Are YOU dominant or submissive?

In life and in bed
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I used to think I was pretty dominant in relationships but, I realize that's because my ex was pretty whipped, and I realized that I prefer the "submissive" role. Hence, why he's an ex. When I'm at school or work, I would t call it "dominant" as much as confident, and I guess some people could see that as intimidating or "dominant" but, it's not like I'm pushing power plays or anything. When with family, I'm definitely more laid back, quiet, and "submissive."

  • I am a sexy big titted big, ass submissive seductive bitch in bed,,, i use my femininity and my cute face a lot in bed, i need him to show me who is the man, and grab and kiss me hard,,,, I am just a cute girly girl in life,,, so it suits me. But i only had sex with my beloved boyfriend, so i am none of that with anyone else.

  • None of them. We like to communicate on an equal base and explore the ideas both parties suggest. Sex is about exploration and open communication and both have ideas about it

  • I think the second but only because it's easy, srsly.

    • I love debating though.

    • Why'd you stop replying on my take then? lol

    • @Chico_brah You took it really srsly. It seemed like there was no point to me anymore. Although on that note, I had a new idea recently. I was reading a thread on why women like bdsm... and the women all said that they liked it not because he was dom, but because it made then feel extremely wanted and desired. So, it's not really my idea but a new way of looking at things for me. I had always thought the dom guy did things to please himself, or for the sub/dom dynamic and the emotional part. But no... the women all said they did it for themselves because the more aggressive he is in bed, the more self control he loses. And he's losing it because she's so hot. I hadn't thought of the sub being the real one in control before, and not actually caring about the dom emotionally... or at least not more than she cares for her own satisfaction.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Dominant in bed, more so submissive in life but not to say i can't be dominant when the time calls, but im more so a chill and relaxed person, don't really care too much and a pushover.

  • Dominant both. I try not to be all the time but people are dumb I don't no. In bed maybe every once in a long while I can be a little submissive. How bout u asker?

    • Im complicated

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Submissive. In life no. In bed yes.

  • Dominant in bed. Very.

  • Mix of both. I enjoy taking both roles as necessary.

  • Life: Submissive

  • Dominant in my day to day life and work.
    Submissive to my partner with tendencies to Top from the bottom.

  • Submissive overall.

  • In life I'm not very confrontational and try to do everything without worrying the other person or people's. I've gotten better in the sense I stand for me. In bed I'm definitely submissive but I also like Turing tables and being a tease.

  • I'm striving to be more dominant in life, but I'm so far submissive.

    ... and I'm submissive in bed 😉

  • In life, I'm more submissive, I think. In bed, I like to switch roles with him but generally am happier being submissive.

  • remains to be seen I suppose.

  • Dominant in Life and prefer to mix it up in bed... I guess that is why I prefer aggressive/dominant women.

  • A little of both, but probably more dominant in life, less so in bed but I go with the flow and take the lead when needed.

  • Dominant, I put her in her place

    • 🤔😒

    • I hope that's just the bedroom right?

    • yeah

  • Life, dominant.
    Bed, submissive.

  • I'm more dominant in relationships and day to day life. In the bedroom it's the same and I'm in control,

  • I don't subscribe to the idea behind this terminology.

  • Dominant and dominant. stubborn AF and things always need to go my way.

  • A switch here, but i go to the extremes when doninant, guys protect your balls.

    • *dominant

  • I can play both ways... but I have a weakness for women who take charge I am not gonna lie.

  • Definitely dominant.

    • To clarify: dominant both inside and outside the bedroom.

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