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Natural sex, positions, wetness, pubic hair?

I have learned to be more respectful of women. I found that stopping any porn viewing and not objectifying women helped me have a more healthy view of sex in general. As such, I learned to enjoy the more natural side of sex. I have heard a few guys who say they don't like that the woman they are having sex with "get too wet" or have a "natural bush." I have also heard a few guys complain that they think missionary style is boreing and want to "cum down her mouth or on her face." I have also ran into an increasing amout of guys who actually do appreciate the natural and more respectful side of sex too.

I personally try to view sex first as an expression of love. Yes, the orgasm is awesome but it seems so much better when you truly care for and love the person you are with. And yes, I love the super wetness of her vagina, I adore the natural pubic hair in the form of the V or "full bush" and I love missionary style. While its way overplayed today, I don't find anything wrong with a little adventure and excitement at times too. For example, a little cum here and there on her pubic hair or brests is fine (assuming she is ok with it) and doggy style is nice, especially if you can reach around and still kiss each other while in position ;) but I prefer more than anything to be making eye contact with the one I love while we both orgasm. After, its equally as nice to stay connected and feel each others post orgasmic twitches and maybe go again a little later. That all seems very natural and primal to me and therefore beautiful vs. the act we hear about now days of violent sex, anal, cumming all over everything but where its actually supposed to go, and so on.

Women, what is your take on this? Am I way off in this day and age to still find this natural side to sex the most attractive and adorable vs. the other stuff we hear about so much now?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Ahhh guys like you are rare. You don't know how many girls in my class shave their pubic area just for their boyfriend's pleasure! I feel lucky my boyfriend doesn't mind at all. It's my body geez! Also for porn, I always become so angry when I see things like the guy getting violent with the girl. It creates a so wrong image about sex, especially anal. I never tried it but I made it clear to my boyfriend I don't want to try. It's the "wrong" hole I'd say. If we stopped watching porn, I'm sure natural sex would be much more appreciated. Some special days could get a little bit more spicy but never in extremity. We need to stay in the reality. I totally agree with you!

    • You have a good head on your shoulders! Don't ever change. It will serve you well as you go into adulthood.

    • Thanks a lot! I'm sure it makes your life much easier!

    • It does. Self confidence, principles, and the courage of conviction are a winner every time.

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  • I fully agree.
    Cumming on a woman in itself is not inherently wrong. I enjoy it a lot when my boyfriend gives me a facial, for example, once in a while. Just because he's not doing the typical climaxing inside of me doesn't mean he does it without any respect/feelings, or in a completely barbaric way. He always makes sure to run it by me and ask if I'd be cool with it beforehand.

    (people used to feel the same way about doggy or any positions other than missionary to be absolutely primal and 'improper' too, so...)

    • Yes cumming on a woman is not inherently disrespectful. Lots of women like it if it is done in a fun and loving way.

    • @ArrowheadSW I've met basically no women other than myself who like it when their guy cums on them.. I guess you must hang out with a pretty sexually liberal crowd. 👌

    • LOL! Sexually liberal crowd? I've never thought of it.. LOL Probably so... I used to know a lady who had her boyfriend ejaculate on her face, and she let it dry and then went to the grocery store. She said the grocery checker gave her a funny look. I don't know what she was thinking. LOL! YES she was sexually liberal!

  • I don't think things have to be tender all the time, but you want to feel like you're having sex with a man, not an adolescent ego crammed in a man's body.

    There is something very erotic just having so-called plain sex with a man, even if you aren't in love. If you two are really in the moment and not trying to check off a list of things think make you seem or look cool, it's like you feel like the first man and woman on the planet, discovering this mystical, almost transcendent experience together.

    • Not saying it has to be tender all the time. I'm not suggesting being a prude. I do believe that sometimes we need to take a step back though and enjoy things the way they were meant through nature. But I do believe much of this stuff now days where a man is supposed to be violent during sex is over the top.

    • Me too, it's like a parody of sex and gender roles.

  • you are completely normal, that is real life actually
    porn just makes people have wrong expectation and twistes people
    but porn is not always bad
    many people on the internet are either creeps or those who who never had sex and talk out their fantasies which if reality would present it to them would never enjoy it
    cause real enjoyment comes from having sex w someone you like/love
    any other sex is orgasm and empitiness

    • Thank you! Great insight.

Most Helpful Guys

  • We almost believe that there is one man who stopping watching porn, but then we saw the creepy smile, it's Ramsay Bolton all over again.

  • Totally agree with you my friend.

    • Thanks.

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  • you sir are right. Its true many women worry about being too wet or having pubic hair. I also have noticed that sex is less personal and more of a way to recreate a scence from a porno.
    I think sex should be about two people giving and receiving and sharing energy.

    • Very well said! :)

  • I think you're right on and would be happy with a man that felt this way.

    • I'm equally grateful that there are still women left out there who are like this too :)

  • No i agree with you totally... P. S. im a virgin so...😊

  • Well said , I agree

  • So you would never try anal sex?

    • In that way, yes I'll admit to being a prude lol. It just doesn't sound very enticing. It sounds pretty gross actually. Nothing takes the place of the vagina for me.

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