Guys, is it "normal" for a straight guy to own a dildo?

I just started casually dating this guy I met at work over the summer. We finally hooked up a couple nights ago and things were going great but then he turns to me says "Hey I have a toy, wanna use it?" Obviously, I was a little taken aback but I say "sure" and he goes to his drawer and pulls out a dildo. I don't know if he was tired or wasn't sure he made me cum (which he had already done) but he seemed excited to use it on me. Is this something guys are doing now? I mean he was doing just fine on his own.
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  • Maybe not normal but nothing wrong with it. Definitely not common how he pulled it out confidently and was so ready to use it on you though, that's interesting.

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  • It's definitely not something most straight guys own, but I also don't think it signifies a problem of any kind. Maybe belonged to an ex, maybe he experiments, who knows.

  • Strange.

    Did you ever see his penis? Maybe it's small enough for him to be deeply insecure or he has erectile dysfunction.

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  • Uhm... no. Just no. That's not normal. Maybe it's in with the younger crowd, but that would creep me out. Sry.

  • I have one anal dildo butt for girls who are in to DP
    ITS Also a great way to make em squirt
    Butt always use iT with a condom

  • So, to me I wonder if he had it from a previous relationship? So... that could mean he used a used dildo on you...

  • Sounds like something I might do so no definitely not normal :)

  • sure, to use on women

  • It's a lot of fun to use toys on your partner... guys can enjoy toys on their own too...

  • no its not

  • It's not that common, but there's nothing wrong with it. What's the problem? You both enjoyed yourself thanks to his owning it, so win-win.

  • It does seem weird.. unless he likes to double penetrates you😂😂

  • no it isn't normal

  • i have toys
    and im not gay
    its mainly for women

  • No!! Not even a little bit.

  • Maybe he has erectile dysfunction?