Girls, what do you feel/think if we straight guys masturbates more to gays or solo guys in porn?

Call me stupid, but I got really disappointed/frustrated that straight girl users in porn masturbates more to lesbian or solo girl porn, and says that it is normal. I get it that girls want to see their gender's private body stimulated, as opposed to straight porn. But reading from comments on porn and seeing girls comment the most in non-straight porn, I really feel that girls are more turned on by girls and they are not weirded out by the fact that they're masturbating to girls then say guys dick are ugly or disgusting and are straight. So girls really are centered to their own pleasure, while I as a guy, are more turned on when I see girls feeling good, which is not the case for women. And it feels like girls really don't care if it's a man or women to have sex with them, as long as they're parts are stimulated. Then I searched that in recent studies, so many straight girls are watching lesbian or solo girl porn than straight or guys porn. We straight guys would only want to watch if there's a girl in it. If we guys are to masturbate to gay or guy solo porn than with a girl in it, since we want to see a guy stimulated too, what would you feel or think of us? Would you be disgusted or weirded out or is it normal? Sorry for this stupid question, but my pride as a man is in shatters and it is really immature. I hope you tell me your honest answers.
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Please tell me if it's either disgusting or weird or normal/acceptable. I'm straight cause I'm not romantically or sexually attracted to guys even if I now watch gay porn.
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  • OK as Eli23132 says, lesbian type of porn focuses on the woman and her pleasure. It's easier to imagine then the sensations because we can relate better. Normal porn is VERY much male focused, often showing a girl doing all sorts of degrading acts and not focusing much on the girl's pleasure but just her being jack hammered while moaning intensely. From a girl's perspective, I think it's logical to say that we'll rather want to watch porn that actually appeals to what WE enjoy and can relate to.

    I would say it is more strange for a straight guy to watch gay porn just because of what I say above. Normal porn already caters to the male mind as it is entirely designed for men! It's all about making porn vids to excite the guy.

    • So it would be strange for a straight guy to watch gay porn even if straight porn is his preferred preference? Cause gay porn focuses on more stimulation of a guy's pleasure than straight, like the reason why girls prefer to watch lesbian porn, so why is it strange if we watch this? So even if there's no guy in a porn or sex, as long as girls are feeling pleasure, it's fine and you're still straight. But for guys, if a girl is removed from porn or sex, even if guys feels pleasure, it's strange or gay? Sorry for annoying you this much.

    • Because regular porn is literally designed for men and their pleasure. Clearly it is sufficient otherwise porn wouldn't be a billion dollar industry with porn coming out every day catering for men's needs.

    • Yeah I know that. As a straight guy, I watch more straight porn than any other. But, if a guy watches a porn without a girl, why are we strange or weird or gay, even if we're not romantically or sexually attracted to guys? It's their act that counts just like lesbian porn for girls. So you as a woman, what would you feel if more guys would rather watch porn without your gender in it? This is just hypothetical question, I would like to know what your opinion if we do exactly what you do.

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  • Well I'm just saying what I think. I guess it's because for a lot of girls, penetration doesn't really feel good without the clit being stimulated. So by watching lesbians it's more focused on making the other feeling good so usually rubbing clit and being fingered (all things we can do to ourselves). You guys maybe you get turned on by the physic of girls or in straight porn it's easier for you to imagine being there. Again that's my thought but I didn't do any research so sorry if it doesn't make sense or if I misinterpreted guys.

    • Thanks, I know those facts that girls want their bodies stimulated more than seeing a man getting stimulated. Cause masturbating to the same gender is not supposedly common, but for girls it's normal, for straight guys it's disgusting or you're gay. So I want to know what you girls would feel or think if we too, do the same, watch gays or solo guys than to watch your own gender.

    • I don't know why people think it's disgusting or gay. I don't even know why it's wrong to be gay. You kinda asked the wrong person because I often have a different opinion but anyways. Normal can mean weird for some people. So I guess I'll use the word common. No it's not common for guys to masturbate on gay or solo guys porn. But I find nothing wrong with it and I actually find this understandable since it's more focused on the penis. I just thought guys are more turned on by seeing a naked girl than girls are by seeing a naked guy.

    • Thank you for your wise answer. My question was "what if" so it doesn't really hold truth about general guys. Because the concept of girls watching porn is that they'd rather see a girl being stimulated by any gender, as long as the receiving end gets pleasure, they can masturbate without a guy in it and are still straight right? But when I say "if straight men were to watch gay porn for the same reason girls watch lesbian porn, for our own gender's pleasure, not for the guy's bodies, but for the act they do which has more stimulation than just dicks", that shouldn't be gay right? We are more turned on if there's a female in porn, but, the act that they do in straight porn, always focuses on girls and guys are always just dicks. So I want to see a girl and a guy, having their whole bodies stimulated and loved, just like in lesbian and gay porn, change 2 guys 2 girls to 1 guy 1 girl, that would be perfect. So I didn't watch gay porn for their bodies. Thank you for your opinion!

  • I don't see a problem with it. For me porn is a fantasy that I don't ever really want to participate in, but am turned on by. It doesn't change my sexual orientation, I'm definitely straight and have no interest in doing things with another woman but I do like to watch a variety of things

    • Thanks you for your opinion!

  • If you do that I wouldn't really care, that's what turns you on so there's nothing you can do about it, girls can watch gay porn and guys too, but guys are usually into being a man and " nah bruh that's gay" so what you just said its something society made up, and yeah it's hella stupid

    • No, I'm not saying if you would care if I do watch gay porn. I'm saying is IF straight men were to watch gay porn as how girls watch lesbian porn, and we would jerk off even without women, what would you feel or think of us? Cause if girls fantasize or watch lesbian stuff, they are still called straight and almost everyone say its normal. But for us guys, we're gays if we watch gay porn. So I'm curious as what would you think of us men or what would you feel if we disregard a girl to masturbate but are still straight.

    • Exactly, I wouldn't care, I think that's just the same as a girl watching lesbian porn

    • Thank you for your answer! Cause for us guys who are built to desire girls more than anything specially sexually which is so hard to control. Just thinking that girls wouldn't mind their own gender having sex, which to most men would be disgusted seeing their own gender just kissing, what more have sex with each other, it feels we're really pathetic and undesirable to girls. I know I'm stupid to think like this, but as a man, that hurts me a lot. That's why I got curious if girls too would be hurt or frustrated IF, hypothetically speaking, many men would rather masturbate to gay porn than to porn with girls.

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  • Girls watch lesbian or solo girl porn because they only care about their own pleasure. How can you masturbate to another girl masturbating or eating pussy and call yourself straight? If a guy masturbated to videos of guys jacking off or sucking dick then he'd get called gay.

    • Yeah, that's what most have been saying by both genders. I know I'm straight cause I'm not really romantically and sexually to guys both in reality and porn, girls are still for me. But now, when I watch gay or solo guy porn, they do things that doesn't really shown in straight porn or done by girls, I didn't watch them for their bodies. But I'm now called gay for doing this, but for women, they're still straight and it's normal. But for us, we're gay or weird.

  • I understand where you're coming from and I woundn't judge you or any guy who does this.

    That woundn't be my cup of tea though, since I find naked male bodies to be a turn off.

    • Thank you! I'm not just talking about myself, it's IF GUYS would do this and you understood this. Well If we watch gay porn for their act, not their bodies, because they do stimulation which is often neglected in a guy's body, that's my point because girls watch lesbian porn for the same reason. But we're judge to be gay cause we watch were there is no girl in it, but for girls, even if there's no guy in it, they're still straight. Of course porn with girls is still for me, but imagining the things lesbian and gay porn do, perfect stimulation for both gender, that would be better than straight porn. Thank you for your answer.

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  • Being aroused by the same gender either means you are homosexual, or bisexual. These girls are probably just afraid to admit it to themselves. There is nothing wrong with being gay, bi, or lesbian.

    • Yeah that's what I thought to girls watching lesbian porn. But from what I've observed, they're claiming they're straight even if they're watching lesbian porn, because the stimulation is focused on the girl's needs. I understand that, but IF guys were to try that reasoning to watch gay porn, of course it's just hypothetical question, cause I know most guys won't do this, then they should still be straight right? Cause the stimulation of a guy's body is that matters, not the actors' bodies. That's why most people can't even answer my question cause they're bringing up the they're gay if they do this, and women should be the only thing guys can masturbate to right? But for women, they can masturbate without men right? So that's why the question even exists, to see if girls would be fine, freaked out or hurt if straight guys do this too, even IF both genders' circumstances are equal for same-sex porn.

    • Well, I'm completely accepting of freedom of choice and of being the way that "God" made you. It would not bother me in the least if any man did this, so long as my man is still also interested in me. If he woke up gay one day, sure I'd be hurt over losing him, but I wouldn't take it personal, hold it against him, or be bitter at him over it. I would respect his choice, accept his decision, appreciate his honesty with me, and admire his honesty with himself.

    • Thank you for your opinion! You really understood the question and the point I made. I really respect you for how you think. Thank you!

  • I think you are missing the reason behind why girls (or me anyway) watch lesbian porn. But if you want to watch guys only, knock yourself out.

    • I know as to why girls prefer to watch lesbian porn, cause it focus on female pleasure. But gay porn also focuses on male pleasure too. But my question is if, say, more than half of straight guys do it too, watch gay porn, what would you think of us? Cause our definition of straight is there should always be a woman in it. But for girls, it doesn't need to be have man, but they're still straight.

    • You're a lesbian

    • If they showed men pleasuring women and focusing on our needs, I'd watch that. Since all straight porn focuses on men getting pleasure as well as the visual stimulation guys enjoy of naked women id feel the only reason a guy wanted to only watch men masturbationg or partaking in gay porn, Was that he prefers to look at men and therefore must be gay.

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  • I wouldn't date a guy who was attracted to other men.

    • No, not attracted to other men, I said, if guys were to masturbate to gay porn like the reason how girls masturbate to lesbian porn, for our own gender's pleasure. Lesbian porn focuses on female pleasure and gay porn for male pleasure. So IF guys will watch gay porn, not the guys' bodies, but for the act they do to give and receive pleasure, the same reason girls watch lesbian porn, what would you think of guys?

    • I don't see it that way. No part of me wants to watch any lesbian or gay porn for anything. And I don't see a straight man watching gay porn for any reason other than some kind of attraction.

    • Ah I get what you're saying. Since you are neither into lesbian nor gay porn, I really know why you wouldn't date a guy who watches gay porn. But straight men do watch gay porn or read yaoi, not for the sexual or romantic attraction or the actors' bodies, but for the sex act that isn't done in other porn. Now I try to watch it for this fact, but I still wouldn't want a man, cause I'm still straight and girls are for me! Thank you for your response, I know the question was weird but still, I appreciate your opinion!

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  • To me if a man says he's Straight but touch himself to gay stuff then he's not straight he might be secretly bi sexual.

  • If that works for you, alrught then

    • So it's fine if straight guys you know, say 50-60 percent, masturbate more to our own gender than yours? This is just hypothetical question.

    • I don't care honestly. If that works for him, it's good, right?

    • Thank you for your answer! I thought girls would be freaked out, get disgusted or frustrated by this thought if more than half of guys were to watch their own gender than your gender in porn. Thanks, it seems it really is me overthinking this

  • lmao buddy it is your choice but girls do so cause the female body is just better looking (IN MY OPINION)

    • No, the question is not about me. It's about "what if guys were to". Cause we're labeled as gay even if, hypothetically, try to watch porn for the same reason girls do to lesbian porn. Of course those guys in IF are still straight and only attracted to men. That's why it's what if, cause I know most guys won't really do it in real life. So the thing that I want to see is the reaction of girls without labeling them as gay. But thanks for your opinion by the way.

    • you are welcome, guys can do it too no one cares... why do you care if girls called it gay anyway if you like it you do you

  • I watch mostly solo guy & a little gay male porn, personally.

    • So what would you feel if guys too, watch them? Of course, not because they will watch it for the guys' bodies, cause they're straight, but they will watch it for the act of pleasure, not the actors in it.

    • Hey, whatever he likes.

    • Thanks for your opinion!

  • Its a form of cheating if I am dating you

    • So if a guy has a girlfriend that watches lesbian porn, isn't that cheating?

    • Yeah it is

  • i think that you are defs gay and dont deny it

    • No I'm not. Even if I look at guys, I'm not sexually and romantically attracted to them. I just want to know what you girls would feel or think of us guys, say half of straight men would watch gay porn for male pleasure for the same reason straight girls watch lesbian porn. Cause the logic is that straight guys will always need girls, or else he's gay but girls doesn't need guys to masturbate and are still straight. So if we straight guys did the same to you, what would you think of us? What would you feel if we are more aroused on watching guys doing the act, not to their bodies that's why we're straight, and we don't need girls to jerk off? You as a girl, have privilege to be straight and not judged too harshly even if you have sex with both genders, while we guys are not and girls seem to take for granted that we straight guys really are into girls and cannot be replaced by guys.

  • I wouldn't care at all.

    • Thank you, this is equality for us guys too! Hehe

  • I'd think he was gay

    • No I'm not gay cause I'm still not romantically and sexually attracted to guys. I know I'm still straight that's why some part of me are frustrated by this fact. Maybe if I was bi or gay, I would care about it since this question seems a bit stupid, but It hunts me

    • I was just sharing my opinion. Maybe you're still confused about your sexual orientation? I never heard a straight guy masturbate to solo male or gay porn. I have a gay friend and he'd tell you the same thing I did. Also, this is just my opinion, not trying to insult anyone, but you asked what we felt/thought about this so this is my answer.

    • Hypothetically speaking, if straight guys too, masturbate to gay porn or solo guys. What would you feel or think of us? I'm pretty sure I'm straight cause I'm still attracted to girls and you told me I'm gay. So I didn't get to know what you think or feel by this question. Sorry for being persistent.

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