Why do women want complete control over dating/sex?

[Anonymous]

1. Women rarely if ever approach and expect men to approach them. However, they want said man to know when is the right time to approach her and in a particular way. If said male does not do it women get upset or forget about him and move on without make any effort. This type of mind reading shit to know what a woman is thinking and act on it has sparked movies like this.

2. Women want to wear sexy outfits but only want certain men to approach them, flirt with them and sometime down right disrespect them given the social setting. Hence, we have the creep shaming and weirdo word used by women when men they find unattractive approach them that they don't want. In addition women won't just stop there at calling you a creep behind your back but will slander your name to other people so they look at you negatively as well [character assasination]

3. Storing away certain men for later and having fun with other men now. The guys who they see no future with but is fun, usually attractive they have relationship and sex with him in early 20's and then the when it's time to settle down dust off these men who they wouldn't even look at in their youth for commitment/marriage and expecting these men to go through and be ok with it. If said male is not ok with it or dates younger women he is shamed as being a predator or a man child.

4. Utilizing sex to control behavior. Many women use sex as a reward to keep men in line. If said male does something a woman does not like she punishes him by withholding sex. Evidence of this was seen in a past question on gag where women said they would withhold sex on their boyfriend for a prank that they didn't like.

5. Sex must be when they are in the mood. We often see this in marriages when women just stop having sex with their husband because they have them by the balls now and don't need to because divorce rape will make him think twice of leaving her. This results in many men ending up in sexless marriage.

[NJ_Casanova]

In reply to #,
1. You are damned if you do ask and damned if you don't. They are scared and lazy that is why they don't ask. And the whole signals thing is some BS warped way of think they have.

2. They don't realize visual attractions work on all men. IF they really want a certain type of guy they have to attract them with something other than their looks. Visual attraction is all about sex... girls don't realize that. If the guy was polite in his approach the name calling is uncalled for and disrespectful. Most guys use dumb pick up lines which deserve a response for their stupidity.
3. Girls are like guys.. tehy want their cake and eat it too. They want the crazy/wild exciting guy... and they know he isn't the husband/family type they want later. So most of them "accidentally" get pregnant with the hot guy and later in life tray and land themselves a nice guy to raise said kid with good morals. It's kind of F'd up that they always want their son to not be like the guy that they are attracted to. It just shows how F'd Up their thinking really is.
4. sex is power. Girls now career date and get free nights out/dinner and gifts from said guys. They really aren't interested, it's only for material things. It's prostitution... money/gift for sexual services.
5. That is when you know you are married to the wrong person. It shouldn't be like that. Anyone that says "you need to work at it" They are WRONG. and delusional to that fact.

[Anonymous]

They don't want complete control, and that just shows you have no experience dating.

Ask a girl where she wants to go for dinner. She might have some thoughts, but she wants YOU as the man to make a decision. Being a wuss and saying "I don't care, you pick" is only going to frustrate her and annoy her.

There's plenty more you're wrong about but you're not interested in learning how you're wrong.

[SarahsSummer]

With flawed thinking like that, You'd be best to just stay out of the dating pool altogether.

[TheWormGuy]

this is some ass backwards question. who hurt you?

[dwiller943]

Oh my Lord. 🙄

[datgirl]

I swear you fools just keep multiplying by the minute.

[TheUglyMan]

They want power