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My girlfriend wanted to suck my cock in front of our friends?

My girlfriend and I hadn't seen each other in 10 days and then we went to a house party together. She was like: "Mmmm baby... I've missed you", we were making out the whole night and she got horny and moaned and grabed a handful of my package over my pants and was like: "I want it". Then she started unzipping my pants and she kneeled. Everybody was like: "Do it! Do it!" She wanted to suck my cock in front of everybody, but I was uncomfortable and I didn't let her do that. Later we talked about it and she said that she has a fantasy to have sex with me in front of other people. Appereantly, she has a friend that hosts in-door sex parties and she wants us to go. We would just have sex with each other, not with other people. But wouldn't that be weird, though? I mean it IS an ego boost for everybody to see my hot girlfriend sucking my cock, especially because I am an 18 year old boy, and when people see that a 23 year old hot chick thinks I am man enough for her, I will be very proud, but I might feel weird. Should I do it and why. Please explain. Did I make a mistake for not letting her suck it in front of my friends?
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  • This isn't the least bit "weird". In fact, it's just... a little bit farther out than most people along a common variable.

    Here, lemme explain.
    Imagine a scale of –10 to +10... of WANTING TO SHOW OFF.
    –10 would be literally locked in a small room, with food handed through a slit in the door.
    0 would be a normal amount of interaction, in normal clothing, everything stereotypically normal.
    +10 would be jumping on random car hoods in traffic and slapping yr naked genitals onto the horrified driver's windshield.
    OK. That's the scale.

    MOST people just stay pretty close to 0, on this scale. When they go to formal or business events, maybe they're at –1 or –2... when they go out partying, maybe +1 or +2.
    That's MOST people.

    SOME people, as soon as they get into a relationship, literally stop showing off altogether in any way. They start wearing clothes that may as well be burlap sacks. They stop shaving their legs. They stop going to the gym and eating protein and vegetables. They put on weight. They are WELL into the negatives. For these people, "being in a relationship" is equivalent to being stuck at –3, –4 or –5.
    I don't know why ANYONE would want to be in a relationship with someone like this -- you'd literally just get their ugly, shabby side, and they'd only make themselves hot again if you broke up -- but, apparently, a lot of people actually **WANT** that. Because it's "comfortable", and because other people aren't looking at the partner all the time. Bla.

    And now... we come to women like me, and yr girlfriend.
    Women like us -- when we're in a COMFORTABLE relationship -- go into the POSITIVE numbers.
    We WANT to be "arm candy".
    In a good relationship, we go to the gym MORE. We work out HARDER. We're INSPIRED. We want to look fucking good.

    We want to look good for our man -- AND we want OTHER eyes on *US* together (as a couple) -- AND we want to make all the OTHER men (and women) INSANELY JEALOUS.

    Oh fuck yeah.

    For some women, the limit of this is, say, +2 or +3... like, wearing a really really short skirt to the club when we go out with our man.

    For some, the limit is higher... and we find men who WANT to show us off.

    We want our men to TAKE us, in "public" venues (not 100% totally public, if we aren't stupid). We want to be POSSESSED, and conquered, and OWNED, in front of people.
    We want. Want want want.

    It's just... a little more extreme than wanting to wear short short skirts when we're out with you.

    But we want it to turn YOU on, too.

    • Now... a little bit of realism. Couple things. 1) Why aren't you comfortable with this? 1a) **IF** you think this has ANYTHING to do with her wanting to cheat on you, or use this as a segue into fucking other guys -- I CAN GUARANTEE YOU that you are COMPLETELY WRONG about that. Trust me. There *are* women who would be into fucking strange dick, but... THIS is NOT how those women would go about that. Nope. For now I'll just go with "Trust me on this one". If you actually *want* an explanation, I'll try to muster one. 1b) If it's something else... TALK TO HER about it. Communicate. Like anything else. When people say "Communicate" about sexual issues, the stereotype is that they're talking about a female concern -- but that's a stupid stereotype. Horrors! Boys have feelings, too! Talk to her. __ 2) Most women have NO IDEA AT ALL just how bad most men are at... *performing* in public. Honestly, dude, I'd say that AT MOST 0.2 percent of the male population is actually able to

    • perform sexually, on command, in front of an audience, without *any* degree of performance anxiety. I don't think most women know this at all... AT ALL. I'm pretty sure most women are actually so ignorant of this, that they might even mistake performance anxiety for being **turned off by THEM**. If you have the kinds of ambivalent feelings you've having, then, you will ALMOST DEFINITELY experience physical performance inhibition at first. (Even most guys who have no misgivings at all about public fucking STILL have more than a bit of erectile difficulty... at first.) If you decide to try this, then, you'll need to talk it through with yr girl first, and make sure that she has a realistic perspective. Also, you need to make sure that YOU have a realistic perspective. It's entirely possible -- in fact, it's pretty likely -- that you'll be hard as fuck right up until the moment when the clothes come off, and then *poof* not hard anymore. It sucks, but that is... something you'll

    • almost definitely experience, with this sort of thing. Make sure BOTH YOU AND SHE are ready for it, and that NEITHER of you will be emotionally affected by it. It's not a big deal. Shit happens. Make sure BOTH of yr attitudes are "It's not a big deal. Shit happens." __ As you may have deduced from this opinion, my husband has shown ME off in a variety of semi-public venues, over the course of our 17-year relationship (married for 15.5 years). We have the UTMOST discretion, and don't do it very often, especially now that we have 3 children together... and, when we do, there is absolutely zero chance that the word would ever get out. (The only place we would do it *locally* is a club where new guests can't get in without an invitation AND a guest fee of $1000 and up. Needless to say, that place is THE embodiment of discretion.) "In front of friends" may or may not be weird. This depends on yr friends. A *couple* of my close girlfriends have seen me and my husband fuck. Others, I

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  • There's a time and place for that and in front of all of your friends and a house party is not it. What is she trying to prove? That's pretty trashy and doesn't sound like she's has much respect for herself. Just my 2 cents.

  • I voted no because you're not into it, you don't seem comfortable with it.

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  • Don't do it it. You cannot undo it. Lol. She's using you for sex, but I take it that you're cool with that... as I would be too if she is indeed hot. Sex in front of people who are most likely masturbating to you? I mean, you have to honest about what an orgie really is. I was offered membership to a private sex club, the questionnaire really makes you think about what you are about to do. I tanked it. It's most likely going to be rich old guys and other weird shit going on. It's like a free for all.

    • This is not a club. Just a random house where young people she knows can fuck.

    • Oh, well thats interesting.

  • You went with what you felt. It wasn't a mistake. Now you know what's up and can figure out what YOU want. Personally, I wouldn't want that happening in front of my friends either. But I would want to fufill my girls family. If it were me, I'd probably go to that party with her.

    • Family = fantasy Hahah. BAD bad typo lol

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  • I absolutely love other people watching me suck dick or get fucked. I can't explain it but I get more turned on when I know everyone is watching my performance and my orgasms are much more intense.

  • Never do something you're not comfortable with. But if it's something you are intrigued by then why not?

  • Sounds like you have an adventurous girl with no hangups. As long as there are no legal implications, and your friends are rooting for it, why not go with it? But that decision is yours, it's your body and your relationship. Just know that she is one of her kinks and she may feel unfulfilled if you aren't interested in it.

    • @krispw lmao would u ever suck a dick in front of someone else?

  • Do it if you feel comfortable but definitely don’t do anything that you’re uncomfortable with. Talk with her and see if you two can compromise and understand each other’s feelings and needs in those situations. And if she’s wanting to suck your dick in front of her friends and you’re completely good with getting sucked off in front of a group of people, then if I were you I’d totally let her suck your cock in public. Clearly she’s proud of what you’re packing and she wants to show you off to her friends- no harm in that!

  • The only problem I would have with that is that with all the phone cameras around, pictures would be taken and end up posted someplace. If not for that, I would say go for it.

  • You're a fool, quite honestly. I've given hand jobs in public, had great fun doing it, given the boy a whacking orgasm and never regretted any of them in the least.

  • Go for it dude... it is only sex and you missed out on a great orgasm.

  • I voted Do it - but only if you are comfortable with it. Since you were uncomfortable you did the right thing. You may regret it in the future but thats okay. Sex is supposed to be crazy and fun, so when the time is right you should do it because that would be an awesome story

  • I would have let her do it. It is hot as hell being watched.

  • That's fucking weird

  • You should do it.

  • My ex girlfriend use to blow me in front of her friends! ;)

  • its weird

  • It's really just what you are comfortable with, but in my opinion it doesn't seem like the smartest thing to do.

  • It's in appropriate.. It's for ur eyes only.. Just make it privately and please have some respect for yourselves

  • She's a slut.

  • okay so it is weird to have people see you having sex. but if you think it's an ego boost I don't see why you shouldn't do it. maybe she should have asked you if you felt confident before trying to do that in front of your friends. She would be really greatful for fullfiling one of her fantasies and may reward you afterwards.

  • No, ew...

    But, I mean, you can do whatever you want.

  • Go for it man, i mean not exactly girlfriend material here but at least you can have some fun.

    • Why not girlfriend material? She's everything I want in a girl. I like dominant, sexually assertive girls.

  • Yes you have my permission. She may

    • Lmfaooo

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