My fiance is obsessed with anal and I hate it?
I feel bad because he loves sex and I want my sex drive back but I can't do it, anal hurts too much. I've told him I'd probably start being horny more if hed leave my booty alone but he gets really mad like no no it has to be my fault. frankly it's making me insecure and pissing me off that he's that insensitive to my sexual needs. He acts like he needs it! no man needs it! if it's going to be like this forever I'd rather break it off than marry him.
Sorry for the crap grammar, I'm half asleep and my phone's keyboard is acting up so I'm having to put more thought into what I'm writing than usual lol.
But yeah, what do I do? I can't fix my horny problem because he refuses to see himself as the reason for the problem. hell , foreplay doesn't even turn me on anymore. I find myself uninterested and irritated because I already know he's going be an insensitive jerk. talking doesn't work. saying no only works in making him devise plans to get it anyway. eating tons of taco bell doesn't work. taking graphically about what comes out of there doesn't work. you get the picture. please help!
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