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I'm so envious of men.. how they jerk off masterbate.. and cum so quickly and be satisfied.😥. but for women it takes for ever when masterbating why?

most men cum so much, it oozes out or shoot out all that creamy thick cum. And it seems you men are ok for the time being.. ur body feel better.. head is clearer.. your reering to go and either start or end ur day.. judging on when u choose to relieve ur self but, For me I have to rub my clit and squeeze my pussy for a long time to climax.. and sometimes its not enough. My dirty little mind wants more relief. My pretty pussy throbbs for more... what am I doing wrong? how to masterbate and feel satisfied?
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  • Depends on your perspective I guess.

    Sometimes I feel a bit envious of women and their multiple orgasms. It might take longer to achieve but female pleasure, if you take your time and do it well, looks so much more intense than male pleasure. I never had an orgasm that made my legs rubbery or made me moan involuntarily.

    The relief of cumming is nice but there's usually an "aww it's over" feeling that goes with it. I'd love to cum and be able to keep going and do it again in a minute or two ultimately cranking out about four or five orgasms in a single session. There is edging but edging is kind of disappointing because as good as the pre-orgasm pleasure is, you know you're holding off something better. I'd love to be able to ride that orgasmic wave like some women can.

    • fair enough... well said I can ur point clearly. but that multiple ogasim it's not every session but it can be nice and relieve tons of tension but be clear not every time u have sex u are going to achieve that... I rather have a really good session masterbating achieve climax and feel rejuvenated with a great night sleep.. or great start to my day... head clear body lose ready to be productive... rather than not feeling satisfied and the only thing that's on my mind is getting or being seduced

  • Wow, such a dirty read, but I like it! Lol. And when I masturbate I don't rush through it. I like to edge (building up to have a more powerful orgasm). I'm jealous of u because u have what most all men want, a kitty! Lol. :-)

    • yesss. I do have a sweet pink kitty... but If I don't learn to pet her right she won't purrr... and I get frustrated. the tension builds up an interview get tensed.. please help me.. what am I doing wrong?

    • Aww, I don't know. I know this won't happen but it's better for me to show u or see what u do and then I may be able to help. But maybe u need a partner or friends with benefits? I know u need to make sure your comfortable and relaxed when u masturbate. Clear ur mind, don't be thinking about anything other than what ur feeling. Hopefully that may help u. 😊

    • yess actually that's a very good tip.. I'll take it in and see what happens next time

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  • i think that depends on the individual...
    some men take forever...
    some women cum super fast.
    it just depends.

    • but masterbating I just never feel satisfied

    • That's a personal thing. Some people r satisfied after masturbating... just depends on the person...

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  • day in day out

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    'nuff said

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  • This was so obviously written by a guy trolling it isn't even funny.

    • ur annoying and secretly gay... what makes u think a girl can't have these issues. why u feel as if I'm a guy.. is because only guys can stimulate you.. or woman don't talk this way... please I am a female and I guess honesty is a afrodeciaic

    • "secretly gay." Look, if you want to call me a faggot or something else offensive, just do it. Attacking my sexuality, it doesn't matter what word you use, it's all equally offensive... or, in my case, equally dismissable. I am willing to give the benefit of the doubt a lot. I think this is the first time I have called out someone as a troll, and a man pretending to be a woman. But nothing about what you wrote was believable. It has nothing to do with it being about sex, or masturbation. It has nothing to do with being envious of how a guy experiences it. It has everything to do with being written like a shitty porn story. It sounds exactly like a man, mocking a woman, for envying a man. I could believe the exact thing, written differently, came from a real woman. But the way it was written? We all know a lot of guys troll behind pink anons.

    • its all about interpretation.. FINE... so it turned u on, its because im talking about masterbating for most men it would.. WHAT I wear a sexy dress outside and I guess I'm just asking for to be raped huh? Thinking of a female at home alone trying struggling to cum, well hell even I'm a bit turned on.. it was expected, yet unintentional. however, the question is sincere, sorry I didn't put no drama behind it... I explain it as simple as I could. let me reassure you I am not a man. This is a very valid thread I'm sharing.. regardless of one thought process

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  • Perhaps its time to get a toy involved?

    That said imagine if we did not have to masturbate to feel refreshed to begin with?

    • but sometimes it's good for u..

    • Perhaps but its just such a roundabout way to do something good for me.

  • But didn't your orgasms are stronger and also you can have them multiple times? while for a man it's hard to keep it up after he cum, also most women don't have such high sex drive in the first place, and maybe you problems with it, is part of the reasons for why it's so. :)

    • well I don't want it every minute... I just want it to be powerful.. make me feel better after having it... it's like I get horny and my pussy is throbbing in my panties I get an urge to touch my self and yes it feels so good.. I get wet but when I get into it and rubbing my clit.. I can't concentrate on cumming and if I do cum. it's no relief..😢there's no ahhhh now that feels better satisfaction.. I'm stuck fucking the shit out of myself.. like this is some competition

    • Even when you cum you are not satisfied? well looks like you are an nympho. ;)

    • lol.. no im. not.. I swear but keep in mind I'm talking about masterbating.. not with a partner

  • Guys only cum once within a space of time normally, then they lose interest in sex.
    Girls can have multiple orgasms and still want more, but orgasms come from your brain. The intensity of your orgasm is only slightly related to physical stimulation, the state of your brain is vital.
    You must have a fantasy, or past reality on your mind, that turns you on.
    Pornography is a super very valid form of stimulation, it can help fantasies and make your orgasms wild.
    If you haven't already, there are safe, great porn sites to visit at www.xhamster.com or www.pornhub.com
    Just don't expect every partner you meet to be built like a porn star, they are employed for their assets, as much as their 'acting' ability.

    • done the porn hub thing... my issue is u cumming once. I know some men hit there climax than get depressed.. it's loads of psychology that goes into this... but just the fact of cuming and feeling satisfied is my question.. u men cum and is good but me😢😢 my body isn't relaxed

    • So there appears to be your problem, it is impossible for anyone to enjoy a really good orgasm unless they are relaxed, both physically and mentally. If your orgasm is not a strong one, you need another. in my experience girls can have many mini orgasms, but can struggle to get that big one. If you have the physical stimulation right, which only you can feel, then you need to relax your mind and hold off from cumming for as long as you can, then let it all go. Try that! Males are designed to cum once and their system shuts down desire for a while, the younger and fitter they are the sooner they can cum again, but they do not all find it easy. Like females they need their brain in the right place! Males and females are basically the same, except for their genitals and reproductive system, everybody needs the right circumstances to cum well.

  • Hm, maybe you need more orgasms? I usually orgasmed like 2-3 times a day.
    I could cum within a minute i I want, but such orgasms doesn't feel statisfying. I prefer to take like half an hour per orgasm :) Or maybe you just need a talented guy to finger and lick you to a few statisfying orgasms.
    My girlfriend also envys men for their masturbation, so she doesn't allow me to do that anymore, and I have to make her cum when I feel the need ;) that made her much more statisfied then before

    • hahah.. this made me giggle but u r right

    • if you once had a guy who is not allowed to ooze his cum anymore, he gets addicted to make you cum again and again, and you get addicted to that too! haha

  • Yea, men get off easily but, as I understand it, women can have orgasms that not only last significantly longer, but are far more intense. Also, a woman can have more orgasms in a short amount of time. Its nature.

    • yeah.. that's true but it seems like u men are rejuvenated. me.. I'm stuck wanting more.. I want to be able to feel refreshed afterwards

  • Use penetration and clit stimulation, maybe even some anal activity?

  • Have you tried toys and vibes. I hear those work.
    Women have A LOT more options to get off with than men do.

  • Oh the injustice

    • yesssss... help me girl.. can u relate orrrr? is it easier for you

    • I'm young and surrounded by guys so...

  • Guys on here can help you out 😋

    Yeah it's a very unique feeling guys have when they climax and afterwards which girls can't feel

    • Girls have that too

    • @Whaaaaa probably both have different unique feelings?

    • Shit I don't know

  • Lol, yeah, we've got it good :-P

    • yes u guys do... u rub it for a little bit squeeze the head squeeze the shaft... u can do it sooooo fast Jerry it hard or soft even jerk it slowly and cum mmm so hard and it be so much.. and u feel relived... refreshed. body is at ease... it's unfair

    • It's so good, haha.

  • Well, you can find most guys here will be willing to sext, (alot).

    • maybe but I secretly need to cum.. not to many can stimulate me.. peak my interest so to speak

    • You can get visual stimulation by porn, but you have to find that one which turns you on

  • Do you masturbate with finger's or toys?

    • both... but more so fingers

    • You use electronic tooth brush or VIBRATIOR... use that on High speed.. or Have some sext & meanwhile masturbate too.. I think it would make you cum quickly..

  • Jesus 😳😳😳

    • lol whattttttt? help me

    • He's looking the other way right now. 😂😂

    • Help you how 😂😂😂

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  • don’t be. i always envied masturbating as a women

  • how do you know about that creamy thick cum?
    you do more masturbation you want it more
    just stop doing it
    think about marriage and be satisfied in that way
    it's not hard
    still wondering how you know thick creamy?
    no just kidding about marriage but eventually masurbation is not good 4 u

    • lol... yeah.. I'm thinking it's not I require something more

    • what more u require? like wha? can u answer my question as well?

    • am I normal to be one of the few people who can't masterbate.. like if u knew this would I still be able to turn u on.. of u were mines. like would u be disappointed if we couldn't masterbate together?

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  • Use porn

    • I have. but with someone.. not to masterbate alone

    • Maybe try it on your own and see what happens :)

  • Hahah look at all of the people responding being fooled. The poster is a guy pretending to be a girl. Stop being naive!

    • ur dumb

  • Is it possible you're one of those women who hasn't had an orgasm, but you *think* you have, because you don't know hat an orgasm actually feels like?

    That would explain why you think you've cum, but still don't feel satisfied.

    • well I'll be damn.. u might be on to something

    • I only had maybe 2 organism in my life but I did have really good sex before.. I've squinted out cum.. but that's because I had a warm body.. when I'm alone and want to relieve this tension... I can't

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