Sex with a shorter guy?

[Anonymous]

So I'm 5'10 and I'm seeing this guy who's about 6 inches or more shorter than me. I like him a lot and I don't care about the height in everyday life. We are yet to have sex but I imagine will be shortly. I've only ever had sex with guys who are taller before, and even then I'm not very experienced. Does anyone have any experience or advice about having sex with a shorter guy. Like will we still line up in missionary (which would probably be my default position for the first time). I know it's mostly trial and error and we'll work out what works but I don't want our first time to be spoiled or awkward as I like him a lot and I know he is a bit conscious of his height and me being taller.

[redeyemindtricks]

"I know he is a bit conscious of his height and me being taller"

^^ In my experience -- which is very, very, extensive (6'2" and I've never had a real relationship with any man taller than me) -- men VERY rarely have any kind of issue with this. It's almost universally *women* who have the aversion to being "the taller one", and who want to be shorter than Their Man.

If you find a case where the man DOES have an issue, if you dig deep enough you can usually find the root cause in some incident when a taller woman -- either explicitly, or through some insinuation -- MADE him feel bad/insecure about it.

So...

1)
Dig inside yr own thoughts. Do YOU -- really, truly, honestly, have any misgivings about being The Taller One?
··•• If NOT, great! Rock it, there won't be a problem. Just give even MORE attention to the boy than "usual" -- especially at the START of the relationship. (First impressions are VERY important here... and, yes, he may overthink everything, just as a woman would according to stereotype).
··•• If YES (on some subconscious level that's NOT a fundamental deal-breaker)... then, watch yrself and yr body language VERY carefully, to make sure this isn't showing, and isn't rubbing off IN ANY WAY AT ALL on yr interaction with him. If it does -- especially in the early stages of yr relationship -- that kind of dynamic could poison yr future together.

2)
Be an even more upbeat, attentive, and affectionate partner -- to reinforce YOUR confidence, and YOUR comfort with HIM, when you are standing taller. Until it becomes "normal", and NEITHER of you thinks about it anymore.
You know how couples with a 10-15yr age difference get, after a while... to where they just FORGET the age difference even EXISTS?
Same thing here.

3)
He probably doesn't have issues.
Really.
If he does... TALK to him.
And, again, be EXTRA affectionate.
And in awe of him.

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I am 3" taller than my husband in mah bare feets, so... imagine the height differential when I'm up on my size 12 platform rigs.
17 years together...
# of people who've had anything smart to say?
0.
# of people who've even LOOKED at us weird?
0.

People KNOW.
I'm like a little girl, next to him.

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Finally --
If his "bros" talk shit... just ignore.
Boys will make fun of their friends for ANYTHING.
The day boys figure out how to make fun of each other for breathing oxygen, they'll start roasting that, too. If he takes it hard, remind him of this. (4 brothers... I know all too well.)

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Before I get

[redeyemindtricks]

into the sex thing in particular -- you should also check out this link:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2070574-guys-does-it-bother-you-when-a-girl-is-taller-than-you
^^ (Girl MHO there)
Being taller than yr boy will IMMEDIATELY expose a few kinds of insecurities that shorter girls would have to discover -- unfortunately for them -- over a period of months, or even years.

Also, there's a link within that link (win!) where I go more into how sexual dominance is more *authentic* from a shorter man, too.

I went into the same idea here as well:
(not mho... in regular girl opinions this time)
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2106560-we-know-you-like-tall-men-how-tall-need-they-be-relative-to-your

Check it out.

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····•• LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX BBY ••····

• MOST things about sex are... not really that different. I swear.
Yep.

• Being able to

[redeyemindtricks]

wrap yr legs ALL the way around that boy's body... and then some... mmhhhhhh omggggg don't ever wanna let goooooo fucckkkk yesssss (this is more of a "you being tall" thing than a "him being shorter" thing, but, shut up and take the points where you get 'em) • Missionary and cowgirl work really well. (How *couldn't* they? These would work for really ANY height combinations.( Honestly, the position where you'll REALLY feel like The Chosen Ones is... perhaps ironically... fucking STANDING UP. 2 ways to get into that position that are easiest: • If yr bed/furniture is low enough -- or with a normal chair -- just have him sit down. Then mount him, lap dance style... and lock those legs alllllll the way around the boy's waist (omggg fuck yes girlllll)... and have him pick you up. • If the bed is too high, YOU get on the edge of the bed, with yr waist at the end and legs up in the air. Have the boy hit it standing up -- with yr legs originally up on his shoulders -- and then wrap him up

[redeyemindtricks]

again... and have him just pick you up (backward off the bed). This is THE BEST COMBINATION -- because you'll end up EXACTLY at the height where you can *COMFORTABLY* throw yr arms OVER HIS SHOULDERS -- which means less tension in YOUR body (provided he's strong enough to hold you up pretty entirely with core strength). It's like... having scaled to the top of a beautiful brick wall. A brick wall that smells good, that's hard as hell for you, and that you can fuck all day long ohh fuck yesssss <3 • The WORST position -- counter to what someone else said on this thread -- is "bending you over and just hitting it". With a –6" height difference, I don't think that's going to work, unless he's standing on something. (Mb he could get a couple pairs of New Rock boots -- those have 3-4" lifts, and a bunch of their styles are pretty hot, too... on a guy with a little bit of edge to him). ... but, a woman *always* looks good on her knees for her man. :* • Speaking of which... Spontaneously

[redeyemindtricks]

just dropping to yr knees for him -- or even all the way onto yr back on the floor in front of him, just spreading for him -- is ALWAYS appreciated. __ • Oh yeah, I almost forgot... Best for last! If he's just sitting on a chair or couch -- and you're strolling around the house in high heels (which you should do, a LOT #mmhmm ) -- then, if you do a little dance in front of his face, and turn around and bend over (facing away from him)... Girlllllll you're going to be at EXACTLY the right height. Ohhhh sweeeet fuccckkkk mmhhhhhh <3 <3 <3 😍 😍 I've been doing... a LOT of this lately, since, for the first time in 13.5 years, all 3 of our kids are in school during the day (we're both home most days). Oh FUCK yes. I'll put on a tiny-ass stripper skirt, thigh-high stockings, and tall heels... stand right in front of that man I love... bend all the way over... put my right hand around my ankle or heel... and take my left hand -- showing off my wedding bands -- and spread myself right

[redeyemindtricks]

in front of his face. #fuckyeah That man can lick me ALL the way down, and ALL the way back... and you better bet he's got me humping his face like a bitch in heat. <3 Try it you'll like it.

Get that boy used to you fucking his face, by the way. Because... because reasons.
Read:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2039500-are-you-an-aggressive-face-rider-or-not

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Oh yeah, other advantage of heels is, if he's standing up you can smash his face into yr tits whenever you want. (:

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Happy fuckin'.

Go get him.

[America1st]

You are way overthinking this. I can't speak from experiencing this because I'm 6'2" and the tallest woman i've been with was 6'1". Most short men have issues with being short. Society is cruel to short men. Women usually want tall men. The fact that you are with him should show him that his height is not an issue for you. Sleep with the guy without worrying about it. As far as the body's matching up, there are factors that make it no issue. Are you long legged and shorter torso. If so, that could make it a non issue. It's very possible his shortness means he can't kiss you while inside of you. I bet he can do wonders for the twins below though. If it is feeling awkward to you, change up the position. Get on top facing both ways. Let him take you from behind. There are all kinds of positions where height means nothing. I know you said the first time will be missionary, but it doesn't have to stay that way if it's not clicking. Quit overthinking it. The more you do that, the more negative your thought become. That's the truth. Good luck. You may get lucky. I've talked to short men and they say sometimes they just need to work harder at it. Make sure when you sense anything that shows he might be struggling with it that you say something that will reassure him with out him being aware that you are doing so. Just like some men say fat women try harder, some short men do as well. I'm only saying what I have heard. Personally, I find that pretty crass! Good luck and show him, if he does, just how much you enjoys sex with him. Like all men, he will love it.

[burlen]

I dated a girl who was taller than me by 8 inches for over three years. We had no issues with our respective heights when making out and having sex. The sex was fun and amazing always in missionary, spoon, scissor, doggy, cowgirl, and standing positions.

In fact, I experienced difficulties during sex with an ex girlfriend who was shorter than me and had a petite frame. I could not have a full penetration with her because she had a shorter vagina. Her vagina couldn't accommodate a full dick thrust as the taller girl.

[AustinMan]

It's gonna be fine. Just go for it.

[akadatank44]

@redeyemindtricks
I believe your hubby is shorter than you if I remember correctly

[redeyemindtricks]

indeed! tx for the tag 💋

[Chadster]

don't stress it will all work out... he doesn't need to be tall to lick and suck on your pussy!

[blondfrog]

Wow what a rare case.

[Cowboy6666]

He will be lucky to have you. Basically I won't mind to have sex with 5/6 inch taller girl

[scooogy]

Well, he can motorboat your boobs during sex, that's a fortune :D

[sportyguy720]

I love taller women. Taller women=longer legs to wrap around me. You don't need any advice. Just let it flow

[Anonymous]

How come YOU don't have any issues in being with such a short man?
That's interesting thing.

[Anonymous]

Just bend over and let him hump you...

[Asker]

Ha ye I guess that would work