Women are attracted to themselves, not men?

[Anonymous]

Lesbian porn is the most popular genre to "straight" women, and in tests women are more aroused by female body than the male body. Now women claim to still be straight and say it's because it emphasizes female pleasure, they get off on the pleasure rather than the women (otherwise they obviously wouldn't be straight). So with women not being aroused by random dick pics, and the male body in general, but are aroused by a women being pleased, are they attracted to themselves and not men when the partner pleasing them in video doesn't matter? And don't say your boyfriends body arouses you, that's emotional attraction, if it was what his body looked like that aroused you, any guy with a similar looking body would arouse you immediately.

Women have shown to be aroused by gay male porn too, but far more so by lesbian porn (If you want sources for any of the above, https://indiana.edu/~sexlab/files/pubs/Chivers_Seto_Blanchard_2007.pdf , and pornhub statistics). So is female sexuality narcissistic and more about attraction to their own pleasure, or are women just bisexual and closer to being lesbian than straight?

[Anonymous]

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[Opinion Owner]

Dafuq, wait...

[Opinion Owner]

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[Asker]

Mmm i understand

[Asker]

But seriously women are either bisexual leaning towards being lesbian, or are just attracted to themselves

[Asker]

What were you trying to post

[Opinion Owner]

A blah blah meme lol

[Asker]

Well everything i wrote is the truth, so are women bisexual or attracted to themselves in a narcissistic way?

[Opinion Owner]

Not really, I don't know, i'm not every single woman out there and neither can i speak for all of them but your logic is too flawed for an argument tbh.

[Asker]

How so? my logic really isn't flawed, explain in detail how it is so?

[LilahSteph]

Personally I don't react to lesbian porn, even I try to avoid any porn movie where there is two women, I'm more into guyxguy... But I know a lot of women who are into lesbian porn but who are actually straight... I think it's because men's biggest weakness is women... I'm not just saying it, a lot of statistics proof it and stories as well, meanwhile women just want to look good which is also psychology proofed (I read a lot of psychology articles and I stumble upon it a lot) So, as a conclusion, we can say that men are into watching the women's body getting fucked meanwhile the women watch it to imagine they're the hot girl in the video... which tends to help us get an orgasm. Just tell a girl she looks beautiful / hot and notice her reaction... We just want to look beautiful and sexy... It's not for men only but we want to do it for ourselves and we imagine that sexy pornstar to be us.

[Asker]

So attraction to themselves and extreme sexual narcissism it is! If they aren't attracted to the male body, and the partner doesn't matter they aren't straight.

[Asker]

See they imagine it's them, with lesbian porn they can't be straight then, because they are imagining another girl eating them out.

[VSVixen]

It could be because strictly aesthetically speaking women are the fairer sex.

[kellyg83]

Ok. First off, I'm into gaya porn. Guy/guy. I've tried watching straight porn. I've tried watching lesbian porn. Neither one turns me on. However, I would have to say that a lot of women are narcissistic. Sad, but true. Second ) I couldn't be a lesbian because I would slit a b*tches throat before I would ever kiss her. They're too damn self serving for me, and as an old school woman, it's hard to handle because I was not raised to be as nasty as the women of today. As far as the dick pics go: the only reason I get angry about it, is because it is very arrogant to assume that that should somehow be the highlight of my day. I'm not a fan of arrogance.

[Kookie00]

If the women are straight, I think that the arousal part is more of an admiration than an attraction. Like you can see a woman with a nice figure and admire it, in a sense that you wouldn't mind being shaped like that or having that figure. But being attracted to her... that when stuff starts getting kinda gay lol

[Asker]

If it's admiration they wouldn't be getting sexually aroused and masturbating to it.

[Kookie00]

I agree... thats why I said at that point it starts getting gay lol

[FatherJack]

Females are considered the attractive gender by BOTH genders. On average women are much less attracted to men , than men are to women. This is because , due to Bateman's Principle ( female has a much greater & riskier reproductive role ) women are nearly always the choosers. A man has to put in serious effort to make himself attractive to women... or he is invisible to women.

[Asker]

Yes i know bateman's principle, it's because 1% of men can knock up 100% of women. That doesn't show why "straight" women re more aroused by other women than men.

[FatherJack]

I think it's societal conditioning , painting women as THE attractive gender , in addition to anti male propaganda infecting the heads of Western women , a combo of both.

[Asker]

Affect and effect, just because society and the media made them bisexual doesn't mean they aren't, although i am sure you understand that.

[FatherJack]

Yes I sure do. Women do think much more emotionally than men , plus have a strong gender solidarity that men do not have , so are more prone to propaganda , conditioning & peer pressure.

[Asker]

Although men are more sexually attracted to women than women are to men, i feel as though women are more emotionally and romantically attracted to men than men are to women (good luck measuring that objectively though), like recently my cousin tried to commit suicide after her boyfriend dumped her and started dating another women, and she was seemingly fine with the breakup, it was him finding another women that got her depressed.

[Anonymous]

Women attraction to men is based on what men can give them. Essentially women see us as utilities to use. The more useful of a tool you are to them in whatever goal that are after the more kinder, and warm they are towards you.

This is basic female nature.

[Asker]

Yup they are prostitutes

[layla1234]

lmao that's great ^ it's kind of true in away. women want men regardless of in a relationship who can do for them and if you do for them they give sex. men are also pigs and it wouldn't be that way if y'all would just act right. the world is so screwed.

[RexCatholicissimus]

Female sexuality is retarded and makes little sense, dude. I wouldn't put too much thought into it.

All you need to focus on is that lesbian relationships almost all fail and the eventual novelty of such a lust dies away, which is where men come in.

Incidentally, women tend to still find male traits (not necessarily attuned to the body itself) attractive, male hair, deep voices, height, etc.

[layla1234]

weird but not true, you're who you're. girls can date other girls out of lust, but a lesbian is a lesbian if the relationship fails she's going to the next girl. you don't run to a man when a relationship fails with your women, and women who are straight don't run to lesbians when their partner fails. no logic there man.

[RexCatholicissimus]

Oh, this might come in interesting to you, by the way:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2152100-what-qualifies-as-a-nude-picture

It just dawned on me that literally every girl I know has got pictures of herself on her phone naked, covering up or otherwise, they start doing this shit at really young ages. I'm sure you all know girls who do, too, or have met ones that do. Whereas, I don't personally have any friends that have such pics saved of themselves, and I definitely don't. And I CERTAINLY wasn't interested in taking them at ages like fucking 14, whereas in school I still knew plenty of girls that had nudes and again, I'm sure you did, too.

Food for thought that might link to your question.

[layla1234]

honestly number one reason why lesbians hate men are because men don't respect or believe the fact they're lesbian, they try and do too much convincing... at the end of the day where a woman lays her head and who she loves is not your concern. its not effecting you in any way same with gay men. mind your own

[Rissyanne]

Sorry I don't want to see two women lick each other down.

[Asker]

Well most women who still claim to be straight do, since it's the most popular genre of porn to the female demographic (pornhub statistics).

[Rissyanne]

I am not most. That is disgusting to me.

[Asker]

Have you got a daughter? If you do, i am pretty sure she masturbates to lesbian porn, yet she will claim to be straight, when she clearly isn't.

[Rissyanne]

That is her business. And that's not me.

[Asker]

Well she is doing something disgusting according to you, and it shows she is sexual narcissistic, bisexual or not.

[Rissyanne]

Look for one thing... I never said she was doing that. Another why the fuck do you care? Are you not getting any attention from women?

[Asker]

Pretty sure she is doing it, you fine with having a bisexual daughter?

[Rissyanne]

She has a fiancé who is a guy. She isn't bisexual.

[Asker]

How do you know? emotional attraction and romantic attraction has by very definition nothing to do with SEXUAL orientation. Having a fiance doesn't mean you aren't attracted to women as well as men, she very well could be attracted to women too. Science shows that almost all women are bisexual anyway and most these bisexual women chose men to date.

[Rissyanne]

Dude... fo

[Asker]

Everything i said is the truth

[anonman32]

Yeah i only date women that are total sluts for my dick. I find women adoring my dick to be a romantic gesture so none of this is really relevant to me.

[Anonymous]

Yes I think so but I watch gay porn too so. I don't know I am pansexual.

[Asker]

Always thought that was a semantically redundant word, or just a synonym, bisexual is seemingly the same, trannies are either a man or a women regardless.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay then I'm bisexual.

[Asker]

All women are, anthropologists say women don't even have a sexual orientation, just an amorphous mess based on narcissistic sexual self affirmation.

[Opinion Owner]

Hohohooo didn't get some in a long time right? Calm down. Ask mummy for a nice homemade dinner.

[Asker]

It's the truth though, look it up, and how does that sound anymore bitter than the original question?

[Asker]

Which you seemed to be alright with

[Opinion Owner]

Women might be sexually amorphous but they are not a narcissistic mess. I think you are frustrated with women tbh

[Asker]

*An amorphous mess, which come to think of it is redundant to some degree , and it's narcissistic because they are far more aroused by there own pleasure than anything else, the partner doesn't matter much, look up psychology papers about female sexuality, it is often described as narcissistic.

[Asker]

And frustrated with women? with their sexuality yes! how would you like men being more aroused by their own body than yours? to have their sexuality more about self affirmation than attraction to you? But me being frustrated with female sexuality and me being right aren't mutually exclusive.

[Opinion Owner]

No they're not. I am extremely frustrated men's sexuality so what? It is an old adage that will never end. Just deal with it.

[Asker]

An adage expresses the truth i hope you know, and this isn't age old, this information on female sexuality is new.

[Opinion Owner]

The age old is that men hate women and women hate men. Bye

[Anonymous]

Does anyone else feel like there'd maybe be more conclusive knowledge on this type of subject or more mainstream research on it in general if the ever-looming threat of it being labelled "sexist" or "homophobic" wasn't there?

I mean let's be completely honest, these things DO influence it. And even if the research goes ahead, how many people are going to be made privy to it? I actually think it'd be interesting to get decent insight into this type of thing and it'd maybe help both men and women out as a whole.

I mean, Christ, remember that study that showed women's bodies get aroused when watching monkeys have sex, but their brains were largely unaware of the arousal? Why can't we have MORE research, like that. That's a tremendous breakthrough into understanding female sexuality properly. But no, let's just assume someone is gay or a bisexual or throw dumb, modern terms at the thing without any attempts to actually understand it.

[Anonymous]

Geez and men walk around sayin women are messed up, then we post a question like this and think we didn't drop the ball

[Asker]

All i have said is true though, just because the truth is derogatory towards women doesn't mean it shouldn't be said.

[Anonymous]

own pleasure

[Asker]

So then how are you straight? women can sexually pleasure you too!

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't say I was I'm demisexual. do some read... lol I also don't use porn.

[Asker]

Then you aren't straight, you are attracted to emotions, your opinion doesn't really help in answering the question.

[Opinion Owner]

women are natural more in feelings than visuals though unlike men. you can probably think our oxy tocin realseas for that. but I'd assume if they're straight its for own pleasure because not many women actually cum through Penetration its very very rare. we cum through clitoral stimulating and all lesbian porn is based off of that. you'll catch dildos in the porn scenes too but not so much...

[Asker]

They aren't visual... until it comes to two women having sex in porn... then they are visual, that makes them closer to being lesbian than straight

[Opinion Owner]

so basically watching a penis going to work isn't going to help get a woman off because its really not that pleasing. it can be but penises in general don't really hit the spot for women. unless she's on top grinding herself against him or he's helping do some work on her clit. but they focus more on the man in straight sex porn like men get the head and anal and hitting it which ever way he likes and that's not a turn off in the real world or fansay world for straight women. maybe they view straight porn as selfish men? who knows everyone would be different. hope I could help more

[Opinion Owner]

that's a turn off*

[Asker]

That's why it's fluid and they are bisexual, if the partner doesn't matter and it's all about their own pleasure they can't be straight, it's fluid sexuality which by definition can't be heterosexual or homosexual.

[Opinion Owner]

thats why I'd assume own please they're not really visualizing pleasing another women in the lesbian video, they're thinking of themselves getting pleased. so they probably find a scene with a chick who looks most like they body and focus on the act itself rather than who's doing the act to the other girl. they're just watching the vagina get pleased imagining its them. unlike a man who would more imagine himself pleasing the woman correct?

[Asker]

Yes, you are correct, which is why men are straight, and women don't actually have a sexual orientation, it's fluid and narcissistic.

[Opinion Owner]

its so confusing its like you'd have to be a woman to understand what I'm getting at lol. I can see why you'd say bi or lesbian but in the real world no woman really wants lesbian sex, but no women wants sex from a selfish man either maybe women are so use to selfish sex they secretly want the perfect sex lesbians have. its almost impossible not to cum from a woman. its oral, scissoring, and fingering. women get off more from all that and someone that takes their time on them rather than a penis for 10 mins pump pump he's done. maybe they want good sex but aren't attracted, sexuality doesn't always have to have a lable or gender that's what the world did... men don't understand its not our fault we can't physically cum from penetration, squirting is not coming, getting wet is not cummin, we don't reach a peek. I think a lot of women are confused with it feels good to I'm coming...

[Opinion Owner]

sex is meant to make babies and the clit is there to make her cum. I bet if all men focused on the clit lesbian porn would go out of style real fast.

[Asker]

You don't understand the correct semantics involved, you are agreeing with me that they have fluid sexuality, so they can't be straight

[Opinion Owner]

for example for gay men anal feels great, theirs g spots nice lovely but you can't cum from your ass you're going to have to do more work than that. it helps feels nice but not doing the full trick and most women are thrown to the curb on truly great sex and what she deserves. men really need to understand that to be giving the best sex. research it I'm not lying

[Opinion Owner]

well they can very much so only be attracted to men but in a fantasy world be into lesbian sex. theirs things men love in porn but if they actually tried it wouldn't love it in real life. hard to say.

[Opinion Owner]

ever heard the saying or read the meme women want a girlfriend, or love lesbian sex until it comes down to actually eating a vagina... lol yup they wouldn't really do it or even like it in reality. therefore I believe its more emotional, more of their own pleaser. maybe were all gay.

[Asker]

More emotional towards men or women? emotional attraction by very definition has nothing to do with SEXUAL orientation.

[Opinion Owner]

emotional does lesbian porn is also more innocent and soft rather than straight porn even men will admit they wouldn't do the things they see in porn to someone they love... so yes emotions come into play as well. like I said women are so much more different than men so they all watch lesbian porn for much different reasons. I'm just throwing out why they mite be watching it stead of straight porn. if a chick wants what she's not getting in the bedroom why would she watch some crazy straight sex scene she's defiantly not going to want in the bedroom lol hard to get off to something she's really can't see herself get into. let me give a better example. if she does find a straight sex scene she likes she's still not going to be looking at the penis or the man she's still going to be watching the vagina and the act itself. imagining its her in the scene. not the actual girl. same with lesbian porn its more the act in the video than whose in it are you following?

[Opinion Owner]

but if it was real life she'd much rather prefer than man be doing the act to her. just the way she actually wants it and if he'd fall short she wouldn't mind a woman to do it neither she just wouldn't be watching the woman she'd be only watching the act and looking at herself. does it make sense women can probably have sex with any gender yes. only if they're not the visual type.

[Opinion Owner]

therefore she'd be pansexual maybe women aren't gay or bi they're just pan! lol

[Opinion Owner]

they're in it for there own pleasure whoever can make her actually enjoy sex is who she wants inside and outside the bedroom.. regardless of looks that would deff make a pansexual.

[Foxkaa]

Sorry, I agree with you about a lot of things except you say that "you have to be a woman" to understand female anatomy and orgasms, but then go on to say that gay men can never cum from anal penetration alone. This is 100% false. Please stick to the female body and stop telling men about our own bodies because it's obvious you don't have a firm understanding.