Well whatever situation it is an ass is going to be tighter than a vagina. A lot of guys are really turned on by butts hence ass men, and feel anything to do with it is sexy as hell. It may also be the dominance over their female since its not something you go straight to, it's something that a lot of females don't do so it may feel special. And not as many guys have been in there as they have been in the vagina. Especially if you think ons, how many girls are going to do something like that on a ons, not many. Even if you gave that guy your virginity, it's still generally takes a lot to try anal.
Thanks for the mho 😊
Beats me, its unsanitary and gross, I mean it has sooooo many health risks, especially when you're doing anal and go back to regular sex, it could cause an infection for the man or an infection for the woman because (i'm going to throw up) you're low key getting fecal matter EVERYWHERE.
my thoughts exactly.. but it's been more than one guy that has tried to convince me. all are straight and most of these men are in their late 30s
You know I feel like porn probably influenced it, they probably saw it in porn and said "Oh, I want to try that". And the fact that it could be tighter, but i've heard its a lot of pain for the girl because its not normal to put your ding-a-ling there, IT WASN'T MADE FOR THAT KIND OF THING, and not only that most people actually don't do it, so i'm sure a guy is inexperienced putting it there. If your boyfriend keeps asking you for it, tell him to go fuck himself lmao.
The taboo factor is a big turn on, it's super tight and so many women say no so if they get to have a go it's exciting.
From a girls perspective when done properly it's amazing. The orgasm is SO intense and if done with other stimulation it can be one orgasm after another.
well I let my boyfriend, and you are right, once I relaxed he was pretty amazing. but I'm wondering why he was wanting to do it so bad. and he seemed to kno what he was doing so I doubt it was experimental issue. what's he get outta it?
If it felt good for you why couldn't it feel good for him? My partner says when I come during anal it gets so tight it borders on pain sometimes which is a huge turn on for him. Are you looking for a specific reason, like trying to tie to to gay tendencies?
no, I'm wondering why if it's more pleasurable for the female, why is it that the men are the ones who want it so much
For me and a lot of other men, it's about dominance and submission. Not like a slave but rather a woman who wants to trade a little control for him to take complete charge of her sexually with her informed consent. It's very, very hard to debate who's in control when you're being fucked up the ass, no?
Do you ever want him to just go all caveman on you and "use" you? There's a slut in every woman and his job is to bring her out to play and then let her be the complete slut she's always wanted to be.
I'm starting to think it's a dominance thing. not one opinion on here said it felt better and my boyfriend is kinda controlling. not jealous controlling but like, "I'm the man, I make the decisions about when I want to see you, where we're going, what positions, how many cigs your allowed to smoke" and he's pretty much controlling the bedroom too.
Dominance has limits which need to be negotiated from time to time. I've had anal sex with dozens of women and they all learned to absolutely love it. It's all about how it's done, esp the first time or two. They found they connected to their feminine side very closely when they were submissive. Does the submissive role appeal to you?
tbh I never let anyone UNTIL my current s/o. we've only done it twice. & since I'm inexperienced in that it was only natural to be submissive. he put all his weight on me and went gentle. It felt ok for me, but I'm wondering why he even wanted to to begin with. or any other straight man. what's he getting out of it? sure, I felt good but I wasn't the one asking for it. what's in it for him?
we just want to fully dominate you and own you during sex. we want to defile every square centimeter of your body. we want to destroy you from every angle possible, from every position and in all the holes where our dick possibly can fit in. we demand your total submission. we want you to give us your body, all of it.
wow, so it's more about dominance than it feels better?
at least for me it is yes.
Sorry but I think more highly of a woman. Yes, there is a natural side of wanting to dominate her because it was originally a built in mechanism of a male wanting to protect the female. Now days though, porn has twisted that to dominate her by hitting her, slap her, violate her, and cause pain. She has become nothing more than an object. She is dehumanized. When you dehumanize someone, there can be no love because you don't have to love or care for the feelings or wellbeing of an object. I know of men who love their car or truck (object) more than the woman in his life. Its twisted and in my opinion, is not an expression of love at all. Its sad really.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Thats a good question. I don't understand the fixation with it. With respect to other opinions, I think its vile and disrespectful. Even if the girl wants it. It also seems very sickening to me. The anus was made for byproducts to exit the body. It does not naturally become lubed, and it is tight enough that it seems like it could be very painful as well as cause tissue damage. The vagina is naturally made to accommodate the penis. It naturally becomes wet to stimulation, it feels amazing to slide in, and its just downright beautiful and seems right by all my instincts. I personally wouldn't penetrate anything but.
It is because the vagina gets loose over time and use.
Some men want to feel the experience of a tight place again, and well, there is where the anus comes in.
Dude you know absolutely nothing about vaginas. Do some research. If you're watching porn, stop.
Lolo is this a joke? Did ya miss biology 101
I quote: "If you stretch elastic a great deal, over time, it fatigues and no longer snaps back entirely. That can happen to the vaginas of young women after multiple births. Their vaginal muscles fatigue and no longer fully contract. In addition, aging fatigues vaginal muscle. Whether or not women have given birth, as they grow older, they may complain of looseness."
Because a woman's asshole is not a man's asshole. The asshole is tighter than the pussy. Or so I hear. I've never done it. Almost one time, I was playing chicken with her and she chickened out first.
The boys who've talked to me about it say (a) they like the view of my bottom, (b) I am tight there, (c) they like the feeling of giving me a little pain as they push the c--k in, (d) they like imagining that I have male s-xual parts, (e) it's easier to make love with the panties on, lowered at the back, (f) they can wrap their hands around my breasts.
cuz they just wanna fuck anything!!
Something different.
They are follow fads and because everyone does it they want to.
The guy is thin/small and the butt is tighter.
He's worried about getting her pregnant and anal is the only sex other than oral with 100% birth control.
I have no interest in it. But for the majority of Guys it is related to being brainwashed by too much porn
Amen!!! I fully agree. Porn creates unnatural affections and unrealistic expectations.
Lots of women apparently love it because of orgasms, and guys have fetishes.
curiosity + they might actually have enjoyed the experience so they wanna do it again
I wouldn't be with a man who wanted anal sex. I would consider him gay or bi.
Why did Sir Edmund Hillary want to climb Mt. Everest? Because it's there!
A girl's asshole is a turn on. When she's bent over and you're fucking her from behind it's right there. And there's a little bit of the taboo thing going on. And it does feel good, and for some girls they like it too. But you have to know what you're doing and do it right.
My ex wanted to try fingering me in anal and I said no. That's gross.
I've never wanted it, but it doesn't make a man any less straight for wanting anal sex with a woman.
I have a mate who is fucked up. he likes to give and receive anal with his mrs. she has a strap on that she uses on him, and he loves grossing us out with it if we are at his drinking. the both of them are just really experimental in bed.
Because the first time we heard about it, we were told we couldn't have it. We immediately thought "Ewe, that's not real... Did I say I wanted it... Why would I ask for that... Why indeed?" We get stuck on the why. So much so that we finally get too curious we start hinting about it then asking for it. But where I live I've never had to ask for it. I think that's because some women get stuck on the why as well. And to some extent it's because men in general cannot go back sexually. Once it's given it's on the sex table forever.
I never wanted to try anal on my girlfriend... She was the one who kept trying to convince me to do it.
Tighter, variety, naughty, no babies.
I'm straight, and i could take anal or leave it. I've only done it for 2 reasons:
1/ the girl asked, she wanted it either to do it, or because she LOVES it - and many girls DO love it, some even say they have the best orgasms FROM anal.
2/ I missed (ie went in the wrong hole by accident in a less likely sex position, etc.)
I enjoy it from an animalistic perspective, ie defiling ALL her holes... makes me feel powerful. But I'd never choose the ass if I had to choose between those 3 holes and only get 1. Lastly, it is usually tighter than the vagina, but you also don't "hit bottom" since there is none... and I prefer to hit bottom.
I do however like to lick a girl's ass, but that's a femdom thing.
well I never asked for it but he keeps trying...
not sure... it could be a hint of a gay issue, don't see why not. but as my case proves-there can be a variety of reasons for ass-interest. In my case again, it's that I love to be dominated by a woman, including told/forced to lick her feet, ass, pussy... love it. But a desire to fuck the ass primarily (as chief turn on) strikes me as possibly a gay thing-maybe he's bisexual or in the closet? It would be easy to tell depending on how he acts around males. Not that it matters if you guys have good chemistry
I never wanted it.
why do you want a guy to flick your bean? that´s what lesbians do. men penetrate.
you see th point here is that there are different ways and places you can get pleasure from. the anal region is very sensitive and can be super pleasurable. that doesn´t mean that you have a desire for another guy to pleasure that area, cause you´re not gay xD
as m on f anal sex, it´s just another way to give pleasure and experiment with your girl. they just want to see how it feels. it´s not like they imagine sticking it into a mans butt xD
ok but if he's done it before what about it makes him want it again?
maybe it felt good, maybe it was exciting, maybe it was visually very stimulating. different reasons. why would it be a good thing if he doesn´t want it again? ^^
I dont know I'm not into it at all.
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