Is it Racist to Not be Attracted to Black Women?
More than that, I do not even feel like it is possible for me. To me the notion of being attracted to a Black woman is akin to being attracted to another man. He could be a bodybuilder for all I care, yet I would feel no attracted toward him since I am not gay.
Similarly, I could encounter the most beautiful Black woman in the world and I would not feel attracted to her. She could have an amazingly fit body, super light skin, and a beautiful face, yet I would not feel attracted toward her at all.
My penis will literally not even get erect.
She could be wearing super revealing clothing, a thong bikini, even totally naked, vagina and all, yet I would feel nothing.
Is there something wrong with me? Am I racist?
I also *admit* that as wrong and racist as this sounds, a lot of this has to do with the negative stereotypes surrounding their race which I know is racist. Even if I do not believe them, they are still engrained in my psych on the subconscious level.
When I think of Black women, I will always think of oversized butts, dirty anal sex, children from multiple fathers, HIV/AIDS, promiscuity, and a ghetto attitude.
Yet, I know that these stereotypes are completely false and racist. I admit that they are wrong. But they still influence me whether I like it or not.
Are humans inherently tribal?
Or am I just trying to justify what I know is wrong?
If I could choose between monogamy with a non-Black girl and polygamy with my own harem of Black girls, I would pick the former because the latter would literally not attract me at all.
It would be like asking me to find men attractive.
Am I racist?
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