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Swapping wife pics with friend who is going to tell my wife?

My best friend has a crush on my wife. Like, huge. About two years ago I decided to tease him with a pic of her wearing a bikini and he went Gaga over it. That started us trading pics back and forth of each other spouses. It didn't take long to start sending nudes and he begs me do more all the time. Now he's begging me for a video I made with her in Vegas that I told him about. I told him no videos but he won't give up, Now so pissed at me he says he'll tell my wife I'm sending pics to him if I don't give him the video. I've known him since I was three and this has put a major strain on our friendship. Do I give him the video or tell my wife and prepar for the worst?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Tell your wife that what started off as a friendly tease turned into a bragfest between two lifelong buddies over each other's spouses. Don't give him the video... think of it from her point of view, not from you trying to save your own bacon. For her, this could get worse, that being for him to see a video of her. She's probably been wondering why your friend has been giving her knowing looks for the last two years...

    • Thanks for mhg... How did it go? Have you told her?

  • oh wow, you're friend is a bit off in the head. Dude, you might end buried in his back yard.
    I would feel bad for you but you encouraged this behavior and were a party to it. Tell your wife, cut your friend out of your life and accept the consequences.
    Seriously, your buddy sounds unstable so maybe get some mace, or a gun.
    Maybe marriage isn't for you, being 35 and single ain't so bad.
    good luck.

Most Helpful Girls

  • why did you tell him about the video in the first place?
    I wouldn't send the video, I'd tell my wife. It'll be far better telling her yourself then having her find out from him. If it doesn't happen now it's bound too... don't dig the hole any deeper... get out now and just bite the bullet. Goodluck.

  • Do you understand he's had sex with your wife in his mind already? This is incredibly perverted and disrespectful! You pretty much are 100% at fault in this situation, so you should own up to it and deal with the consequences.

  • you tell your wide to prepare for the worst. You did this to yourself. You fucked up and betrayed her.

  • Um, you have pics of his wife too, hello!

    • Yes but from what I understand his wife knows he's showing her off. She doesn't know he's getting pics back in return but she knows he's sending out nudes

    • Do you have copies of the text archive where you sent him the pics? Screen shot those archives. If you're on Verizon, they back up all you text history in your online account, and AT&T has a feature you can activate that will do that as well, but only if you don't delete them from any of your devices. Show his wife those archives of him getting pics from you.

    • Not a bad idea hadn't thought of that

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  • This is exactly why I keep recommending never, ever share a nude picture or video of yourself or a loved one. You have no idea what will become of those things in the future.

  • Lol, dumb ass decisions will always come back and haunt you.

  • You can't be this stupid. Why the hell would you do something this dumb? You have to suffer your consequences now. She might leave your ass.

  • Wow you are a horrifically disloyal husband. I hope your wife finds out about it.

  • You are a horrible husband.
    0/10 OP

  • Fuck you goofed. Might as well deny him and eat the shit storm coming cause now that he's played that card he won't stop till its off the table

  • Let him see the vid or let him fuck her, that'll satisfy everyone's needs lol

  • Why would you do that? You're best bet is to tell her what you did and hope she doesn't do anything that will hurt you.

  • Both options are disastrous for marriage. You both guys are guilty of betraying your spouses but the other one is definitely a blackmailer. Tell everything to your wife, be ready for her extreme negative reaction including separation. To me, it is necessary otherwise at a later stage that guy will blackmail to to have sex with your wife. And get rid of him as early as possible with sane action.

  • No. Make it clear to him. And, you should never have told him about the video.

  • Tell his wife first

  • Mangina

  • You are a very disrespectful person, because you decided to share your wife's pictures and videos without her permission. So you sort of deserve whatever is going to happen to you.
    I know a way you could actually prevent this disaster, but I am not going to tell you because you don't deserve it.

    • Well this comment was worthless then.

  • this is why it's not a good idea to give pics to men, girls!

    • Amen! Never understood the appeal to this. It's disturbing...

  • Tell his wife, and then tell your wife, and then prepare for the worst.

  • Just give him the video.

  • Don't give him that video.

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