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What EXACTLY is 1st base, 2nd base, 3rd base, 4th base and 5th base SEXUALLY?

Here's what I know:

1st base: making out
2nd base: doing stuff with hands (tit-grabbing, nipple playing, ass grabbing, fingering asshole, fingering pussy, playing with clit, playing with dick, playing with balls) so basically I think that 2nd base is any touching above OR under the clothes
3rd base: oral sex
4th base: sexual intercourse
5th base: anal sex

Is this true? If you think otherwise, let me know.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's based on baseball, so there is no 4th base or 5th base. It is first, second, third, and home.

    1st: kissing/making out
    2nd: groping/touching, OR just getting to touch/see tits
    3rd: getting her naked, OR finally getting to touch/see pussy
    home: sex

    Of course, considering getting a blowjob is pretty much as standard as a handshake in modern dating, the whole thing needs to be reworked, but that is, to my understanding, how it was always seemed.

  • You don't watch sports do you? Ever heard of baseball? Its a sport where a guy throws a ball at another guy with a bat who must hit it and run around FOUR bases.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Hm I'm not sure I don't think i've used those terms since many years ago, but first base is kissing, second base making out and upper body fondling 3rd is below the pants and4th is home run i. e.; sex. I just use the bases of the game of baseball so to me there isn't a 5th base lol!

    • I wouldn't define 2nd base as upper body. What about ass grabbing? That's below the waist, and definitely not 3rd base. 2nd base is touching everything BUT the genitalia.

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    • To each their own!

  • Lol. If we're sticking with a baseball analogy, there is no 5th base.
    1st is kissing. I consider 2nd base a guy touching my boobs, 3rd base any genital touching or sucking/licking. and 4th or home run being intercourse.

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  • What planet are you from where baseball has 5 bases?

    I think your second bases is a bit loaded. I think fingering and jerking off is more 3rd base along with oral.

    Home base is full on sex, vaginal or anal.

  • in my experience and i haven't used the baseball terminology since high school
    1st... making out (french kissing, heavy kissing, or anything beyond just a kiss)
    2nd... fondling
    3rd... oral
    homerun... intercourse

    so essentially the same thing as you except no added base or anal sex

  • I didn't know there was a 5th base. I'm watching baseball all wrong then...

    Aside from that, you are pretty much correct in the analogy. Just go up anal into 4th base, and also change the I numeration of 4th to Home Run and it would be bang on.

  • Completely made up and arbitrary...

  • Lol... I am 48 and this is the first time I have ever heard of 5th base.
    4th base is any kind of intercourse. there is no 5th base. the rest sounds right to me.

    • and it really isn't called 4th base. it is called a home run

  • When I was a kid it was slower.
    1st base - making out.
    2nd - bra-off breast fondling.
    3rd - hand up skirt and under panties. or getting Your cock stroked but short of cumming
    Home run - what it sounds like!

  • 5th base is a home run here? I'm lost on the extension of this euphemism. I would think 5th base would be marriage or something. How many bases do you think there are?

    • As much as I want 👸🏻

    • lol... good answer.

  • No it isn't.
    1st - kissing
    2nd - feeling, playing with tits
    3rd - fingering, playing with pussy
    4th - full on sex

  • Ummm 5th base?
    You know the "bases" are baseball references, right?

  • Someone needs to brush up on their baseball 😑

  • There is no 5th base or 4th base. 4th base is a homerun.

  • I must be old fashioned, I thought it was 1-3rd base.

  • I usually go from 1st to 3rd and sometimes steal home base.

  • 1st base : kissing,
    2nd base : breasts kissing, sucking, playing with nipples.
    3rd base : doing stuff with her pussy

    in my time there were only 3 bases.

  • Ha gaaaaaaaaaay

  • Considering that there can also be kinky sex things, I guess it depends on the kinkiness of it.

  • I'm up to 4 by your scale

  • Agree with your first 4.
    To me the 5th would be: being able to talk truth, share and realize each other fantasy.

  • 6. Threesome 7. group sex 8. DP 9. gangbang

  • first and home run are fairly well accepted.

    Some people think of 2nd as anything manual, 3rd as anything oral.

    Others view 2nd as only above the waist (direct) touching, and third being manual or oral stimulation of genitals.

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