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My dad saw my dildo?

I'm so embarrassed I want to die!

I live by myself. And I own a big dildo. Yesterday my sink got broken and I asked my dad to come over my place to fix it while I'm at work. Today, before I went to work, I had a shower. I was very horny so I had a quicky with my dildo in the bathtub. When I was done I noticed I was getting late to work, so I quickly put on my cloths... and left my dildo in the bathtub! I totally forgot that my dad is going to come over! I even forgot that I left my dildo there. When I came home I called my dad to ask him if he fixed it and he said he did. I went to bathroom and there I saw it. It hit me like a brick!!! It's impossible that he didn't see it... If he used the bathroom he totally saw it because it was right there!

I can't face my dad anymore. I seriously want the earth to just open and to swallow me down. What do I do?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm sure your dad is adult mature man to know things about life.
    Do you realize how many times i went into a bathroom living with
    female relatives and saw the shower head turned cause during
    shower and bath time they would pleasure their self and forgot to
    straighten the shower head out? Also you realize how many of us
    men use the bathroom and see box of Tampons and Pads it really
    doesn't bother me. I'm adult enough to know and respect that we
    all do our thing in life it happens and mistakes do happen such as
    a teen male growing up i found my mother's used pad she forgot
    to dispose of see i really don't make a big issue out of things?
    I've had female relatives find my cock-rings and lubrication gel
    i use for pleasuring myself but they were all of adult age but
    accidents do happen. You think for one minute that i care?
    I don't deliberately leave things around to be found such as
    cock-rings but than again it's all part of life and I'm sure you
    don't deliberately let dildos lay around hey things happen it's
    all part of life.

    • Well said!

    • @SapouraK Thank You :D

  • You're a grown woman!! He knows that. You're not his 13 year old little girl that has no business having a big ol' cock to play with. Just let it go. He won't mention it and you shouldn't. He loves you and he didn't think badly of you for being sexual. I have a 35 year old daughter (my GAG age is wrong, sue me!) and I know some things about her, some of which she knows I know, and we just ignore it and go on being very close.

    Maybe in a few weeks, you text him that you genuinely appreciate his discretion. That's all. He'll know what you're talking about.

Most Helpful Girls

  • My dad potentially saw mine too at one point, ironically in a very similar way to yours. I often use it in the bathtub and I left it in there one morning then later in the evening when I asked my dad to fix my sink and bathtub because the drain was clogged, I went back into the bathroom to see if everything was working fine again and I noticed that I left it in the shower. I'm still not sure if he saw it because he never mentioned anything, and I know he would've, but all I can hope is that he didn't. But the feeling I got when I noticed the mistake I made by leaving it in there was like no other

  • I highly doubt he used the bathroom my mom was hanging out all day just left didn't even use the bathroom I know I go hours before needing to pee lol you're good! even if he did its not that big of a deal unless he walked on you using it then I wouldn't want to show my face anymore.

  • You get over it, your not a little girl anymore... It's totally normal for you to have sex toys as an adult and Im sure your father is aware of that... Remember you father had sex to make you with your mother you really think they never experimented before? Don't sweat it darlin

  • Lol, I had a dick cookie cutter for a bridal shower I made cookies for. Made 150 of them like 3 years ago. My parents helped me pack and my mom found it. She thought the cookie cutter was a shotgun and my told her it was a dick.

    So. Embarrassing.

    • It's hot to talk with parent's

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  • act normal, do not overthink. It is same as embarrassing as yoyr dad as it is for you. Plus tou are an adult so just stop thinking so much.

  • Remember, your mom has wild kinky orgasmic sex with him on a regular basis. He's no prude. Relax, the dildo only reminded him that you're now an adult on your own and no longer a child. Although if you can't fix your own broken sink... hmm. :)

  • At least he didn't use it to plug a leak or hammer nails with it.

    Talk about embarrassing, have you seen the Aubrey Plaza movie "The To Do List"? Near the end, Aubrey's older sister, played by Rachel Bilson, is riding Bill Hader on the edge of her bed when her parents walk in. Bill stands up and walks over to them with Rachel's legs still wrapped around him and offers to shake hands with her dad. Her dad says "get out of my house and out of my daughter!" Fun movie.

    As for your dad: I agree with the rest. Laugh it off. If you have daughters in the future you can tell them the funny story when they're college age or older.

  • You're an adult. He probably saw it, felt embarrassed at the time, and laughed later.
    I absolutely promise you: your father masturbates.
    I can not picture him judging you harshly for doing the same. You're an adult woman, not a 13 year old.

  • Think about it this way, as weird as it is, he'd probably rather you have a dildo than a boyfriend. Everyone has dildos, it's not that bad. A million times better than him finding a man tied up in your bed or something. That would be truly horrific.

  • I doubt your dad cared since you're an adult and most tend to have that sort of thing.

  • OH GOD! That happened to me once but fortunately the curtain was drawn when dad came in my house! I would just ignore it and TRY to pretend it never happened. I guarrantee he will too

  • I hate when that happens.

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    • I wasn't trying to be mean girl. Sorry if that hurt your feelings. I was just saying laugh it off

  • It's going to be okay... just please don't mention it to him. It will make it so much worse. Pretend it didn't happen.

  • Lol, he probably looked at it and was glad it wasn't some guy he hated. I wouldn't worry about it much.

  • looool hahahahahaha first time I read a story in this site and got so into it wow.. I don't know what to say 🙈

  • LOL, All I'm thinking of is how big are we talking about?;-P

    Happens... I remember when I found my moms when I was young. It wouldn't have bothered him... if you were his son... that would be a different story.

  • I mean, come on. You've given us all a good chuckle (in a nice way). Isn't that worth it? Some good has come of this! :P

  • You get on with life

  • Good god your dad is an adult... I am sure he knows you are a woman with sexual desires so having a dildo is normal. Might have given him a bit of a shock... then a chuckle.

    • this^^^

  • He will be glad that he didn't catch a naked man in your bathrm instead

  • I would feel the same if one of my parents saw my sex toy. See parents are awsome and i would say he would understand but he won'r accept it. Try to give it time and try to be thankful for him helping you fixing your home.
    Time is your friend.

  • omg girl nwell its better then having a man in your bt

  • Trust me, just act like absolutely nothing is wrong. If he saw it then he won't want to bring it up either and he'll erase it from memory.

  • He probably just laughed and didn't want to embarrass you. Don't worry gurl.

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