Is it normal to want to get pregnant?

Logically it doesn't bode well but emotionally I really want to be pregnant. I want my boobs to grow and feel my belly grow and feel all the things that come with being pregnant and fertile.
I even want to have sex while being pregnant.
I stopped using bc recently and I've been really horny. My boyfriend and I have just been using the withdrawal method. If I got pregnant it would be hard to even consider getting rid of it. I secretly want to be pregnant so bad.

Any other girls experience the desire to be pregnant?
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  • I say get back on birth control and don't rely on the withdrawal method. To me it sounds like you are playing with fire? We all have drives and desires, but not every impulse should be acted on. Wait until you can afford a child and you have the logistics figured out as to how to conduct your life while you are raising a child for the 18 year minimum. And is your boyfriend on board with all of this? Does he want to marry you? Without marriage there really isn't as much commitment on his part I hate to say.

    • Yeah these are all things to consider. Thanks. I stopped using bc not because i decided i wanted to see if i wouldn't get pregnant, but because I had zero sex drive while using it. And I mean zero

  • Yeah, there are a lot of women who feel that way, it's fairly common, I feel the same, but not getting pregnant but impregnating a woman I'd love

    • Thank you for the mho

Most Helpful Girls

  • Before you do, please speak with your boyfriend, and be careful about putting him in the situation he might not want to be right now due to his own reason. Guys hate girls who get pregnant on purpose, unless he wants the same, you are rising to loose his trust, respect and love.

  • It's normal to want to be pregnant but that doesn't mean it's the right decision and I hope you told your boyfriend about your desire to become pregnant. It's not just your decision to make. A baby will change your life. I hope you realize this, the part after the 9 months...

  • I'm pretty sure it's normal, but you might want to be careful. I totally empathize with the feeling, but, if you do get pregnant, you won't be able to be concerned about what you want anymore because you'll have a baby to take care of.

  • Something that might not be normal for me, may be normal for you.
    I've never had same feeling but If that's what you feel, it is okay.
    You are measure of your own normality, not other people and their opinions.

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  • That's a very natural thing & the primary intent why nature created any living thing, humans are only a part of it

  • I never have.
    But i think i ovulate sand hahah.

  • It is perfectly normal. The withdrawal method is totally unreliable so you will likely get your wish. Pre-cum has some sperm cells in it.

    • Actually it doesn't. It only does if he didn't pee before having sex again

    • The jury is still out on that.
      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pre-ejaculate

    • Wikipedia?

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  • I think that's normal. Some women just have more of a biological drive. But you shouldn't make a huge decision based on that. You didn't even say anything about wanting a baby.. just to be pregnant.

    I'd say now is probably not the time.

  • I have! My was turned on by the possibility of getting pregnant on my first time, and I wound up getting pregnant nearly three years ago during my senior year in high school.

  • Like, our bodies are designed for it, so it'd be weird if we didn't.

    But like, don't get pregnant on "accident." Talk with your boyfriend and choose it together.

  • Does your boyfriend know you are not using birth control? Continue what you are doing and there is a good chance you will be pregnant within a year. I hope you are both willing to be parents.

    • He does.

  • i want it too but its cause i get baby fevers too often

  • You need to make certain your boyfriend is on board with you. If he isn't then stop trying or taking the risk. It's bitches like you that get pregnant on purpose for selfish reasons and deny a child a father that makes us fight having to pay child support. If you do it on purpose against your bfs wishes then you don't deserve child support

    • You need to calm the fuck down. Calling me a bitch... if this happened to you its your own damn fault for not wrapping it

    • Why has he stopped using condoms and why aren't you on birth control?

    • If he wanted to use them I would be fine with it. But he said he doesn't like them

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  • Absolutely!! I wish I could have kid, but I just haven't got any womb!

  • At your age its normal: baby fever.

  • No it's not Weird... But make sure he wants you to get pregnant... Don't get pregnant without his consent can lead you to be a single mother... I assure you that...

  • I call this MBS (Making Baby Syndrome).

    Man, my wife and I had that feeling a couple of months ago. Now we are having twins. Shit happens.

    • Must people call it baby crazy

    • @Nice_Guy_Last Congrats

    • @ivywang1030 thanks

  • You're probably in the age where you want a child. But you better realize and I hope you do realize that pregnancy and having a child isn't all happiness and the attractiveness of being pregnant and stuff like that. Talk it over with your boyfriend to see if you two are ready or not.

  • i want get pregnant too in the future ^^

  • Why?

  • i think its pretty normal to want this but its not ok not to tell your boyfriend about this because if you get pregnant he may not want to have a baby so its not fair to him. thats just my opinion though.

  • Just be sure to get married first, or you'll fuck up your child. A stable home is key.

  • its like that for women
    random moments they want a child

  • Yeah, woman get pregnant because they want to, otherwise it would be rape, wouldn't it?

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