Is my boyfriend a pedophile?

I found in some of my boyfriends old messages, he says he was 17 in them, I know he was either 17 or 18. BUT ANYWAYS... he was attracted to a 10 year old girl at the age of 17 or 18. WTF. He says, 'I thought she looked 16. As I got older the attraction went away. I think I was sexually immature, and matured later.' The girl obviously looks fucking TEN. Its Alison Gold in the weird ABCDEFG song video.
Also he calls me little girl
He has a rape fantasy but so do I (being on the victim side obviously), we do some kinky stuff. But I can't help but wonder :((( Also, his little cousin is like 9. there's pictures of him from a few years ago kissing her cheek and yeah its cute but it looks a little too intense and somewhat close to her neck... he also has told me before he's very sexually attracted to necks.
And in another picture with her he's biting her shoulder...
he does that to me a lot, sexually.
But WTF. Am i wrong? is it maybe innocent? They were laying on a couch together in the pictures.
Am i over reacting?
I don't know what to do.
I've always been cautious with him bc before we dated he was one of those guys who follows a million hoes on insta and likes all their shit. But since we started dating he's unfollowed all of them, and I didn't have to ask him to. Also one of his girl friends showed interest in him and he's pushing her away and being cold to her. He stopped watching porn since we started dating. there's so many good things about him, like how sweet and caring he is. And how he listens to me and stuff.
But there's a lot of problems too :( And I don't know what to do. Its also a long distance relationship so that makes it pretty hard overall.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Can you expand on him possibly being attracted to his baby cousin.

    I think I know a guy like that. I barely know him but I think he IS like that.

    • thats really all I have to say about it :( I've never seen them interact in person I know when you google how to tell if someone is a pedophile its pretty helpful--but only if you've gotten to see the in person interactions

    • This guy, he is the most non-brotherly guy I've ever met. And he put up a picture of this girl's photo and him saying something cute in the caption. It actually made me wonder... is he attracted to her? If it was someone else I'd think it was sentimental. Not this guy.

    • what was the caption? and what did she look like in the picture? Was he in it with her? how old is she?

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  • Long distance relationship and he stopped watching porn. Red flags. Run like heck.

    • he masturbates to my dirty pictures instead of porn, is what he says

  • I think so. Being attracted to little girls is not normal.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think you should dump him because being attracted to little girls isn't normal at all

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  • Definitely some red flags going on there...

  • Doesn't sound real.

    • sadly it is :( Thats what i kept telling him 'omg wtf i can't believe this is real'

  • I am suspicious. Try to keep track of his whereabouts when you're together.

  • Sounds kinda creepy

  • Are you over 12? If so, then no.

  • Hun just be careful.