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Does anyone prefer pegging to standard vaginal sex?

I have been with my boyfriend for year and a half now and from the very start it wasn't like most relationships. I asked him out, planned dates and later on he confessed that he would like me to lead in the relationship. I was happy doing this and things are still great. The thing is around 5 months ago, we both went to a seminar on sexuality thinking it would be fun and boy was it. The main topic being discussed was pegging (a woman penatrating a man with a strapon) and both my boyfriend and myself knew we had to try it. We got a toy together, something called a feeldoe, which allows me to receive direct stimulation through the act too and since then we haven't gone back. He loves being taken up the ass and I love giving it. After we tried it a few times, we both ended up confessing that we preferred it to normal sex. He loved the feeling of prostate stimulation and also feeling submissive to me and I managed to have some of the best orgasms from by end of the feeldoe and loved the feeling of being in control and making him moan like a girl. We both decided that pegging would become the standard when we would have sex in the future and five months later it's still our firm favourite. We have only had vaginal sex three times in this time, the rest was pegging.

I realise that most people won't share our sexual kinks but I got to ask how many people also prefer pegging/strapon sex over regular ol' vaginal sex?
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  • definitely prefer being pegged to PIV sex. Both of us have multiple incredibly strong orgasms and hours long sex that way as oppsed to trying to last an hour and having only one weaker orgasm... mine. and the feeldoe or straponme (our favourite) is a definite reason. Definitely recommend a harness anyway though so it doesn't slip out at a key moment and allows the female partner wearing it to finish when SHE's ready without distraction! Also if youve ever wondered about squirting orgasms, this might happen so relax enjoy letting go and have a great time!

  • that sounds great :) I'm not a big fan of pegging, but my girlfriend is also the dominant one. We dont have vaginal sex at all, because she doesn't like it. But I use finger, mouth and vibrators to make her cum. I prefer all these things over vaginal sex, even if I dont get to cum ;)

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  • omg yes, i have not had piv with boyfriend for months.

    i locked him in a chastity cage 7 months ago but only foound out about pegging a while later, i have been pegging him almost every day for 3 months, i want to get a bigger toy for him

    at first he wasn't keen on pegging but didn't say no, he now just accepts this makes me happy he makes sure his clean and ready for him whenever we are home

    • well ur relation seems quite hot and trustworthy as u haven't done piv for months , this means ur relation is not limited to sex only. as ur boyfriend seems to be submissive , u should give him bigger toys to know his limits and also try blindfold, tied and also use butt plug for several days on him and give him rims i assure u he will definitely like it but i want to ask something that u have locked him in chastity for 7 months so he haven't got urge to get boner and have u allowed him to cum

    • My wife locks me in a chastity cage too. And of course pegs me as well.

    • @Loving_Husband thts very nice how much u get pegged and by how much big dildo

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  • Yes i love pounding him a wanking him, he always plays with me till I cum after

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  • I definitely prefer being pegged and anal sex to vaginal, and my girlfriend prefers pegging me. I've started wearing a butt plug to help me be more comfortable with anal sex and wear short shirts at home so my Girlfriend can flip up my skirt and we can have sex, we are like rabbits! lol! I'm now in chasity so it is just anal sex for me and totally loving it!

  • I'm actually quite surprised at how many men on here have done it and love it. I've never done it and not sure about the idea. It feels like the woman has little to no care for the guy and is just in it to feminize them. Maybe I'm wrong, but from what I've seen, it's like the woman treats the man like a pet or a play thing and that's all he is to them.

    • How would you like to cum, cum, cum with ten times the feeling you get with penile release? Yes!!! It’s that good!!! If you’ve never orgasumed from you P spot... then you’re missing out. Dude , it’s insanely my favorite. I’m addicted ! It was never my idea ! So many chicks that I’ve been with , wanted to do it to me. Don’t act like some macho idiot. It’s Not Gay... Get that into your mind.. You’re having normal sex with a chick ! Not a guy!

  • Gotta have both tbh. Nothing can replace a pussy for my dick.

  • We tried it and I didn't think I would like it but my wife had done some prostate stim with her finger so I figured why not. It was great and some days I have like an itching for it but other days I really want my wifes vagina. I normally do vaginal on days we peg though so I think vaginal still wins but OMG its amazing.

  • The very idea of being dominated by a female sounds very unpalatable to me. So all credit to him...

    • It isn't about dominating and submitting, but sharing a sensual joy, between two EQUAL partners. A hetero guy has to be very confident in his sexuality, to not see it as some kind of submissive thing, because our society tells us that it is!! A woman, using a toy, loving him, anally? How isn't that 'freaky' or 'gay' or he is a 'sissy' doing that? SOCIAL STEREOTYPES, and PROGRAMMING!! Why can't a woman, in a relationship love him, in this very intimate, personal way? how is it wrong, or all the horrible things that those that are afraid of it, might call it? What are guys so afraid of, with this? With the right woman, you can have the most INTENSE, MIND-BLOWING ORGASMS, and women are soft, and sensual, and it is REALLY AMAZING, feeling her hold you, hearing her breathing as she gives you that AMAZING feeling!! Not some 'PORN' kind of 'POUNDING', but more sensual, loving, and erotic. It's more of a personal, intimate thing, between two, that know, and care, than a sexual thing!

    • @SomeGuy37 Well I agree with you. And I appreciate the sensuality. However it seems there are active and passive dynamics in all relationships. Remember, reality is more descriptive. It's society that puts negative connotations on being passive. Also, there are advantages to being passive, ie choice and discernment: You get to choose who you learn from. But yeah, nothing against what you describe. I just prefer a 'normal' relationship right now. Because that's just what I desire. Simple as.

  • I love been pegged but my girlfriend is not a big fan :/ we've only did it twice

  • I like a girl to peg me but I’m down to vaginal for sure do women enjoy being pegged to

  • I want a woman who fucks other men and cuckolds me I love waiting at home knowing my girlfriend is getting pounded by whomever she wants and fucks me with a huge strapon dildo I was to fuck her right when she gets home from Fucking others and she tells me about the big black cocks I let and want her to have ill cherish this woman and do all she wants why do I want to be cuckholded and want pegged bout I'm not gay only want my woman to peg me unless she wanted otherwise I'd be in total heaven

  • Does a feeldoe actually stay in (you)?

    Looking at pictures it seems as if it wouldn't stand up to the pushin'.

    • Oh, and I'd be willing to try it, but I can't imagine it being better than vaginal sex (for either of us). But congrats on finding a like minded companion, you really hit the jackpot, as I can't imagine it would be that common.

    • Good Keagle muscles keep it in.

  • I love pegging, but wouldn't say I prefer it over vaginal sex. Although I think quite a few times with vaginal sex previous girlfriends have had a finger or two or a toy in my ass at the same time lol!

    There are definitely times though when I'm really craving a good pegging though.

  • Not tried pegging yet but I'd give it a go. However I wouldn't think that would come the norm. I'd still be more into having her pussy and ass for my own cock too haha.

  • Lucky dude :)

  • I love being pegged

    • Share the details!! Missionary, or doggie? What's your favorite part?

  • I definitely would but I'm also very submissive and would like a girl to take control of my orgasms with a chastity cage and cuckold me too and make me clean her out I'm also bi tho

  • It's her call, but I'm sure glad she prefers regular sex. Even though she can cum from pegging me, there is no substitute for penis in vagina for her.

  • My girlfriend and I like to peg, but we mix ours up.. I actually orgasm from getting it the ass.

  • i prefer pegging same as piv sex , its quite natural i think boys holes are also meant for fucking but the difference in girls and boys holes is only that girls holes are also to make babies otherwise for sex they both are to be fucked
    u r right at ur place if u like it there is nothing wrong in it
    i think u should try new things such as new positions and new toys like double sided dildo

  • I wish my wife loved to peg me, but she's only into other guys.

  • I dont see the appeal of it but if other people want to do that ok.

  • I love it but don't prefer it. Happy that you do and that you're both experimenting and finding what works for you. 😊
    Have you considered taking it even further?

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