Girls do you think men should show more penis cleavage?

I show cleavage and make a point of my bulge being visible due to how i dress, etc. Women seem to like it a lot. And I love when strange women are suddenly caught by my cock, stuck staring at it through my jeans. I also find it interesting since supposedly men are the "visual" ones... is it possible that's just because our culture focuses on WOMEN's cleavage and generally shames the penis? ie that women have nothing in general to BE visual about? Perhaps they're JUST AS visual as men-and just deprived the opportunity... I think so.

Indeed, no body part is more shamed than the penis: Cut it, slice it, hide it, cram it, shove it, make it invisible-so we can pretend it's not there til the lights are off and hopefully jesus isn't watching ;)

I call bullshit and seems to me women get just as stupid (awestruck) as men when cleavage is visible. Most men buy into this double standard (and seem rather paranoid that any hint of their penis could be seen through clothing)... even the cameltoe seems more acceptable than a man's bulge - even though there's really nothing to see with a camel toe-okay she has a slit, big surprise!

It also seems like a double standard the OTHER direction.. i mean men have some clue how big your boobs are going in (ie approaching you) for example, but women always have to play surprise with the penis, really having no clue about the size of it, til they get up close and personal. So it seems only fair they should have a hint of an idea if he's packing or not.

So - girls: Thoughts? Do you like when you can see something? would you prefer that was the norm (subtle mind you, ie enough to know right where it was and a hint of the size...)

Guys: anyone else do this?

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  • Well I suppose if you like that sort of thing but there's other ways to get attention from the opposite sex. Like cool hair cut, dressing smart... or having a very nice car.

    I recommend a nice car because there's nothing more that will trigger a woman's hypergamy than a man owning a luxurious car while going around minding his own business. Having a flash car are instant chick magnets (no game required). Forget the penis bulge... get the bulge in your trouser pocket from your wallet.

    • been there done that. neither come close to the attention you get from cleavage.

  • Have noticed positive reactions when I forgot to hide a bulge.
    This anon thinks you might be onto something.

    • good point-I DID stumble onto it by accident. Very young clerk one day couldn't take her eyes off me when I came in one day... cuz i was showing, by accident and sticking out a bit.

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  • Our culture 'focuses' on women's cleavage by generally depicting women who show it in a bad light. Cleavage is something not to be shown in professional, 'respectable' contexts and will generally leave a woman who chooses to dress herself while showing cleavage labelled as a 'whote', 'slut', you name it.

    So... yeah. Sure. Show your 'penis cleavage' if you want to judged the same.

    • sure, why not. I"m a monogamous slut. same way i like my women.

    • okay lol to each their own.

    • well... why should women have that option but not men? I just want what women take for granted... that's not too much to ask when they fiercely grab at everything men have.

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  • Do what you want. Some women will love it, some will giggle at his wardrobe malfunction, most gay men will become aroused and some children will ask their mommy what is that. But why is everything you write delivered in a men vs women bent? Your bitterness jumps of the screen like a man forced to eat a lemon. Wouldn't life be easier if you chose to make lemonaid?

    • naw, really didn't have of that spin this time. it is a double standard and that's quite relevant to the argument, and for my original motive to some degree. Observation of it doesn't require any bitterness, that's all assumed by you. And the nature OF the question to the women makes that clear, I'm just curious likewise to the men-if I was alone. Having a bad Day, Sarah?

    • Nah, but I'm probably always on guard because of some of your other opinions of the man/woman dynamic. I'll work on that.

    • that's understandable lol, just depends on my mood...

    • i agree. kinda might not work as well if you're average or small...

    • What about just under 8

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  • I think it's fabulous that you display your penis cleavage. Most women I know think it's pretty hot too. Although, to your point, will act shy and coy about the mysterious sexiness in mens pants. I tip my hat to your penis pride.

    • gee thanks lol I wasn't sure I'd get such a forthright response... I DO think I'm onto something... and it's fun to be on the other side of that. I just picked up cigarettes and I flirt with this woman a little... and she did a long take glued to my crotch... made the whole interaction exciting and I'm sure I warmed her night up a little lol

    • not that I"m all that original... but frankly seems to me only rock stars are culturally allowed to do this... like Robert Plant for example. so why not me? I'm a guy like me!

    • Touché. I completely concur. Why the hell not. I think it's completely inequitable not to objectify men properly. Men are beautiful and more so when they're confident enough to accentuate their parts.

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  • LMAO this is great! Sure dude if it makes you happy, go for it! So long as its tasteful, maintains the legal standard of decency, and isn't suggestive to children.

    • suggestive to children? like what putting a barney sticker on my crotch? no more suggestive to children than boob cleavage-that's the point: I'm calling bullshit on a double standard. And no, I don't find children staring... or men for that matter, just women.

    • Whoa dude. I'm saying in general for others who may agree with you, to keep it PG. personally, I don't understand why chicks should have to cover their nips when a man can still get aroused from having his nips touched, when his nips can also become erect from being touched. I think men should also have to cover those up.

    • lol so you want nipple equality, am I picking up your beef properly? I'm totally with you. you write up the referendum, I"ll sign it and you can rub my nipples for free to demonstrate your points and get more people on board with this pressing topic :)

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  • I've been known to stare at bulges in guys pants and drool (not from the lips on my face either) and fantasize how good that would feel up inside me.

    • i love being that guy... i often wear unrestricting clothing so my permanent semi is clearly obvious

    • oooo i like that :P

    • How do i show my bulge without being creepy or over bearing

  • It's lewd.

  • it sure gets you laid lol

    • fuckin A. I've never been grounded in the friendzone. You get friendzoned and your cock is always slightly visible... it practically does the unfriendzoning for you. mix the visible bulge with sex talk and other tactics... and that friend zone don't last one month, i guarontee

    • exactly.. unless you put them in the friendzone lol you know stocks for later lol

  • To me personally, seeing guys' bulge isn't something I consider hot, unless I've already been into him for a while. This is just my opinion, if you get positive reactions from women and it makes you feel good then by all means keep doing it 😊

  • i see your point. if women can show cleavage, then men should be able to show the bulge. but i i have to be honest, whenever i have seen a man bulging in a speedo it just makes me laugh. i suppose you could give it a try.

    • Nahhh, because if men start exposing their genitals then for our rights to be equal then women should expose their genitals, and I don't want to see anybody's cock or 90% of vaginas out there, so no thanks lol

    • @Flurr no, no. i wasn't saying go naked. i was saying wearing pants that give you a bulge, not go naked.

    • ditto @kellyg83

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  • Lol

    Dick cleavage..

  • "caught by your cock".
    Oh wow , you're literally grabbing them by the pussy.

  • Dick cleavage 😍😂

  • If you are comfortable with it why not?

  • Chest cleavage in v necks are enough for me

  • -.- *lays down book* ...*folds hands*... Dafuq?

  • I've nvr seen that happen or I've nvr paid that much attention to it, on an attractive guy I guess it's cool I'm pretty neutral ab it.

  • You might get arrested for it. Dont say I didn't warn ya!

  • Sure... I am guilty of checking out a man that I work with. He looks well endowed. But he does things to show it off. He caught me checking out his package before. He just grinned... I am sure he liked it.

  • whaaa...

    • 😈😈😈😈

  • The world needs more penis windows on the pants and the underpants

    • my god! did you go to equality school too! this man is a genius, someone get us a mockup and we'll call them "Mesonpants"!!! EUREKA

    • I think that'd catch on

    • we'll start with mesh, and spandex and move our way to plastic windows. deal?

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  • If women are actually visual, then they might stare although people say toned forearms and strong hands are what they like.

    • that's only because that's what they can SEE normally. And I'd agree, and biceps would top that list in my opinion. But again, only cuz that's all they have to look at... give them something more, something unique, give them the D.

    • True

  • I feel... so, so, ... objectified.

    • rofl better to be objectified by what makes you man, than meaningless paper...

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