Boyfriend gets jealous, stops talking, rough sex?

Question

I just started theater 6 months ago. I play small roles in local plays.
My boyfriend of a year also works in theater and he is a sought after artist here. I played his sister in one of the shows last year and we grew close and started seeing each other.
He's always been very territorial about me and our relationship. Both of us don't have friends from the opposite sex anymore. I get jealous too because he's precious and he's highly attractive and I don't want any other girl have his attention.

Two weeks ago I got a series where I was supposed to play a maid and there were a few intimate scenes but my boyfriend didn't allow me and I had to drop the series.
I also got another offer but there was a few kissing scenes and my boyfriend didn't like that either and I quit that as well.
Now I have another part which has no intimacy but the character hangs around with a guy almost all the time and my boyfriend was uncomfortable with that idea as well so he got the actor who was supposed to play my friend, replaced with himself.
Due to this, there was a lot of jokes around that he was so insecure that he joined his girlfriend on the same show.
I never go against his wishes because I am submissive and I like to keep him happy at all times.
I do my best to provide him full satisifaction physically and emotionally but I feel he doesn't trust me at all.
I noticed this because a random guy who probably saw my pic on the tags showed up on my account and was flirting with me on instagram and he got mad and blocked him and later on took my phone just to check if he was still blocked or not.

There was another time where he cut ties with a friend of his who told him I was cute. He told me he had wrong intentions and had his eyes on me.
Whenever he's insecure or jealous, my boyfriend doesn't treat me kindly and he stops talking or gets irritated on slightest ocassions. He usually makes it up by having really rough sex which hurts me.
Is this okay?

nala_rawr · Accepted Answer

Omg.  Nothing about what o just read is ok.  That is an UNHEALTHY relationship... o my geez... just wow... Take a step back and look at it from the outside...