Do you prefer to withdraw or stay in when you cum? Or girls have your sexual partners ever told you it's better if they cum inside you?

my boyfriend always withdraws before he cums, he didn't used to when we used condoms but then we ran out a week before I got on the pill so he started withdrawing to reduce the risk of getting pregnant. Now I'm on the pill he still pulls out. He looks really annoyed when he does so I don't think he wants to but I don't want to say he can stay in if there is no difference as it is an extra measure. But if it does feel better then I will happily tell him he doesn't have withdraw. So my question is does it feel better when you don't withdraw and cum inside a women or has your boyfriend ever told you he prefers to cum inside you?
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  • Of course, cumming inside feels more complete, but then there is the risk of pregnancy and there is the bother of dealing with sperm leaking out of me for an hour or so.

    I enjoy getting fucked hard, but I prefer receiving his sperm in my mouth so I can eat it and his cum goes safely to my belly where I can digest it and it becomes a part of me. When he shoots his sperm in my pussy, it just leaks out, runs down my leg or gets washed away in the bathtub. Eating it is more sensual.

    • That's a pretty cool perspective I can say :D Do you also convince your partners about that? :D

  • Fuck that when my boyfriend and I used a condom I still made him pull out.

    I was very careful. When I got on the pill only then did I let him not use a condom but he is crazy if he thinks I will ever let him cum inside me.

    The first time I let my fiancé cum inside me will be after we are married and think we want to start a family.

  • Girl, I've been on the pill for over 2 years and he sometimes cums inside. It's more intense for him when it's inside haha trust me. But sometimes he likes doing it on my face or ass... point is, there is defs a difference between inside and out haha and trust me, it's much hotter when he cums inside cause of his reaction ;)

    • take the spunk for the face.

    • sweet :P

  • My hubby used to withdraw. I was never happy, he too. We never used condoms as natural touch and friction is certainly excellent. But when he started cuming inside me, we both found (and still find) it marvelous. He expresses his enjoyment, pleasure and passion.

    • May I offer you congratulations on your highly probable pregnancy!

    • @Kaylyne If I am pregnant, let it be.

    • In that case I wil be delighted for the both of you. x

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  • I personally believe it feels better not to withdraw and to allow my orgasm to extend to its natural conclusion and actually cum inside the girl I’m having sex with. To me it feels more natural and is more enjoyable to simply cum inside her rather than stopping the flow of my orgasm and withdrawing to either cum on the girl or just let my cum release elsewhere. It doesn’t feel as natural to me to go that direction. That’s my bottom line.

  • Yeah, it turns on the guy even more when they get that reassurance from their girl that it's okay to cum inside, or how much you want their cum inside of you. But in just about every scenario it's better to stay in and let loose.

    Pulling out is mainly if you both want that cum somewhere else like on breasts, mouth, stomach. It can be fun too.

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  • Way better inside! No comparison
    Always being safe of course (STD and birth control wise)

  • Withdrawal can be fun at times when you are both feeling primal and instinctual. But when you are both more serious and need to make love, letting every last bit go off inside is amazing. Its like I am giving her something very special. Especially while you are making eye contact with the woman you love.

    • While I like cumming inside the most, there has been a few times when pulling out where I didn't get it in time and I made a huge mess a few times to only a few drops on other occasions all over her pubic hair. That felt very natural and primal. There is something about things being messy at times that really make it sexy. But I think this is way overplayed much of the time due to people watching too much porn. Some like withdrawal, and some don't. I much prefer inside while using withdrawal as an exception but pleasantly erotic for both of us when it does happen.

    • @James1986 stop it! You're making me hot!

    • @BillieJean1070 sorry, lol. Sometimes I just get too carried away in my over-descriptive nature. :)

  • Inside feels tremendously better. Like, by a fucking lot. There is no comparison.

  • No need to have a pullout game when we have sex , just cum
    inside & have a good time :)

    • the real fuck always fill the pussy!

    • yessss!

  • Inside me :)

    But like, be safe. It's easy to make a mistake with the pill. So like, it's still better to use condoms too, in my opinion.

    • mmmm nice :P

  • My sexual partner NEVER told me anything cuz i have never fucking had one!

  • I don't know it feels better but it does
    But only if I know his sexual health status

  • I always prefer to stay inside her.

  • He probably feels at your mercy in case you "forget" to take your pill. The barr in the arm is more effective and less likely to fail due to human error. Remember that contraception can stop working if you have been drinking.

  • Ok, my preface is that I am married. But having him, and it inside me feels much better to me.

    • this is how most woman feels.

    • @KatherineJ Precisely my feelings as well, it also helps somewhat as we are desperately trying to start a family!

    • @Kaylyne if you separate making a baby part still cum inside a pussy always the best part of sex.

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  • to ejaculate inside is better but it is better to wear condom always instead of pills

    • What about pounding a vagina makes you want to ejaculate inside her?

    • @Misty700 I didn't mean to pounding the vagina for ejaculating... sex is and should not one side act and u can stop ur partner if his act hurts u

  • Whether he withdraws or cums in you , there still stands a chance of getting pregnant.

  • Well cumming feels good either way no question...
    I don't think thats the issue as in if it feels better to "nut" in you.

    But I think he likes the sight of seeing his cum on you instead!

  • Inside, it just feels natural.

    Besides, only in porn do girls like to rub it around on their chest.

    • Not true lol! But I like being freaky kinky so I'm also out of the norm. I'm a BDSM gal for sure. Lol

  • it feels much better cumming inside of the woman.

  • I only like it inside me, though I don't mind other situations

    • :P hot

  • Inside feels better for sure. But can't always do that

    • Why does xumming inside a woman feel better than withrawing?

    • @Misty700 because it is tight and wet and just the thought that she lets you do it is a massive turn on.

    • But isn't pussy kinda loose and soft though instead of tight? Doesn't anal feel tighter and doess a better job at making you cum than a vagina?

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  • Staying inside feels better for two or three more seconds... pulling out feels better for the weeks after when you're not freaking out about potential pregnancy

  • I love finishing inside a woman , but it's up to her if she wants me to cum in her

  • filling pussy with cum is the best part of sex, i always want to dump inside.

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