Guys, Do guys ever orgasm. Is it the same way a girl does?

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I'm use to orgasiming a lot when im rubbing it when im turned on. I can orgasm in under 30 seconds. Having a kink or specific turn on makes it cake. Well for me, a girl, it feels like it throbs when im doing that. And I can tell when i'm about to climax because it starts to throb more, and harder. Like i can feel the muscle contraction getting crazier. If I'm not done I can hold off a climax like 80% of the time if I just stop but sometimes it still happens and it slowly pretty gradually like just "throbs it's self out" so to speak. Feels good. If I want to climax in that moment & I keep rubbing, it pretty much does that but then it gets fast and it's like throbthrobthrobthrobthrob damn. Feels really good/great. I only orgasmed from sex once in my 18 years of life and it feels way different. It feels like a rushy kind of feeling in my chest & pussy and it feels similar to like when you have to pee but way better. I can kind of almost get that same feeling when i have to pee but i hold it. Guys always cum though. When you have sex or give them head. Is that an orgasm? Or is that just what happens when you squeez it enough... I connotate guys with not ever orgasming ever because it is a stereotype that guys tend to come off like girls are so disposable and what not i feel like they'd be more emotionally attached if they actually got that kind of feeling from the head we give or the sex we offer. Like what is an orgasm to a guy and does it *ever* actually happen. I just dont think that's what goes on every time they cum. I get pissed when my boyfriend cums because it makes me feel like he's just trying to get it over with. He does that even when i tell him to try to hold it. The fuck is that?

boshcak · Accepted Answer

I'm not sure if it is the "same way" a girl does. Girls don't ejaculate (well, not sperm, at least.)

You can be pretty sure if a guy spurted semen from his penis (and it is erect) he's just had an orgasm. Guys CAN sperm without an orgasm (sometimes through prostate stimulation) and a very few guys can feel the pleasure of an orgasm but not shoot semen - it can be learned but it is quite difficult to do and requires a lot of discipline.

Subjectively I think it feels much as you describe for us too. But the "structure" of it is different, I think since you guys don't have a penis. Almost all the sexual pleasure I experience is located in and originates from my penis, especially the head and the ridge at the back of the head. Sexual pleasure begins in it, and usually just after it has begun (you get horny and feel nice feelings in it) it starts swelling and comes erect.

Once fully erect the pleasure intensifies - it is like an electric wave going back and forth inside it, and stroking or touching it slowly builds this wave and thrumming sensation. But it is all "projected forward" if I can put it like that, the sensation is that of a cylinder (e. g. the penis body and head) feeling sexual sensations. Nothing is "flat" or into the body (if I can put it like that) that you might experience. This is usually the point where, if you are with someone, you'll insert your penis into her vagina.

As stroking and rubbing continues, the electric feeling inside the penis build and becomes more intense. If you keep rubbing (or thrusting inside a pussy / vulva) or getting licked or sucked, the nice feelings get stronger and stronger. Usually you can tell when the climax is coming, these sexual pleasure waves start getting worse and worse, and at some point it turns from pleasure to delight, and then it usually turns to a kind of anticipatory feeling in the pit of your stomach - your testicles join in the act, and intense delight is felt in the scrotum as they draw up and lie tightly against the root of the penis inside the body.

There is a sense of "suspension" as if you are on the edge of a deep chasm, and then suddenly the tense delight in the penis will explode into sexual ecstasy and the sensation radiates out over the entire body. There is a kind of feeling like desperately needing to pee, and you can usually sense the semen surging into the penis root, and then your whole body kind of screams with sexual ecstasy and your seed bursts from the penis.

vampireelf · Accepted Answer

I think that female and male orgasms are very different. Of cause, noone can tell the difference, because noone can have both kind of orgasms to compare. I think the female version deserves to be called orgasm much more then the male version. For guys, it is a very physical act. You feel the preasure, and at one point, it just happens. Like you really have to pee and that moment when you feel it is coming out. Of cause it is mixed with a lot more feelings then just peeing, but it still is a very preasure orientated act. While a female orgasm isn't about pushing anything out or getting rid of preasure, it is just for pure pleasure.
But on the other side I think that the male orgasm causes a lot more chemicals. Guys are often much more addicted to regular cumming (even 1 day without cumming is aweful for most guys) and after cumming, we get really relaxed and more focused on outself. There are a lot of hormones caused by cumming from a men. While all girls I know feel more emotional after cumming, me and other guys mostly feel emotional more distant after cumming.
It is also really hard for a guy to hold back when he is close to cumming. Its just like your mind goes blank and all you can think of is cumming. It takes a lot of control to hold it back.
In my opinion, girls orgasm and guys ejaculate. I always prefer the female orgasm over the male. The best relationships in my life have been with girls who orgasmed all the time (from fingering, toys or licking) while they never made me cum.

Daveluce · Answer

Well sometimes you can't hold it back, as a guy, but you can try, so either you make him so horny that he cums or he just wants to finish it quick

genericname85 · Answer

girls rub, guys stroke, if that was your question xD ic an´t cum as fast but yeah it´s pretty much the same. in sex though it´s a mind thing. it takes some guys lots of training to not just hump and cum but to enjoy the way instead of going straight to the goal.

Mark987 · Answer

I can tell you my first orgasm... was with the first time I had sex. Totally unexpected. But after it was...

Chadster · Answer

When you take a guy past a certain point it's physically impossible for him to hold it back.

Kim007 · Answer

The climax is for very short time becoz at that time even if we don't squeeze and keep our hands away then automatically the cum comes out... but i have tried once but failed to do so...