Guys, Be honest, do you know where the hole is?

[Lys_Dis]

Okay so today I had sex, yay! It was with this guy I had already fucked twice before. The first time we were intoxicated the second time he was a little. Because of this I never really put much thought into him having to be guided to the hole. This time however it was different. We were both 100% sober but he still couldn't find the hole! It was frustrating to say the least having to guide him constantly or having to change positions because of it. I'm thick so my ass is huge so we do it in missionary though doggie is my favorite position. So do you know where the hole is? Would you tell the girl? Be honest.

[Stazz76]

That's because the vagina isn't an open hole. Scans of the female pelvis show that the vagina is flat in cross section, sometimes even shaped like a capital H.
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It needs to be closed to minimise risk of infections like endometriosis. Also, if it was a circular hole, it couldn't expand nearly as far: the cross section like an H means that it has the ability to expand to take larger objects and to pass a baby through. When a penis goes it, it literally has to push the front and back walls of the vagina away to make room for itself. That's when erection hardness matters most.
As far as your guy is concerned, he needs to know not to expect an open hole. You can just tell him to lube his fingers up, and to explore the area below your urethra. You'll probably need to guide him about how much pressure is appropriate as he slides his finger from your urethra towards your anus. With the appropriate pressure, the vagina will open up.
He'll need to practice with missionary style first cause he can see what he's doing. As far as doggy style is concerned, don't forget that he can't see what he's doing, and remember that guys don't get much tactile feedback from a willy sliding around a wet pussy either, so it's actually preferable for you to guide him in during doggy style, because it does take some pressure to open up a tight vagina - so it's comforting to know that it's in the right place before pushing.
Also - make sure he understands the importance of foreplay. Apart from being wet, he needs to know that it helps relax the vaginal muscles, so finding the hole and penetration becomes easier and more enjoyable.

[vampireelf]

1. Guys have no idea where the right hole is, until you show him. How should they know? You dont get a manual of how a pussy works as a guy, all you get are rumours and bad porn movies ;)
2. A penis is a pretty numb thing. It can't feel. So when you try to penetrate, you dont feel if you are at the right hole or not.

So you really need to guide a guy. He is going to learn quickly. But a guy doesn't know what to do, and his penis doesn't know, too.

I got no problem with a girl guiding me. Thats the only way it works. Its like you try to touch someones nose, but with your eyes blindfolded ;)

[cheapshotbob]

no , but if it went in and she smiled i would just act like i knew what i was doing like a pro would lol.

[Soteris]

You would have to buy me a fair amount of alcohol for me to mess up that badly.

[robertraff]

Yes and never had a problem finding the hole.

[thewho1975]

Sounds like a struggle a bit got a couple of tips that might help you

[evanh474]

Yes I do but I have heard a lot of guys say they didn't know how far down the hole is.

[jacquesvol]

You bet , I know it. :D

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

Is it not by the ear? If that's the case, I've been doing it so so so wrong 😳

[ThePetSquirrel]

Of course, I know where the ear hole is.

[pavlove]

lol stop trying to make guys on here paranoid

[concupiscence]

There is nothing in the world I know better. The only time you would have to "guide" me would be to have it more fun. And thick and doggie are quite perfect with me.