Girls, have you ever shared your man with another woman?

Girls, have you ever shared your man with another woman?
Guys, have you ever been with a girl other than your girlfriend/wife with your girl's permission?

I often watch my husband with other women because it's a turn on for both of us. One of my girlfriends has a similar arrangement haha. We've done it many times over the course of our relationship as we really enjoy it. Any other women on here who like to do this? :)
I've done it more than a few times before -- and want to do it again
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I've done it more than a few times before -- but I don't want to do it again
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I've done it once or twice before -- and want to do it again
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I've done it once or twice before -- but I don't want to do it again
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I've never done it -- but I want to do it
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I've never done it -- but I am open to doing it
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I've never done it -- and I will never do it
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  • Ok girlfriend...

    As someone who gets off hard on submission... I've fantasized RELENTLESSLY about being forced to find my husband a "replacement" for myself.
    Like... A woman who's hot as hell, 15-20 years younger than me, with all the ass, hips and tits I always wanted and never had... and who's still in the prime of her fertility. (As I get closer to menopause, THAT aspect of this fantasy -- her abundant fertility, contrasted with my own more and more increasingly useless body -- has grown and grown in strength.)

    Ahhh fuck girly... I fantasize in such lurid detail about them both -- my actual husband of 15+ years, and this fantasy woman in my imagination. I fantasize about them *together*.

    I think about HIM...
    ... His big strong hands, going straight for all the parts of her perfect body that "mah mama didn't give me".
    ... His hands instinctively grabbing where her tiny little waist expands into nice big child-bearing hips... while I look down at my own narrow-ass figure and start sobbing.
    ... How much he deserves more children, that my body couldn't give him. How hard and deep he should fuck her and knock her up.
    ... How much I love him.
    ... How I'd do ANYTHING for him... big things or little things. How I'd lie down under this woman -- my own rival, my hated replacement -- while he fucks her, and let her squirt all over me, just so the bed stays nice and dry for the man I love to sleep in.

    I think about HER...
    ... How she's so fucking perfect, with the dark skin I always envied growing up, and that perfect hourglass. How she's so much more of a *woman* than I am.
    ... How she looks smugly at me while he fucks her... and how it makes ME want to cum from pure shame and humiliation.
    ... How he's gna fuck a baby into her, and make her big and pregnant.
    ... How the baby's gna ruin that perfect body of hers. Haha, I think... Bitch. As I watch her kiss the man I love.

    Most importantly, I think about how HE loves ME... so much that I can have this fantasy, without worrying for a minute that he'd actually leave me for a younger more fertile woman if it actually becomes reality.

    But... yeahhhh this is an intense fantasy. To say the least.

    __

    That said --

    This fantasy is NOT "cheating". That's the one thing that it absolutely ISN'T.

    It's a fantasy about having my face rubbed in my own humiliation, sure, yeah. But it's NOT a fantasy about deceit, personal weakness, or breaking promises. The fantasy only works because our relationship is so strong.

    • Yeah, I know what you're talking about. The idea of him getting a hot, sexy teenage girl pregnant is a HUGE turn on for me. :D

    • A teenage girl is still a little too young for this fantasy. Her body wouldn't be developed enough, in the right ways that just SCREAM fertility -- and, perhaps even more importantly, a teenage girl wouldn't be able to play up the psychological warfare enough. (The humiliation parts of the fantasy just... wouldn't click, if the woman were younger than early twenties or so. Can't put a finger on it, but, yeah.) The most tantalizing thing about this fantasy -- and the thing that still amazes ME the most, about how solid our marriage is -- is that my husband is one of those select few late-40's guys who very easily COULD get a woman like this to fuck him with no strings. Girl you should see it, they throw themselves at him all the time ahah. ... versus for 99.9 percent of couples our age, it just wouldn't happen unless the guy spent $$$ or TIME on the woman (and probably not even then). And that would just stick a knife in the fantasy value of it completely.

  • I don’t know this might be fun you know maybe if it was the right girl or guy I mean I don’t think i would be jealous of another girl if we were maybe like friends or we got along or something but yeah maybe not if I didn’t like her or if my boyfriend maybe was like giving her more attention to me. I mean me and my boyfriend haven’t done much yet. We haven’t had sex but like maybe doing out on a date or something first to see if we all liked each other or something like that before doing anymore something serious.

  • I've always enjoyed watching one of my boyfriends with another chic. She's definitely got to be bi though because I get to do cleanup detail.

Most Helpful Guys

  • My ex always hinted that she wanted to. But she was always paranoid that girls were hitting on me when i was away, so I dont know if adding another woman would have done anything but make her bad self image even worse lol. It never happened, most becsuse she didn't think she looked good enough to pick up sexy girls, and she wanted to choose i guess. And I never had skills to talk to women so it would have to be up to her regardless lol. I did want to try. Just to see what its like. Not like she didn't satisfy me. I just wanted to try. What man doesnt?

  • I've had a friends with benefits that use to invite her girlfriend to join us. So it was just me and a new girl.

    • If she enjoys watching me with someone else... I would do it... but I would never want to see her with anyone else. I'd rather she joins me and the other girl... there's plenty of love to go around;-P

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  • Did that once in college, didn't like it. He suggested doing a threesome. I was thinking that might mean a second guy. But it turned out to be another girl. It seemed OK at first, but when he started the actual f***ing of this other woman, I felt humiliated. My boyfriend was not only having sex with someone else, it was with my permission and I was literally there watching it. I got out of bed and went in the other room while they finished their activities. Might have been different if I had a hot guy doing me at the same time my boyfriend was getting what he wanted, but a one-way deal like that was just bad. I broke up with him a few days later.

  • No, but I would watch, if not participate. Something about being present, watching everything in detail. I'd want to participate somewhat, and help push her over the edge.

  • I would never do that.

  • You should have an option of "Well apparently I've done it without knowing it" for all the women who've been cheated on.

  • Never. And never will do that.

    • Why not?

    • Its not a turn on for me.

    • I think most women would enjoy it if they actually tried it. You're not even open to it? There's no part of you that wants to watch your man devour another woman? Not even a little bit? :P

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  • NO, he's mine and only mine😊

  • Wouldn't mind of she was uglier than me

    • Haha

    • Shame if he likes her more lol

    • ok that was honest but funny

  • That will probably happen soon.

  • I have two mff threesomes before and I would never do it again. What happend both times is the girls get satisfied and end it after they do. and I'm stuck there with blue balls. Usally when they happen they just happen when your drunk. It's twice the work without the reward after just saying.