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I need help from women, I feel straight but apparently straight girls aren't real and somethings wrong with me?

This is the YouTuber ANNA AKANA, a popular YouTuber with millions of subscribers, she says there are studies proving all women are bisexual and that there's even been studies done in prisons and woman community.

I need help from women, I feel straight but apparently straight girls aren't real and somethings wrong with me?

For the study just type on google - "Women are never straight they are either gay or bisexual, study suggests" and it will be from the independent website.

I've also hear many of the LBGTQ and girls on this website say the same thing by the way. Saying all women are lesbians or bisexual and that straight woman don't exist. I'm a woman. I tried watching lesbian porn and it turns me off. I only like men and always have. I find the vagina gross, it looks like weird flappy skin like roast beef or slits. A penis is aesthetically more pleasing and the male body is firm and strong.

I even tried to have sex with a girl because I heard all women are bisexual so I thought that maybe exploring it would awaken my bisexuality. I tried having sex with my female friend, we made out first and I did not like it and then when I tried to go down on her I gagged a little. She tried going down on me and I got scared. Now I kinda feel like I did this with another woman because of what I was hearing and I really regret it.

I tried watching lesbian porn, again, and I honestly feel nothing. I only like straight porn and I like to pretend I'm the girl. I only enjoy sex with men. When people tell me that all women are Bi or Gay it makes me feel bad because I honestly feel Straight but apparently science says so, so according to them I repressing my sexuality? Or the bisexual part of me is dormant and not awaken? I'm confused. What do you guys think, are there counter arguments and studies to her link or is what she really saying true? And if it is true then why don't I feel attracted to women? AM I repressing it? I'm an atheist so it's not religion, and my family are pro LBGTQ, I even have a Gay male cousin and have many gay, lesbian and transgender friends. HELP


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I asked this question yesterday by the way but my account got terminated because of email problems so I had to make another account and ask again.
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  • I know that you are looking for gals input, not guys, but I do have something to add to the discussion. Most of the people who say that all women are bisexual are doing so due to a series of research studies that were funded by the pharmaceutical industry. The pharmaceutical industry funded these studies hoping to develop a "female viagra." Viagra, as you probably know, has been a GIANT moneymaker for the pharmaceutical industry, and, since "female sexual dysfunction" is a common diagnosis, they could make BILLIONS if they could treat it successfully.

    The problem is that the research was designed by men. Being a man myself, I'm not knocking men, or men's research methods, but men and women experience sex differently.

    The male researchers designed tests to see what turned women on - makes sense right? So, how do you measure how turned on a woman is? Well, with a guy it's pretty easy. If we have an erection (except morning wood) we're turned on. So the researchers looked at two things:

    1) Vaginal blood flow and engorgement (Yes Virginia, gals get hard-ons too.)
    2) Vaginal lubrication (AKA "getting wet")

    Then they showed women a bunch of pictures to see what turned women on. Here's where is gets funky. Self-identified straight women get turned on by pictures of men with erections - OK, that *shouldn't* surprise us. But they also got "turned on" by women getting ready to have sex, and by monkeys with erections. --- WOW! even straight women are attracted to women (and monkeys). THIS IS WHERE ARE THE "ALL WOMEN ARE BISEXUAL" hype comes from.

    But, wait - it gets better. Remember, these guys are working for the drug companies. The (male) researchers then went on to test drugs so they could find out ways to make women MORE responsive - and they found them - Viagra worked for women!

    Can any of you guess what happened next? Try to imagine first - you have a drug that helps women get hard-ons. Does it work? I'll tell you - "NO!" Most of the drugs they tried (which were found to work in the lab) were already available to consumers. This is a GIANT win for drug companies because they don't have to spend millions retesting the drugs for safety - they can just sell them for this new use and make the big bucks.

    They found that although the women who used the drugs got "hard-ons" they did not want more sex, and they did not enjoy the sex they got any more than they ever had. Can you guess why? Answer in the next installment.

  • I've seen this before, and not by a youtuber or a Tweet. The "reason" people say that is because women suck their mother's breasts.

    And... that's pretty much all.

    That women remember (somehow) that experience, and that is what MAY lead them into being bisexual.

    • So you believe that? Just curious

    • I don't. I believe that there are other factor that may lead into a person being bisexual/homosexual, but not something like breastfeeding.

    • That's not what the actually study says at all

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  • It's a study that shows almost all women re bisexual even if they don't know it. It's been proven women aren't attracted to the sex of a person but rather just the person they are attracted to. Women are super fluent and get attracted to people differently. I don't know how to explain it well but the study basically shows almost no women are actually completely straight or lesbian. That in fact almost all can be sexually attracted to both genders. It's because women are more attracted to a person and don't care about about gender. I've read the study. And you think you aren't turned on by lesbian porn but again studies provide women are turned on by any sex act even of they she animals having sex. Apparently for some reason the act just makes women turned on even if they don't know it

    • So you're saying I'm bisexual but I don't know it? Or that I am turned on to lesbian porn without knowing it?

    • "It's because women are more attracted to a person and don't care about about gender" I'm confused about this part, because I do have female friends that if they were guys I would date them because our personalities are compatible but them being female is what turns me off. Trust me It would be very easy just to be lesbian and date a girl I find compatible with my personality but I find the female body gross and even if I tried (Which I have) it grosses me out. I want me and crave them, I get grossed out by women bodies and vaginas so I'm confused about what you are saying. I'm just wondering what you mean

    • @PunjabiGirl22444 You're straight, stop listening to this deluded kid and the lady who tweeted that out. A woman can be straight, most women are straight.

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  • You can't put any credit to someone from youtube or anyone on the internet. You have to ask yourself, where did she get her information? What studies say that? She sounds like someone who see's it in a sexual way, if you feel that you are straight, then you probably are. Why convince yourself that you are not? Don't listen to these people who probably don't have any scientific proof or academic credibility. They are just looking to add subscribers and cause drama.

    • I also hear it from LBGTQ people in real life, not all of them but many of them believe this. I just don't know what to believe anymore.

    • I love and support the LBGTQ people but at the same its like religion and politics. Every one has an agenda and everyone wants you to be who they are, it makes them feel vindicated in who they are, but that doesn't mean its right for you.

    • I also wanted to say, I am bi-sexual, but I know that not everyone is. I just want to be accepted for who I am, and people who say that all women are bi, is deciding for you who you are, which I don't think is right.

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  • excuse me? "all women are bisexual." is this b*tch for real? because i can guarantee that if a woman made an attempt to kiss me she would get a no. or if she attempted to push the issue, like my ex worker did, she would get her throat slit. it's no offense to women. i have nothing against lesbians. it's just women drive me crazy from a behavioral standpoint, and i prefer men. so that b*tch is full of sh*t.

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  • No girls can be straight, gay, bisexual, etc. not all girls are "at least bisexual". Not everyone is the same, there is nothing wrong with you. It's about what you feel, if you don't feel anything towards girls then that's totally fine and normal

  • thats a bunch of bull crap thats just a feminist view that has no real standings with anyone. and she loves the attention so she says what she wants to keep things stirred up.

    women can and are straight anyone that says different only wants in your pants. that lady clearly has no looks to get a girl of her own so she makes things up to make it easier to get a girl.

    its sad and pathetic.

    • Actually no it's a real study that finds that almost all women are attracted to other women as well. It's not saying all are bisexual it's just saying women are more flued in their sexuality and are more attracted to just the person and not the sex of that said person

    • @kittycat119 that makes sense , i guess im just stuck in my old ways of thinking. sorry if i came off a bit jerkish.

  • No it’s not like that. I’m gay. We’ve all (women and men) been socialized with very sexual depictions of women. So women and men alike get slightly turned on when we see women in sexual ways. While we haven’t been socialized to see men like that.

  • lolz im straight and I feel trolled

  • She's just wrong. Women have a more fluid (technical term) sexuality. Some but far from all will shift from het to bi to gay.

  • I mean, it makes sense that bisexual women and gay women will try and convince other women that they're all a little bi/gay. In doing so, they open up a whole new playing field of women to try and get with. (For what it's worth, I've personally seen gay dudes do this to other dudes -- a gay male friend even tried it on me a long time ago lol).

    Bottom line: do you feel like you're bi/gay? Because whichever way you answer (as long as you're being true to you), other people's opinions don't mean jack shit.

  • Sounds like horse shit.

    • Ah! All women are into bestiality and scat, too! <3 <3 :* LOL

    • @redeyemindtricks LOL

  • why would you believe such a bogus claim that you just had to experiment?
    100% straight people exist

  • Don't worry about that. You know what you are better than some distant scientists. You're living proof that their theory needs some work. Don't let some total strangers tell you what you are when deep down you know it's not true.

    "I only like men and always have. I find the vagina gross, it looks like weird flappy skin like roast beef or slits. A penis is aesthetically more pleasing and the male body is firm and strong." -- Many guys would be pleased to hear this from a girl's mouth because usually they hear the opposite. That you have this minority view makes you more special and intriguing. It's not a bad thing.

  • You listened to some chick who doesn't know what she's talking about, first off even she says "the tests are from decades ago" So there you go. are chicks more naturally (in-tune) with bisexuality? <- yes
    Are all women bisexual? <- no (you can't round up an entire gender population based on studies done on a small group of people ESPECIALLY IN PRISONS...)

  • I've heard to the contrary, that true lesbians don''t exist. Historically, men who are exclusively homosexual have existed and this is documented, but women who are exclusively homosexual is sort of a modern thing.

    Bisexuality... I don't know. it probably has to do with nature and women not being required to view other women as their competition.

  • That's actually a load of bullshit.
    It has no scientific background at all. It's either for attention seeking from men or you are really bi/lesbian and still most and I really mean "MOST" women are straight.

    Offend nahi karna Cahata par Twitter ya phir youtube pe popular log especially girls jo popular hoti hai, wo aksar male point of view se baat karte hai ( to get more followers) and most of the time it doesn't make any sense.
    I would like to hear something from @redeyemindtricks
    (Sorry for tagging😁😬)

    • Yeah, there are plenty of actual straight women. I know, shocker!, right? I've had amazing luck with men... but, I have girlfriends who've had their hearts broken, who've been screwed over, who've been beaten (physically or emotionally), and who've just seen the worst side of men in general... but... they still love *men*. And hate them. And lust for them. Because... they're STRAIGHT women. I mean... The whole notion of m/m or f/f eroticism just doesn't even make sense to me. I can't even intuit it. "It's like trying to smell the color eleven", as one of my friends once said.

    • @redeyemindtricks Lol, the last sentence 😂😂😂

  • This is a new age agenda trying to say all women are secretely gay. This is of course completely ungrounded nonsense and a very specific and pitched agenda if you ask me to corrupt women's minds.

  • Its impossible to say that all woman would be bisexual, there is no way you can proof that ALL girls are bi

  • The fact is we all have little bit of bi sexuality, some more some less, if we are too straight we never go along with same gender, not in terms of sex not even touch them and even make them friend, so we all have that, in sexual term you may be straight as you mention, but what does matter, you love dick and you are fine what you want?

  • I think it has something to do with lesbian women trying to sleep with straight women like it worked for you didn't it. anyways i know gay men generally stay away from lesbians as friends. The gay men that I know are one of the most happiest people in the world. I find lesbians bitter people unless their really pretty. also 15 % of women are bisexual not 100%. don't ask me to source my shit can you can easily find in on Google and other Academia.

  • You sound absolutely ridiculous, you can't force yourself to be bi.

    They often consider women gay or bi if they've kissed another girl, which is very common for girls to do. Finding the female form attractive and being romantically attracted to them are very different, and only one means you aren't straight.

  • Ong ikr! Its so annoying. Im 100% straight. The woman body makes me feel a bit ill. Yes , i even my find my own lady bits gross. I love men and their bodies. The people who say this are perverted lesbian woman and perverted straight men with lesbian fantasies. The "study" is so wrong. In fact , more women are straight than apbi or lesbian. How many girls do you see with ? Hardly any. I have a bisexual friend that says she's into girls yet dates mostly guys.

  • Twitter twits do not count as scientific studies.

    Quote an actual scientific study, or STFU.

  • You're born gay, just like you're born straight

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