I suck at getting laid how do I improve?

[Anonymous]

Simply put i can't get laid i get complimented by girls all the times, checking me out, staring at me , 9s and 8s having crushes on me ( usually end up being taken so i dont bother) iam funny, witty, smart, great sense of fashion and would say mature and really know a lot of things , also really good looking and i do take care of myself, i have met lots of girls dated one in the past but i just can't get laid , every girl who has an interest in me i talk to her and try to take to the next level but nothing comes out of it, she either refuses to go out with, goes out but doesn't seem like she wants sex or has a boyfriend.

i can't go to clubs no car or time, all i have are normal everyday girls at college or wherever i meet them, i tried being really nice, tried acting like i just want sex, tried waiting for a while and then asking out... etc but i just dont attract slutty girls !!! my friends are not as half as attractive or smart as me but they get lucky and land on slutty women who want to get it on the first night... am i just unlucky or am i doing anything wrong?

[AustinMan]

I'm guessing you're trying too hard. Be patient. Make sure you look your best at all times. Let the game come to you. When I was in college, I made chasing women part science and part art form. One thing I found out immediately was that I'm terrible at picking up girls in bars and clubs. My best luck was libraries, church, and cultural events, esp recitals in the College of Fine Arts. I would go to a dance recital and all these hotties would be there. It's the only place I've ever been where the pack mentality of women wasn't operating. We guys learn early not to approach a group of girls lest we get sliced and diced but in that situation, if I was cool, I could easily cut the one I wanted from the herd and work her. I also started ushering in college to meet women at church. Worked like a charm

[Asker]

i look my best when i go out and take care of myself always look and smelling really nice (girls have commented a lot on this and they claim iam the most good looking guy in our entire major... more than 80 guys) , i do things slowly and act confident and sure of myself because thats how i truly am, and i have talked to dozens of girls and even 3 of them gave me their phone numbers but i just dont get laid the girls are never slutty , do you have any good way of talking to girls?

[Asker]

gave me their numbers on their own i didn't even ask

[OlderAndWiser]

Fucking sluts does not make your friends "lucky."

If we interviewed the last three girls that you dated, what would they say about why things never progressed?

[Asker]

well one was probably playing me she did have a legit crush on me and everyone noticed she couldnt evne speak when i was around we talked for a while but she wouldn't go any further than talking i got bored and moved on, two weeks later i find out she got engaged, fk me right? another girl added me on facebook out of nowhere i talked to her for a some minutes and asked her out, she liked my guts and accepted but said she will let me know when she is free, that was over a month ago. another really got girl displayed lots of attention for a long time til i saterted talking to her online, we talked for few weeks and i asked her out she said yes and everything was going just fine until i invited her to go out with me to a nearby beach, she never responded...

[OlderAndWiser]

Did you have an actual date with any of these women?

[Asker]

thats the problem i never get to have a date with them the first was getting engaged soon so she was playing games and refusing to actually go out with me, the other two said and acted like they actually want to go out with me but are now avoiding it and the thing is iam not faking anything or changing my behaviour i am acting the same way i acted when i first met them so what changed I don't know , why would you be super interested in someone, talk to him for a long time, accept to go out with him, then ghost?

[OlderAndWiser]

If you consistently get treated the same way by a number of different women, then it is probably caused by something you are doing. Maybe it is the way you are meeting them or the standards you use in deciding which women to pursue. What could you do differently to meet a different kind of woman who would actually go on a date with you?

[Asker]

well i usually look at woman from a far and decided if i find her attractive if i do and i notice she keeps staring at me, i hold eye contact for a while few times just to see her reaction if she does it a lot and keeps looking at me then i either go and talk to her (usually hard at college since girls are always in packs ) or add her on facebook and chat which usually works, i did approach girls face to face and no online a couple of times and it did work i get their numbers but i just didn't find them as appealing physically , basically iam not doing anything drastic.

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you getting friendzoned?

[Asker]

iam not even sure what it is if i feel a girl is trying to friendzone me i move on and stop talking to her, but with these girls I don't know it seems like they find me really hot and attractive (its easy to see it in their eyes not even trying to hide it ) but at the same time when i even get close to mentioning sex it seems to me (they dont admit it but from how hey act afterwards) that they freak out , they never show it but start retreating like they've realised its heading somewhere they dont want to go.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are discussing sex with them before your first date?

[Asker]

no i never mention sex i mean i dont imagine any girl no matter how slutty will be nice enough to talk to me if i tell her i want sex the moment i meet her.

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you think they have the impression that you are over-confident?

[Asker]

I don't know honestly i have no idea what they are thinking but why would it hurt my chances if i was over confident? i mean at this point iam looking reasons on why a girl may not want to take it to the next level.

[OlderAndWiser]

Girls want to get to know you and feel that they can trust you before they let you pull down their panties. If you appear to be over-confident, they may think that you are just a player and so they lose interest or are intimidated by the idea of being with a guy who they think has so much sexual experience.

[kaylaS91]

'i can't go to clubs no car or time, all i have are normal everyday girls at college or wherever i meet them, i tried being really nice, tried acting like i just want sex, tried waiting for a while and then asking out... etc but i just don't attract slutty girls'

... not surprised you're getting girls you're not fully satisfied with that kind of attitude. If all you have to offer is an entitled, narcissistic attitude centered only around wanting better without putting any actual work into it, you'll get girls from the very 'bottom of the barrel'.

[Asker]

its about wanting better but usually at clubs most girls are there to dance, have fun and meet hot guys who will sleep with them, normal everyday girls may or may not have the same attitude so its a gamble you either land on a girl willing to have sex or one who is not, and i never find a girl who is willing to get laid... i dont say slutty as in i am looking for sluts no iam not but usually girls who are eassy to get sex from are slutty and to my surpirse i never find any such women, lol i dont even find quality women who want sex.

[kaylaS91]

why would a 'normal everyday girl' want to have NSA with anyone, much less someone who's as entitled and socially inept as yourself, though? I can't fathom anything that they'd have to actually gain from you, other than getting some dick. Speaking of which, I'm sure there are plenty of guys willing to fuck casually that are much better/spoiled-sounding than yourself.

[Asker]

no offense but a girl who posts her entire sex life on the internet and takes pictures of herself half naked is not in a place to judge anyone. also yes they are getting dick and some girls do want dick believe it or not.

[kaylaS91]

... says the guy who makes a post whining about how the girls he's capable of getting aren't 'good enough' for him. lolololol love the irony. Keep judging & whining, good luck with how far that'll get you. 😘

[SoFeckinAddicted]

wear a sign that says 'i am trying to get laid, anyone wanna lend a hand (or vagina)?'

[Asker]

if it was only that easy

[SoFeckinAddicted]

easy to wear a sign? lmfao it is.

[LEIGHX]

Wear this
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[GoldCobra]

Well done

[Bandit74]

Why don't you ask your friends for advice. Realistically, a girl is never going to give you good advice on how to get women to have casual sex with you. you're much better off getting advice from guys who are successful at getting women into bed.

[Unit1]

Same problem here, except I do not interact with girls.

[ThatBritishLad]

> Go on Steam
> Buy HuniePop
> Play HuniePop
> Kya/Beli best grills
> Profit?

[00Lelouchxx]

Join a aex site with girls who want dick easy

[DizzyAster]

You need to start touching them, dude. No joke.
but you have to do it in a way that's acceptable to them.
www.mensxp.com/.../...nce-of-touching-a-woman.html
I used to be bad at this too, until I read a lot about it and was able to get my girlfriend so try it.

[Aweir]

Reality: OP is a 300+lbs basement dweller

[Asker]

not even close brah iam 6'2, 180lbs and work out