. Honestly if you were satisfied with something you wouldn't feel the need to watch porn especially YOU out of so many guys get sex like everyday. And if I don't do the job then maybe you should just stick to porn. And that's FUCKING BULLSHIT when guys say "I imagine you when I'm watching porn " Like how tf can you imagine me if I look NOTHING like them? For example it's like if I were to watch a guy jacking off or Fucking another girl like yes I'm totally gonna imagine that it's you especially since you don't look ANYTHING like this guy.. That doesn't make any sense guys just say that so girls don't feel that guys watch it to watch other girls. I think I would prefer you getting a fake vagina Bc that way you can imagine me. Just like a fake dildo obviously who else am I gonna imagine? An imaginary guy and no I wouldn't think of one because you're the only guy who I want to see naked.
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Ok people don't come to tell me you're so controlling and blah blah blah bc it's MY opinion if you choose to let your man or girl watch it then cool just me I don't feel it's right especially since I'm neither prude , ugly , or anything. I'm literally always down to experiment and try new things. amd if you people won't stop if it bothered your ex and do it behind their back so if you're gonna come here to be like guys need it then BYYEE because uts NOT true look it up.
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  • here's the God honest truth about the majority of men, all men watch porn now whether they are honest about it with there wife/girlfriend i can't answer. Here's why men watch porn it's not because he doesn't find you attractive or anything but your not getting paid to take it up the ass and i could be wrong but i doubt your able to do most the stuff these professional porn star's can. In your defense I know you said you find porn disgusting but if you everr run across a video you will almost certainly notice the male porn star has a huge penis and can go for what seems like forever and that may or may not arouse you. Porn isn't a "replacement for pussy but when your not around sometimes a man just needs to relief himself and trust me nobody can "finish" me faster than me so if you've actually read this far just calm down and know it's perfectly normal.

    • That's my point we see each other like everyday ! And we always have sex we do so many different types of things bc I myself like to experiment he's even tied me that I have the nicest vagina and the best head he's every gotten. So why feel the need to feel to watch prom?

  • www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a5423-why-men-watch-porn

    • That's such BULLSHIT whoever wrote that is obviously in preference of guys watching porn and doesn't listen to the other side. Its been PROVEN that porn ends 50% of marriages in the U. S if a guy needs to watch prom then he's Obviiously addicted to it.

    • Please do me the courtesies of 1) not using abusive language and 2) citing a bibliographical citation for the study you quoted.

    • Lol how old are you 5? You don't hear bad words. And no you can do the research yourself ✌🏼

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  • You are overreacting and you come off as highly insecure.

    • How's that over reacting we have sex like everyday he even said it would bother him if I were to watch prom and get turned on by the guy and didn't think of him

    • You both sound very insecure as if you both have low self-esteem that's too fragile to handle the thought of the other seeing another naked, attractive person. You act like him watching porn is some huge puncture to your confidence

    • lol I know I'm attractive lol I've been told my multiple guys and my boyfriend if course and we have sexy like everyday day or every other day so what's the point of watching prom. Like I don't mind if I has hot girls on instagram or snap chat as long as he doesn't act on it. good for you that your boyfriend can watch all the porn he wants but for me I like intimacy suff and I want stuff that we try us be we both thought of it now bc he watched it on prom and was like I want to do that like sex has lost its meaning bc of porn.

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  • sometimes you'll find people with high sex drives they can't help it and you can go above and beyond sexually for him if it doesn't change tell him to keep it to a minimum at least , just be ready to take responsibility for his sexual frustrations, sometimes we watch porn imagining our partner in that position find out what he's watching he may have a fetish or kink he's fantasizing about

    • He told me he imagines me but how can that be like I'm positive I don't look like any of them and I'm not say in the aspect of my body bc he's even told m that I have the nicest vagina he's ever seen. He even told me that he didn't know how much it bothered me and that he reared does it so it wouldn't be a problem for him to stop. It honestly is out of respect

  • Guys watch porn pretty much a guarantee, if you don't like it you cut your population of possible boyfriends down to a few and far between

    • But why? Like what's the "need" for it like I have an ass and boobs and he's even told me that I have the nicest vagina he's ever seen

    • It's just what guys do doesn't have to make sense it just is a fact of life. girls do it too

    • Not me and no it's not it's an addiction and it's been proven that many marriages and relationships have ended bc of porn and I'm not saying that's my case but I personally don't like porn and I don't feel insecure lol maybe that's some other girls reasons but it's not mine

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  • I see where you are coming from, i really do. Whenever i go on leave and can see my girl i never masturbate. There is no need too because she is there fulfilling all my needs. BUT also when ever she is not there and i masturbate to porn i still imagine her because i love her. Sat what ever you want about attraction, or what ever, but if you really love someone they will never leave your mind

    • Aw but still why can't you just jack off to her pictures?

    • Its hard to go back to pictures after you watched videos :(

    • Maybe for you..

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  • If i had a girlfriend i wouldn't be masturbating to porn. I would be engaging in foreplay with her and satisfying her needs. I have to agree with you on this one.

  • Not reading all of that. But from what I read at the top. He doesn't value you.

    • lol I wrote so much more than that and I wrote that in my notes venting just so I wouldn't bitch at him he said he's gonna stop bc he sees that it bothers me

    • My mom dated a guy in her young days he did that and she didn't feel value and then she met my dad and then she had a handsome son

    • He didn't stop for her? Did he tell her she was gonna stop? You see good thing for him messing up bc she got to meet your dad !

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  • "Maybe it would be easier for me to get a dildo and masterbate then waiting for you to come over."

    You can go ahead and do that I'm sure he'd be fine with it.

    Listen, unless you're having sex with him several times a day, no, you're not satisfying him, and it would probably be a waste of your time to try and satisfy him. There's nothing wrong with that. Plus he might have some kinks that he has to watch porn to satisfy since he can't do it in real life. You shouldn't have a problem with him watching porn. You're overreacting.

  • I agree with you. My ex girlfriend used to turn me down for months at a time. Then one day I tried to get something going. She said her stomach hurt and we could have sex that night. I left to go to work and 30 seconds later my boss canceled. I came in the house and she was watching porn masterbating. She try to sell me on the whole she was horny for me but I had just left for work. She had no complaints. I always make her cum before I do. Multiple times. She squirts every time, so I know she's not faking. I never needed to masterbate. She was more than enough for me. She never stopped. It was about control with her. She never imagined me while masterbating. People who masterbate and use porn, while having a regular sex life, they typically never grow up. They really aren't worth the effort. Your right to feel the way you do.

  • He probably finds some of the girls on those websites more attractive than you.

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