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Why do you still look and watch other women when you already have one in your life?

I never reject sex, i show and dress half naked for him a lot. I do everything for him, i give him everything he wants. Why is it not enough at all that he has to go look at other women online, who has bigger breasts and bigger butts? Surprisingly, he doesn't ever let me touch his dick, touch him in an sexual way, or be naughty to him because he said it isn't comfortable, and he always tell me to stop being a whore. Yet he goes online watching naked or half naked women. Shaking their butts and boobs, porn. Hed tell me to dress up too and not show too much skin. He basically want me to be a good girl, but how should i when he has to go look at other women? I dont want him to go look at other women, however i can't stop him... im available 24/7, i always want to do things w him, but he prefers watching the other women he desires, than be w me. This is making me grow apart from him, he is not at all the man i want and fell in love with.
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  • me and my wife have always been able to look at other men and women and even tell each other if we see or fancy somebody else, its liberating to be able to be to say the your wife and best friend if i find somebody gorgeous or fit and visa versa , we believe that when you enter a relationship , your eyes and mind dont just close down to the world around you , we even watch porn together and i like some different things to what my wife likes to watch , so we bend and sway, give and take , accept that and enjoy the differences.
    all that said , if he won't let you touch his cock or be sexual with him...
    well , i'm afraid he has issues , it seems he desires the dirty girl online but wants his own partner to be cleaner than clean , he's not accepting his own naughty side , which we all have , its how the world is , its human nature to desire and want and enjoy , but self guilt and no confidence and personal hang ups are barriers he must fight through.
    if he is not willing to talk openly & truthfully to you about his feelings and thoughts , you have a long battle ahead ! which you must decide if you want to go through or not.
    have you tried to sit and talk about all this with him and tell him your side of things?

    • Well he doesn't even like or want me to watch other guys, yet he does it to me a lot. I do believe that you will still find other people attractive and wonder how it feels like to be with them, however, they are nothing compared to your current one. Like you can't love them like how you love your lover. Anyways, I've talked to him about it and he just gets mad, turning the table on me. That i was snooping when i wasn't. He also denied watching it and also said he isn't like those other guys who likes watching those kind of things. But his actions shows it all that he is.

  • He sounds like a pure Voyeur. It's someone that gets off watching instead of doing. He probably found this out while watching porn on a regular basis and can't stop himself now, or can't separate this about him from his actual life and your relationship. Yeah he has to try and wrangle it in or he's going to screw his relationship with you, and I don't think he knows this. These are three things you can try and do with this:

    1) Talk to him about it and tell him exactly how it's making you feel and what can come about because of this, ie, loosing you.
    2) Cuckold him or ask him if he would get turned on if you were with another guy and he watched (if you want to get into that)
    3) Counselling.

    I don't know if your body has changed over time or anything. Sometimes it might be because his attraction for you isn't as strong anymore, either because of looks or just used to it and it isn't a spark anymore.

    But I think you should talk to him and ask him what's going on. It might get dirty and hurtful what points you hit on, but at least then you know where he's at and maybe come to a solution on how to deal with it.

    • I have talked to him and he said he's not like that. But his actions shows he is. He denied watching and said he will never watch it, having me with him already. But i find him watching it everytime.

    • Yeah he probably is still watching for sure. Just embarrassed and is afraid of hurting you. But something's up.

    • Yup im sure.

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  • Plenty of men do go crazy over their own woman. Yours is broken
    Its time for a new man honey

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  • www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10152-how-to-talk-to-your-so-about-sex

    Also, maybe a couple of sessions with a good couple's therapist will help.

  • Few things. Would you mind him watching porn if he would be more "available"?
    Frankly, I don't understand why he's acting like this. I'm watching porn, my girlfriend as well. But I like when she gets dressed in bitchy way, miniskirt, no panties and huge cleavage. So she always gets enough attention from my side. Sometimes we even together watching life cams. But that we find it more funny than arousing.

    • One thing comes up to my mind. He's kinky. But who doesn't? He rather jacking off with porn he consider arousing, then "normal sex" with you. 2 possible reasons for this behaviour. He is too shy to say what gets him turn on and this kind of talk could be embarrassing for him. Or he's just hypocrite and he's not willing to confess even to himself what's turning him on.

    • Well i rather want him to spend time with me than watch porn. I don't know why he's like that to me too. Its like he wants me to be a very good girl, but why should i when he goes watch naughty girls online.

    • Porn providing one thing you can't. VARIETY.. One of the big reasons why men watching porn.

  • has he cheated on you? Looking at other women is just that just looking. It's has nothing to do with you mentioned just like looking that's it.

    • Yes he has when we were separated. He also had a history of cheating on his ex wife.

    • Then maybe he is the problem and needs to go, I sure you deserve better. Under normal circumstances looking is just that and nothing to be worried about but if the person is in fact a cheater then it's time to talk or leave them. hope this helps.

  • Sounds like you should chunk the deuces... if you do everything for him that the girls are n the videos are doing then he just takes you for granted. My opinion..

    If you do everything for him that they do then he should be to exhausted to even wanna watch them.

    • Of course i do, i just dont anymore cause he doesn't like it.

    • Why are you sticking around? Are you Married?

    • Yes were married. If were not married i wouldn't even give a fuck about him anymore. I didn't know he was this kind of man until i married him.

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  • Aww I'm sorry. U need someone who would appreciate all that you do! He's being an ass. And I would love to trade him places!!! Lol. :-)

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